298: Transforming Guilt, Fear, and Jealousy Into Love, Harmony, and Abundance

Welcome to Heal Yourself, Change Your Life.
My name is Brandy Gillmore, and after recovering from my own life-changing injury, it’s become my mission to share with others the same discoveries I made that changed my health and my entire life. Our minds are truly incredible. The placebo is proof of this.

Each week, I will take this simple awareness to a whole new level. I will even coach live callers to free themselves of physical pain using only their mind. And then I’ll provide you with a combination of practical and spiritual insights that you can use to master your mind and your energy to help you heal your health, yourself, and your life.

Let’s begin.

Hello and welcome. It is so wonderful to connect with you. I just love that you are

here continuing to expand your mind, your energy, your consciousness, your healing- I

just love it and I just love today’s episode for so many reasons. One of the

things that I love is that you can see in this episode some of the challenges of

the reason that healing can feel challenging or even shifting your mindset or

transformation. You can just witness and observe so many of those things of why that

it can feel so stuck and of course what you want to do instead to get unstuck and

so I just I love the insights from today’s episode and I also just absolutely love

our beautiful volunteer I just I love herself awareness her self -honesty her heart

and her desire to really want to change. Just so many things. Now,

our volunteer, her name is Wilde and as you’ll recall, we actually started working

with her on last week’s episode and actually what I mean by that is I actually

only had one session with her. However, that session was a little bit long and so

I cut it into two pieces, part one and part two. And so today We’re diving into

part two, and as a reminder, on part one, we had been talking about the feeling of

deserving, the feeling of being willing to receive, feeling safe to receive,

or even feeling guilty about receiving. And so that’s what we had been talking

about. And today, we dive even deeper to what’s really going on also at a deeper

deeper level because sometimes for some people there is that just that feeling of

guilt towards receiving and in other cases there can be deeper patterns and that’s

where we’re going today is also there’s a feeling of did you know others will be

jealous and even more so you’ll see really all of the pieces of the puzzle as they

unfold and of course if you missed part one, I’d strongly recommend starting there.

So you really understand the unfoldment of it because, you know, the reality of it

is, is that so often people can have different issues or blocks with receiving,

if you will, you know, in my own case, I had a feeling of survivor’s guilt from 9

/11. So as I was working on healing myself, one of the things that came up for me

was exactly that was just the survivor’s guilt and feeling guilty,

of course, for surviving. So then receiving and having a great life and being happy

and healthy felt bad and guilty. And so in my own case, I had receiving put in a

different way. And so that’s what we discussed on last week’s episode on part one,

if you will, of the session. And so if you haven’t listened to it, I strongly

recommend starting there and then, of course, if you have,

here we go to the next level of understanding what’s really going on at an even

deeper level. That said, let’s go ahead and dive in with our beautiful volunteer,

Wild. Here we go.

Now, if I ask Also, how much you have honestly felt guilty for feeling like you’ve

received more than your sister. What would you say?

– Yes, 50. So I’m gonna ask you to breathe

and take in the awareness that if you’re feeling guilty about something, you’re

telling the universe you deserve punishment.

Okay.

So I’m gonna ask you to breathe.

So when do you want your sister to fix these emotions for you?

Okay, so I’m gonna ask you to breathe

Now notice I did I pushed a little bit there, of course I push you Thank you so

much. Thank you. That’s always done with absolute respect and adoration So I’m gonna

ask you to breathe and so notice what I said. When do you want your sister to fix

those emotions for you? And it’s because, of course, you’re the power. And of

course, if you wait for her to fix those emotions for you, that doesn’t make any

sense. Okay, so notice and notice the part of you that has that feels a welling up

of tears on the inside. Can you see that? Uh -huh. There’s a lot of emotion around

this. Can you see that? Okay, so I’m going to ask you to breathe. And I want you

to think about the awareness. You mentioned that your sister is an intense person,

right? So yeah, so this is the thing. It comes down to this.

Everybody has their own patterns, their own stuff. And if you say, well, I can’t

change my patterns until somebody else changes their patterns and this patterns and

this and this and this. Okay, that’s exactly what happens is when in the universe

patterns, when there’s a right hand, there’s a left hand, so to speak. Okay, so

when there’s an energy, so you guys are reciprocal energies of each other.

And if you say, well, she has to just change her side of the street first before

I’m gonna change my side of the street, she might say the exact same thing. Oh, my

sister has to change her side of the street first before I change my side of the

street. Now who’s going to change? And not only that, but what happens is if she,

let’s say she does change first. What would likely happen if you were still holding

onto this energy? You would still attract it somewhere else, a partner, a friend,

this, that, like, or a child, whatever it is.

You would attract the same type of thing. Now, by the way, I’ve worked with people

who felt like their sister was really, really jealous, cleaned up that relationship,

fell in love with, maybe let’s say, for example, fell in love with a man who had

a child, teenage child, who was then really, really jealous of the relationship and

sabotaging the relationship. So then suddenly she’s in love with this wonderful man

who’s amazing. And then there’s the jealous daughter, who’s eight years old, six

years old, 12 years old, whatever it is, a teenager, whatnot, who’s now going, I

can’t have the love of my life because of this jealous child. So the pattern just

shows up in a different way. Does that make sense? Yeah. Okay, so I’m gonna ask

you to breathe.

So what am I asking you to do? I’m asking you to not feel guilty about receiving.

I’m asking you to, that if she has feelings of, that maybe she’s not jealous,

but not feeling that anymore of feeling like, so you’re not carrying that feeling,

right? Now, watch this. Okay, if I ask you…

Bingo, if I ask you zero to ten, how much you’re jealous of Oprah, what would you say?

I don’t know, maybe five. Okay.

So if I ask you, you feel jealous of Oprah? Maybe envious.

Okay.

She’s just connecting with so many people. I just would like more connection. Okay.

So I’m going to ask you to breathe. And I want you to notice that feeling where

you feel jealous of her or envious of her. Can you see that?

Okay. Now, if you ask me, do I feel jealous or envious of her zero to ten as

zero? Do I feel like she’s done some remarkable things and have so much respect for

her? Absolutely.

But I don’t feel the feeling of jealous or envious at all. Those aren’t my patterns.

So what my point is is I want you to notice if you look at your life,

how much you can see that jealousy has been a pattern in your life. Can you see

that? Yeah. Zero to ten, how much? Ten. So what I would say is part of the reason

that you’re expecting that she’s jealous is you’re also projecting that she’s jealous.

So you have patterns of jealousy, so you expect then others are too. Others have

them. Okay, so if I ask you, how much would you say your mother is a jealous

person? As a jealous person? Okay, so notice that,

Right, now if I ask you, do you think about a close friend of yours?

If I ask you how much you would say she has a jealous personality, what would you say?

I’m, maybe I have five?

Okay, so, I’m thinking of a particular friend in a particular scenario that would bring about some jealousy.

Okay, and you know anybody who’s not jealous at all? Yeah

Okay, so I’m gonna ask you to breathe and

what does that look like for somebody to not actually be jealous at all?

What does that look like? Peaceful. Peaceful. So, so the thing of it is,

is it if you know your thoughts help create your life,

would you want to feel jealous of others or maybe even just inspired by others?

others just inspired okay so so I’m gonna ask you to breathe so are you sure that

others are jealous of your success or jealous of what you’re receiving are

you sure that others are jealous of what you’re receiving okay if I ask you bingo

if I ask you how jealous you are of Michael Jordan, what would you say? I’m not

jealous of him. You’re not jealous of him. Okay, but he’s received quite a lot of

things in his lifetime, right? Yeah. But you’re not jealous of him? No.

Okay, so I’m gonna ask you to breathe so

he can receive and you’re not jealous of him,

So I’m going to ask you to breathe.

So what if you can receive and people aren’t jealous of you?

What if you can receive and you can receive and receive and receive and people

aren’t jealous of you?

What does that look like? So if Michael Jordan can receive, and receive,

and receive, and receive, and you’re not jealous of him.

What does that look like? What does that feel like?

Oh, with my sister, it feels really challenging to fathom that.

Okay, so this is what you just said. If I ask you how much you believe your

thoughts help create your life, what would you say? 100%. So, if your thoughts help

create your life 100 % and I say, “I can’t even fathom what it would look like for

somebody to not be jealous.” How soon am I to creating that?

Yeah.

I can’t even fathom what it would look like for somebody to not be jealous. By the

way, my thoughts help create my life. How soon till I can create that?

What would you say? So notice what you’re saying, right? And so the fact that you

can’t even fathom it is basically what you’re saying is, I can’t even fathom it.

No wonder why I haven’t created that.

All right, so let’s go ahead and pause it just for a quick moment. You know, first

and foremost, I just love herself awareness, herself honesty, just beautiful.

And you know, as you recall, in part one, she mentioned that she felt like

everybody was yelling at her and upset with her, like there’s just these feelings.

And when we start to unpack it, there’s this feeling of feeling like everybody’s

jealous. And she can’t even fathom what it would look like for that change to

happen for everybody to be okay with it. And so one of the things that you’ll want

to note right here is exactly this is it so often people can feel stuck between a

rock and a hard place. It is a norm where people feel like there’s no way out of

the situation that they’re in and that is common and you know so often even and I

can tell you working with people even with quote -unquote terminal illnesses or all

kinds of things there’s so often this feeling that there’s no way out there’s no

way to actually change situation and circumstances and of course There is,

as we change ourselves, but it can feel like it’s impossible,

and as you’ll notice when we dive back in, you’ll notice there’s a lot of hurt

emotion around this, even more than she’s saying, you know, a lot of she’s trying

to suppress these emotions, but there’s a lot of hurt. And so, ultimately,

of course, changing that and seeing a way out is going to be key. And so that’s

where we’re going as we step back in with our beautiful volunteer, Wild. Here we

go.

Oh, so you have to change? So you have to rewire your mind to create a real

change in your life? Oh awesome, how fun. What does your life look like if you’re

receiving and having a great life and receiving and

everybody loves it and it feels safe to receive?

Okay, go ahead.

That looks pretty good. Now by the way, watch this, if I ask you to notice the

part of you that is wanting a bigger and bigger and more successful life, what

would you say? Yeah, watch this, is if I said I want to have a bigger and bigger

successful life and I feel like everybody’s going to hate me and be jealous, how

does that feel? Terrible. Terrible, right?

So the thing of it is, is to really manifest a great life. We have to feel like

it’s gonna be better. We also have to feel like it’s an integrity. It’s an

integrity, it feels good. So if we’re feeling guilty or bad or taking from others

or whatever it is, it’s not gonna be sustainable.

That make sense? Yeah, someone asked you to breathe.

So if I ask you, is this asking you for real change.

It’s a real change. Yeah. Yeah, awesome. Now,

by the way, let’s say your life looked like that, that you didn’t feel guilt for

receiving, and you didn’t feel like people are going to feel jealous, but actually

that it’s going to be harmonious and great. Now, by the way, have you ever seen

somebody succeed before, and everybody around them was happy for them? Yeah.

Well, that’s manifesting some greatness, isn’t it? Yeah. Oh.

Am I asking you to make a change for something in a negative way,

or would that be a great change for your life?

That’d be great. It’d be great, right? Okay. So So I’m gonna ask you to breathe.

Now, this is the thing. Can you see how you’ve been just telling yourself in your

mind, my mom and sister are the problem, they’re out of control, they’re da, da,

da, da, da, it’s them, it’s them, it’s them, it’s them, there’s nothing I can do.

Can you see that? – Yeah. – Yet, when you start to look inside, you can see how

you’ve had those inner magnets, if you will, those inner patterns that are actually

perpetuating and creating that problem and attracting that problem, you see that?

– Yeah. – Great, so do you feel like you should blame yourself? – No. – No,

good answer. No, no, no self blame, but if you empower yourself and you say okay,

’cause sometimes people go, oh, it’s not just my mom and my sister, oh, I’ve had

this pattern and then they just wanna blame themselves. That’s a big waste of time

and not just taking the pendulum and swinging it in the other direction in the

wrong direction, instead of just going to a place of empowerment and saying, okay,

great, I can address these emotions and start transforming them, right? – Yeah.

– Okay, so I’m gonna ask you to breathe.

Bingo. Give me one second.

Okay, there is so much hurt around this. You can see that, right?

A lot. A lot, a lot.

In other words, bingo. Give me one second,

because I’m

just I’m looking at it, it’s kind of like this. There’s a stuckness.

And to start moving out of it, you would need to be able to program in the

positive and really start going towards the positive. And this is what I mean, is

if I told you I feel like everybody’s yelling at me, my sister and my mom are

yelling at me and they’re just out of control. How safe do I feel? I don’t feel

safe. I don’t. And if I said to even picture a picture where my sisters aren’t

jealous it’s hard to even fathom. Okay, so notice what I’m saying to you is I

don’t even fathom that there’s a safeness in this. Does that make sense? Yeah. Now

the thing of it is, is this, is part of a big part of what’s also perpetuating

it, is actually your belief that people are jealous and your feelings of jealousy

that are so high that you expect others to be. Okay, I see that.

All right, so let’s go ahead and pause there just for a quick moment, you know,

first and foremost, I just love herself awareness. I love herself honesty, just a

brilliant, beautiful being. And, you know, what she just noticed is she said, you

know, I can’t even fathom what that looks like. And I love herself awareness.

And so often, the mind can feel that very thing, where it’s hard to even fathom.

What, what would it even look like? What would it be like to create that change?

Now, of course, since our own thoughts help create our lives, if we can’t even

fathom something, it becomes hard to really change. And so there’s a few things

you’ll wanna know. Just one part, of course, is to just start getting it into the

mind and starting to just see what that would even look like. So there is a

newness to it, but there are also deeper reasons that the mind can actually block

you. And so that’s the other part of where we’re going as we step back in with

our beautiful volunteer, Wild. Here we go.

Now, the thing of it is, is this is part of a big part of what’s also

perpetuating it is actually your belief that people are jealous and your feelings of

jealousy that are so high that you expect others to be. – Okay, I see that. – And

so what happens is, is if I said, “Oh my gosh, I’m not gonna talk to you ’cause

I’m gonna expect you’re jealous.” And then in your head, you’re like, “Oh, why is

she being so cold to me and just acting superior to me. So each, it perpetuates

the problem in a different way. Does that make sense? – Yeah. – So what I would say

is, is that moving it forward, you’ve got to feel some type of safety.

So in other words, I don’t want to push. So if I push somebody, so it’s kind of

like the analogy I always use is this, is if somebody’s standing in front of a

bus. Then there’s a bus coming and they can’t see it. You’d want to push them out

of the way so they don’t get hit by the bus, right? But if somebody’s running as

fast as they can and they’re running and they’re running and they’re running and you

push somebody who’s already running as fast as they can and you push them, what

happens? You push them over, right? It’s not a good thing. So my point is there’s

sometimes when it’s good to push and sometimes when it’s not good to push. And

right now, I don’t want to push you. I want you to start seeing in a different

way. And I want you to start, I want you to start seeing in a different way.

And so what I want you to do is I want you to start seeing where there are

people who are not jealous and start seeing that and also to start being willing to

let go of your own jealousy towards things. So instead of feeling jealous, you feel

like, hey, I could have, I can do, I can be, I can create type of feeling,

right? Now, it’s a little tricky because you want to make sure that you’re also in

good integrity. So in other words, sometimes people will go, I’m not going to be

jealous of so -and -so’s husband. Instead, I’ll just picture myself with him. Okay,

there’s an integrity issue. So they went from jealousy to integrity issue and what?

So it’s got to be, we can’t suddenly start trying to take from others in a

different way either. Does that make sense? Yeah. So, but instead of being jealous,

saying, well, I could create my own this or that or whatnot, right?

Bingo. So I’m going to ask you to breathe. And I want you to picture yourself

actually just walking around feeling great in life and that you’re seeing your

sisters, they’re not jealous of your success or what you’re receiving. They’re not

jealous, but instead you’re seeing everything as being a lot more harmonious and

you’re also seeing that you’re not jealous either and you’re willing to start

shifting that genuinely.

Now the more you shift your own, the more you’ll be able to fathom that they’re

not either. And then also instead of feeling spoiled. So notice in the very

beginning where I said you like feeling spoiled and you’re like, yeah, right? So

your brain has liked that and I want you to take it to the next level of instead

feeling gracious. does that make sense? Yeah. Bingo.

And this is, and also feeling gracious and not feeling guilty for receiving.

Okay. So one way to put it is also like this.

Okay, so think about this for a moment, just kind of up -leveling programming. If a

second grader stands up for themselves. That might be a good thing. They’re standing

up for themselves. They’re having a voice, right? But if a 30 year old,

40, 50, is always needing to stand up for themselves, stand up for themselves, stand

up for themselves, stand up for themselves, stand up for themselves, stand up. You

might say, well, why are you not manifesting respect already? Like why? It’s a lot

of combativeness.

Like Like, if you still need always, why not, why, you know, manifesting harmonious

relationships, manifesting respect where you’re feeling like that would be even more

amazing. So if somebody goes, yeah, I’m proud of standing up for myself, I’m like,

okay, well, that’s great when you’re in second grade, but always needing to stand up

for yourself. Can you create harmonious relationships that are loving and kind and

sweet and respectful that you’re walking into the room and you’re respecting others

and feeling respected. Does that make sense? Yeah. So as far as the spoiled goes,

okay, you felt spoiled as a kid, okay, but okay, but wouldn’t it feel better as an

adult to feel gracious and grateful and receiving and deserving and, and flattered

and gracious and grateful and, and have great deserving energy around it to feel the

abundance without and guilty about it. Does that make sense? Yeah. Great. So I’m

going to ask you to breathe. And if I ask you how this feels to you, how does

this feel to you? Um,

good. Big change or small change? And really big change.

Yeah. Great. And I’m open to pushing if the universe is open to it with you?

Yeah, this is the thing, right? I’m gonna ask you to close your eyes.

And if I ask you how safe it feels to change, 0 to 10,

what would you say? A 10 right now. Okay. And if I ask you how safe it feels to

change around your sisters, what would you say? And your mom is a negative 10.

Exactly. So even though it’s a 10 in this container. Yeah. Okay. So in other words,

I want you to take this information and start applying instead of I don’t want to.

Yeah. So, so believe me, I would definitely push if I felt like it’s in your best

interest. The other thing is, is I want you to want it,

right? If I ask you how much there’s a part of you that might be a little bit

stubborn, what would you say?

Ten. Ten foot, right? Yeah. So that the reality of it is,

is even with you, I could push and you want it.

When you want something, how much do you go after it. 10. 10. Yeah. If somebody

tries to push you into something. How do you what do you do towards it?

You resist. So we both know, yeah, that the only way you’re actually going to make

this is when you what? When you want it? Yeah. You’ve got to want it.

I do – I do want the harmony. – Yep, but I really do.

– Yep, someone asked you to breathe. And how much do you want to change you,

honestly? – 10. – Okay, so if I ask you an hour ago,

how much did you want to change you versus changing them? – I’m open to changing

– I hear you. – Me. – I hear you. Zero to 10, how much did you want to change

them?

– A 10 plus. – So watch this. If I ask you right now how much you want to change

you, what would you say? – A 10.

– Bingo.

Now, if you want to change yourself at a level 10, over this week, or two, or

three or four. How’s it gonna go? Great. Uh -huh.

Yeah. Great. So I’m gonna ask you to breathe.

And I want you to want to keep this change and reinforce it and get it in every

day. Because if you want to change you, you will change you. Okay.

This is gonna require You also though showing up in a different way. So part of

what I’m also saying is this is I want you to notice how you’re looking and seeing

things through a new lens. How much are you seeing things through a new lens right

now? 10. Exactly. So you wanting to change and simultaneously seeing things through a

different lens. That’s what we need. Does that make sense?

– Bingo. So I’m gonna ask you to breathe.

Bingo. And honestly, this is what I hear you saying. Is I hear you saying, “Push

me, I can take it.” And when I go to, and with the absolute, you know, if you’ve

listened to past episodes, you know I will gladly do it. If it feels the right,

like the right thing, I will gladly do that. I know. And right now,

I would say there’s multiple things. One I feel like if I push you, it’s not going

to be helpful. Number one, most important. Number two, I feel like you wrapping your

head around it. If I ask, you are a very strong personality.

You see that, right? Yeah. Yes. So the thing of it is, notice the example that I

used earlier and I said, if your friend is standing in front of a bus and they

don’t see it, how much would you push them out of the way, right? But if they’re

already willing to get out of the way, how much do you need to push them?

Are you willing to get out of the way of the bus? So why do I need to push?

So I’m going to ask you to breathe.

Now, if you said to me, “Brandy, I’m not going to change. I don’t want to change.”

It’s all their fault. I would need to then push to help you see it in a different

way. Wait a second. This is your pattern. So I’m going to ask you to breathe. I

mean, if there was an area that I was going to push more in, it would be this.

Can you see the part of you that likes to feel pampered when you’re sick. Can you

see that? Yeah. Yeah, I would definitely change that. So that’s the area.

I would say making sure not to want because there’s a part of you who really likes

to be pampered. And so that would be an area. But other than that,

even so, there’s just a lot of, there’s

a lot of hurt here. And so this isn’t something, exactly, it’s not a push.

It’s kind of like this. So I’m going to ask you to breathe.

Okay, so,

okay, so the example that I used early on, when I said, if a child’s in second

grade and they feel like they got, they receive something and all of the other

second graders are all going to be jealous. What do they do? They hide.

They hide. Now if they don’t see them being as jealous, do they respond in a

different way? Yes. Bingo. So they start acting and showing up in a different way,

right? So the more that you get rid of this jealousy, perception and energy,

the more you’ll also start showing up in a different way regarding your family. The

less you feel guilty about the receiving, also and instead good about receiving and

gracious about receiving, the more you also start showing up in different ways

regarding your family. Does that make sense? Yeah. So that’s where we want the

change is integrating the consciousness and changing the patterns there and starting

to see it in a different way. Mm -hmm. Makes sense, beautiful? Yeah. Great.

Bingo. So if I ask you, is this a little change or a big change? Really big.

And if you didn’t feel like they were yelling at you anymore. So kind of coming

full circle. So notice when we started talking about the health issue, the first

thing that came up was the feeling of feeling like they’re yelling at you,

right? So you starting to get rid of these patterns of feeling guilt, like you need

to be deserving punishment for receiving and you’re getting rid of that and the

jealousy. So you’re starting to also and feeling gracious and grateful is the start

of the shift to really start shifting this connection. Does that make sense,

beautiful? Yeah. Amazing. I love your awareness. Fantastic job.

Fantastic. So I’d love to see you and all of the time I see people who take these

patterns on the inside and they really start changing them and they really start

changing their relationships and I see it all of the time. And so it’d be beautiful

to see you Make that change does that make sense yes fantastic fantastic job with

your energy and

Beautiful Bingo, we are complete it’s been a pleasure connecting with you Okay,

thank you. You’re so so welcome

All right, So let’s go ahead and actually bring everything together and you know

first and foremost I just love her. I love her heart, I love her self -awareness, I

love the fact that she wants to change that just her honesty and self -awareness is

just really really really beautiful and you can feel her desire to want even when

she said you know you can push me and I love that and at the same time though in

this situation that’s not what is needed and if we unpack this a bit more and I

say this in another way you know part of what’s happening is she has a perception

where she’s stuck like she can’t even fathom what it would look like for them to

not be jealous and so it basically when she said you know but you you could push

me imagine if I’m pushing somebody towards fear. You know, they’re terrified of

something and I start pushing them. That’s not the answer here. I don’t want to

push her into fear. That could backfire. And so that’s the reason that you notice

in this situation. I’m not really pushing and you’ll notice on some episodes I do.

And so that’s how you want to apply this to yourself as well,

is that it’s not necessarily always about pushing yourself though sometimes that can

be really powerful you know you push yourself to the next level in a loving way of

course. But in this situation. What we really need is to change perspective is to

start seeing things in a different way to start seeing and so notice there’s a

major perception change in One way to think about it is kind of like this, is that

if you’re trying to transform and change your life, but you perceive that you’re

going towards a bear that’s extremely upset and going to attack you, it doesn’t feel

safe to keep pushing yourself and pushing yourself forward. That perspective isn’t

going to help, but if you actually Change your perspective and you start to see oh,

it’s just a teddy bear now The fear goes away and it feels easier to change and

so what you notice in this situation is changing her perspective changing her own

perspective towards Jealousy and not feeling jealous, but then also Seeing and showing

up in a way where she can connect with others and there is not that jealousy

feeling. And so there’s, again, there’s a lot of layers here, but the biggest thing

you’ll want to know is this, is that so often in healing, we really have to be

able to see things in a different way. And I’m gonna tell you, the people who have

the hardest time with healing themselves are the people who feel like they’re always

right. Those are the most challenging. Why? Because in self healing,

you have to be willing to see things from a different perspective. Like in my own

life, I had to be willing to make my mind programming wrong, erred,

you know, going, “Wait a second, that doesn’t make sense.” So I had to be willing

to then invalidate my own mind programming to really genuinely see things in a

different way and you’ve probably seen people like this maybe in your own life where

you know no matter what you say they’re right they have one perspective they’re

stuck to that perspective they’re right they’re always right they’re defending their

perspective they’re keeping their perspective etc etc if your mind does that Likely,

healing is going to be very challenging for you because, again, part of healing

yourself is being willing to see things in a different way, to really shift your

perspective and to change it. Now, of course, if we look at some of the technical

information behind that, there are neural pathways, the mind can get stuck for many

reasons, et cetera, et cetera. So, it’s not a judgment if you are somebody who has

your mind, who’s very, very stuck. It’s just an awareness. It’s just an awareness

that you want to bring in that you really will need to be willing to change,

willing to see things in a new way to shift your consciousness regarding the

situation. So even if we look at this situation right here, if she starts seeing In

a different consciousness so where she’s you know thinking about the bigger picture

the whole session She’s not feeling guilty about receiving because that’s one thing.

She’s feeling bad feeling guilty about it Also, if she doesn’t see with jealousy and

she’s seeing instead with abundance She’s not going to expect that everybody else is

jealous and of course that then can show up in her subconscious actions, etc.

You know, when I use the example of the child that feels everybody’s going to be

jealous, you know, it shows up in subconscious actions and behaviors that then

perpetuate the problem, etc. And so what happens is,

is you can see the layers of transformation that when we start to really change our

mindset and program our minds that it then shows up in the way we’re feeling and

thinking and perceiving but also in our behavior or subconscious actions that then

ultimately when we change these results in a genuine transformation of who we are

how we feel the way that we’re showing up in life and our relationships and so

That might be a lot for some people or it might be an amazing clarifying summary.

But when you look at that bigger picture, it’s truly incredible when we start

changing on the inside, the level and the depth of change that ultimately occurs

around us and inside of us and in our lives and in our future. So I love that.

And again, that might have been way too much for some people, or it might have

been an amazing big picture, but that’s ultimately what you want to do is to

embrace a real change. And by the way, on that note, you hear me say at the end

of every single episode, you hear me say that when it comes to healing, I make it

look very easy, but it does take a real transformation. And this is what I’m

talking about is that, of course, as you’re changing yourself and your mind

programming and your energy and your patterns, you change your consciousness, you see

things in another way and ultimately you transform your life,

yourself, the relationships, the connections all around you. And so it’s absolutely

incredible. That might be a lot. So on that note, if you are somebody who is

really looking to transform At a deeper level and really make this change and heal

yourself change your life I do have a video course that actually breaks this all

down step by step by step That walks you through exactly how to do that to shift

your consciousness the actions all of it to embrace that real transformation So

there’s that but just in general what you want to think about is Exactly this is

just remembering that a real change is key for real healing.

And so those are the insights from today’s episode and as always, I ask that you

please do take just a quick moment to hit the share button on this episode. You

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episode and please do make a point to have the most wonderful incredible rest of

your day. And I look forward to connecting with you on the next episode. We’ll see

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I make it look very easy because of the discoveries that I made. You’ll want to

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