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Welcome to Heal Yourself, Change your Life. My name is Brandy Gillmore and after recovering from my own life, changing injury is become my mission to share with others the same discoveries I made that changed my health and my entire. Our minds are truly incredible. The placebo is proof of this. Each week, I will take this simple awareness to a whole new level.
I will even coach live callers to free themselves of physical pain using only their minds. And then I'll provide you with a combination of practical and spiritual insights that you can use to master your mind, your emotions, and your. To help you heal your health, yourself, and your life. Let's begin.
Hello, and welcome to this week's quick IQ episode, where we talk about insights and questions. And today I have a really powerful question slash comment from a listener. That is very insightful and I wanted to share it with you. And it has to do with the topic of success. And, you know, on the last few podcast episodes, I've been working with our beautiful volunteer, Sarah.
And if you recall in Sarah's case, Her wanting to be successful has also been, what's giving her a lot of fatigue and affecting her health and it's all linked up. And so for that reason, I wanna share with you a few insights that you could bring in to help you to start to shift this in your life.
Because I see this so often, you know, and by the. On that health note really quickly, you know, when it comes to healing your health and your life, all of the time, I'll see people who are literally trying to, you know, look at every single trauma they've ever had and digging through it to try to heal. And of course, it's great to heal past trauma and all of that, but ultimately what happens is, you know, they're working on healing, their body, and they think that it's connected to some type of trauma.
So they're looking and looking and looking, and yet it's connected to their feelings towards success and where they're wanting to go. Just like with Sarah, the feeling of being so ambitious and she is just such a beautiful being with great self-awareness. Great insight. I just love her. And of course, I see this all of the time with other people as well, you know, feeling like they wanna succeed in life, but then everybody will hate them if they do and, and feeling guilty and, and all of that.
And that's actually the comment that came in, it was on Instagram. And the person who wrote it on Instagram said I needed this episode today. Thank you so much, Brandy. I grew up hearing so much disdain for rich people that I know my subconscious is afraid of not being liked by my family. If I become successful.
And I have to say, I hear these comments and these words all of the time in a variety of different ways, because people will find themselves struggling really hard in life with, you know, financial struggles and fear and worries, and, and all of that stress. Or of course, as I mentioned, you know, it can affect your health.
And so for that reason, I wanna share with you a few key insights that you can use in your life. Begin to start shifting this feeling and this energy in your life. And so starting with number one, the first insight is to make sure that your belief about these people around you is true. You know, whether it's your family or your friends or whoever you're believing, doesn't like success and money.
Make sure it's true. And really. Notice where it's actually untrue. And what I mean by that is this is that all of the time I'll work with somebody who's been stuck in this area, who's feeling hurt or stressed or has health issues or all kinds of things. And now feel like their family. Really doesn't like success and hates money and hates people with money.
And I, I see that all the time. And then I'll say, okay, well, your, family, of course, hate Oprah, right? I say, no, well, they love her. Oh, okay. Well, they do know that Oprah's wealthy and successful. Right. And so when they start to put two and two together, they realize the underlying belief of hating wealthy people.
That isn't a hundred percent true. And so that's the first insight that I wanna invite you to take a look at is noticing that all the time people will have this belief, but if you start to break it down, even more, you'll realize it's not actually true with a lot of people. Usually, there's something. about the success or money that they don't like.
It's not the person and we'll go there in a second, but you know, that's what you really want to notice is just looking where it is not true. And by the way, I can tell you that I work with an incredible being who she, you know, has run her own business and became very, very, very successful at a young age, with a business that, you know, making a great difference in the world and sold that and has just done a lot of really incredible things and then got more and more into spirituality.
And started sabotaging everything and feeling like, oh my gosh, you know, spiritual people, don't like money and it's bad to have possessions and all these things. And in the process of, of becoming spiritual basically ended up, you know, close to losing just about everything and stressed and angst and anxiety attacks and all of these.
now, what was interesting is that when I started working with her and we started talking about this very topic, she said, you know, all of the people in my spiritual circle, they really just talk poorly about money. They don't like money. And, and so, you know, that was the topic that came up for her when we were working together.
And I then asked her, I said, well, how many of them have vision boards or meditations about prosper? And she started to think about it. And she started to realize literally every single one of them did some type of energy class or visualization on money or something to bring in more abundance and that they wanted abundance.
They just were very stuck in this area and he. Creating it in their lives. And I'm sure part of the reason they were stuck is probably cuz they also spoke poorly about money all of the time as well. So point being, from this is that if she only listened to what they were saying, where they were saying, oh, I don't like people with money or possessions or different things like that.
You know, if you only listen to what they were saying, then it felt like they didn't like money and success and any of that stuff. if she started to look at their actions and what they were doing, and also people that they liked, she started to see that it wasn't even true, that she had all these beliefs, that people didn't like money and success, and it wasn't even true.
And so that was a very powerful shift for her. And she went on to start another company and, and be abundant and successful in that. And it's great about the planet. And, you know, she. Just moved through it. Now, of course in her situation, there were multiple things going on. So that was one of the things, but that was an important pivot for her.
And I see that all the time. And so that's insight. Number one is to just notice if that's happening in your life and if so, be willing to change that and look at things in a different way. So that's number one. And number two has to do. Kindness and integrity. You know, a lot of times when you hear people complaining about success or money, it's because they're noticing that maybe somebody is arrogant or rude or, you know, not a very nice person in one way or another.
And so what'll happen is from that place, you know, people say, oh, I don't like wealthy people, or I don't like this, or I don't like that. And so you, of course, you don't wanna be that, you know, being the whole picture. It’s important, being loving, kind, sweet, caring, and have money. So money and love, are both very, very, very important.
And of course, That leads to number three, which has specifically to do with integrity and around money. You want to make sure to always have really, really good integrity. And I can tell you that one big thing that will affect your money is if you are integrity, or if you're out of integrity, that is key and it can affect your health, your life, and a variety of different ways.
And so making sure. You're in good integrity with money is key also. And by the way, I have to say that I know as soon as I mention integrity or, you know, being out of integrity, there is a certain percentage of people who are gonna feel a bit triggered as soon as they hear that. And if that is you, please don't judge yourself.
Don't criticize yourself. Just notice that there's a trigger there and get very lovingly determined. To change that inside of you. So it's not affecting your health and your life because it of course will do so. So make sure to change that and make sure not to judge yourself, you know, doing it with love is key.
And lastly, number four, you know, let's be honest. Some people do hate success and money, and if that's your family or the people around you. I wanna invite you to be a great role model of being in integrity and being a great person and emanating love. And also what you wanna do to really open this energy up inside of you is to just decide something that is important to you.
That money and success can help fuel. You know, like for example, if somebody said, you know, the more money and success that I have, the more. I can travel and see the world with my partner. And that is what means so much to me or somebody else might say, you know, the more money and success I have, the more, it means that I can take vacations and trips with my partner to travel and see different parts of the world.
And that means so much to me. And so maybe it's that, but when you have that fuel, that can also help open up money. In you of really wanting it to expand more love to expand more joy, or even if you said, you know, I'd really love to make even more money, to have more freedom in life and do the things that I love.
And if you're really feeling that way, then that can help with your money and energy in general. And not only that but if you're around people who really want the best for you. If they know that you're wanting success and money because it means something important to you. It means love to you. It means more freedom to you.
It means a more full, passionate, wonderful spirit, full life, you know, getting to experience more of the world, whatever that is, than it feels. More comfortable. It feels good. And then you can just emanate and, and be that role model and point being is that even if they are not a fan of success and money, you can stand your ground and emanate that and be that, and even potentially change their perspective, you know because everybody likes different things in the world and you've gotta be willing.
To stand firmly in who you are, you know? And so if that is something that is important to you, we're bothering you at some level, you know, you wanna make sure to transform this area of your life, you know, and one way to think about it is, you know, somebody's favorite color might be blue and somebody else might be pink or green or whatever, you know, a different.
And even if it's not everybody else's favorite color, you have maybe your favorite color or colors or colors that you prefer. Everybody does have, you know, typically colors they're more drawn towards. And so you wouldn't worry about somebody criticizing you for your favorite color, you know?
And so the point is, practicing really feeling good and feeling harmonious with people that it's safe to have your beliefs towards money. It is safe to have money safe to emanate money, and really practice that. So that is another shift that you can make in your life. And embody that. And by the way, I have to say, this is part of what I did in my own life.
You know, when I got better from my injury and I healed and I was in that place of being healed and I hadn't worked in several years and I had been on disability. I mean, I was. I was broke. I was a mess. I was in a bad place financially, you know, and I didn't care, you know, I was just happy to get better.
So I was going to do personal training and, you know, fitness because I knew at the time I needed to get in shape and build strength and, and all of that. So that's what I started doing. But then I also really started changing my beliefs towards money. And being okay with it. And then, you know, there was a big part of me that was like, oh my God, my family's gonna criticize me.
If I make more money or people are gonna criticize me. And the thing of it is, is I started just really coming from a place of deciding what was important to me. And, you know, you can do more things with people. when you have more money and that is important to be able to connect, to do the things you love to connect.
You know, my, my family, they live outta state, so to go visit them and travel and stuff like that, it does, it takes money to do that. So to me, money is a connector. It means. More being able to connect with people. And the other thing that is important to me is, you know, I really want to make a big difference in the way people see their health.
I want to change the way that people see healthcare and our bodies and our minds. And, and that is something that I really, really want with all of my being. So I started looking at this whole success and money thing, and I said, well, you know, I can't do. If I'm broke, that's not gonna work. You know, I was looking at mother Teresa, even, you know, raised millions and millions of dollars and was a millionaire herself to be able to make the difference that she did and looking at anybody who's ever made.
A real difference, especially in our current times, you know, you have to have the means to be able to do that. And so to me, one of the things I linked up in my mind as well is that, you know, just having money made it easier to make a bigger difference and to have a bigger team that can help me out with things.
And by the way, I have an absolutely amazing team that I just love, like with my heart, which is so great, because then again, money equates to more love. I just, I, I love individually every single person who works for me, I just love them. I just they're. They're it's I feel blessed. And so what that said, I wanna invite you to look at these and notice if any of these apply to you.
And if so, I wanna invite you to start making that shift, especially. If this topic right here is something that's going on with your health as well, but even for your life, you know, the truth of it is when money is in the right balance, it is more spiritful, you know, you can connect more with love, more connection, more freedom, more living this world and this life to its fullest.
And so ultimately that can help you to live and we're fulfilling and empowered. The experience here, of course. And so that said, by the way, on the note of empowerment, I wanna ask you to please do make a point to hit this sheer button on this episode, you know, share it with somebody you love or somebody who's struggling.
Somebody you care about somebody who, you know, could use an uplift, or even during this time when everybody's been mentioning. Recession word and inflation word, etcetera, etcetera. Uh, you know, maybe if somebody is stressing that, you know, of make sure to send 'em this podcast. And by the way, just a final note, you know, all the time when people are talking about bringing more money into their lives, in a spiritual sense, you know, a lot of times.
If they're not taking any action, they just kind of want the money to fall on their lap. And something you'll want to keep in mind is that, you know, when you align to money, a lot of times what does happen is you start having ideas of what you could do. And that's part of the reason by the way, that integrity is also important because, you know, imagine if someone.
You know, wanting to align with money. And what would normally happen is, you know, you align with money and then you start to have more ideas. Come through you go, oh my God, I could do this. Or I could do this. And it's fun. You know, you just go, oh my God. And it is, it's aligning with money. You flow with it.
You have that inspired thought idea. And then you of course take action on it. Now all the time, what I will see is I'll see people. Who has been out of integrity with money, and then they're, you know, wanting more money to come in and wanting more money to come in. And they feel really blocked. They feel like it's impossible.
It's a struggle. They can't do it. And of course, part of the reason is that they're out of integrity. So it's blocking the flow of what could otherwise come in. And so staying in integrity is extremely important. And so too can action, you know, taking action on ideas. That can also be important as well.
And so, as I was saying, you know, sending it to somebody who loves somebody who cares about somebody who's maybe even stressed and needs some awareness and maybe shifting energy to create an even better life for themselves, for their family, you know, just to live a more spirit full. Experience. And of course, that is my hope for you.
Success, health, happiness, love, and a spirit full life, you know, living life to its fullest. And so that said it has been such a pleasure connecting with you. And I look forward to connecting with you on the next episode, have an incredible rest of your day.
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