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Welcome to Heal Yourself, Change Your Life. My name is Brandy Gillmore and after recovering from my own life changing injury, it's become my mission to share with others the same discoveries I made that changed my health and my entire life. Our minds are truly incredible. The placebo is proof of this.

Each week, I will take this simple awareness to a whole new level. I will even coach live callers to free themselves of physical pain using only their mind. And then I'll provide you with a combination of practical and spiritual insights that you can use to master your mind, your emotions, and your energy to help you heal your health, yourself, and your life.

Let's begin.

Hello and happy, beautiful day to you. Welcome to today's quick IQ episode where we talk about insights and questions. And today I want to share a very powerful insight from a mother that I worked with recently, who was having some patterns that were affecting her daughter. And you're just going to absolutely love these insights because they're common.

They're all around us. And not only that, they can affect children, but they can also. affect adults. And they are, but just most people don't realize it. And so, a lot of times this programming that we have in our subconscious mind, it's so hidden. And, and not only that, but it can be completely illogical.

And because it's not logical, we think, Oh, That doesn't make sense. You know, we've all heard that phrase before that somebody can feel alone in a crowded room Well, how can you feel alone in a crowded room? But that's our emotions That's how the mind works and yes those emotions of feeling alone in a crowded room alone in life can definitely impact Impact your health, your happiness, your life, your connections.

You know, it can impact you in so many ways and changing that, reprogramming the mind is going to be key. Now, in this case, there's another common pattern that we'll see here that you can use this, by the way, for yourself or even for your children. And that, and I hope you do, it's a really important insight.

And it's this. So this beautiful, beautiful mom reached out to me and And Her daughter had been basically experiencing back pain and she kept saying, owie, owie, back pain, and yet nothing was wrong. And they kept checking her out and everything was fine. And so, but she's still saying she has pain and she's like two years old.

And so she's still saying she has pain. And, and, and, you know, she, she wasn't horrible, but she's, you know, You know, two year old saying she has pain for like two weeks and not only that, but then she also had a cold and whatnot. So I checked into her energy to see what was going on and you'd be surprised.

What it had to do with is this. We've all heard of the game before peekaboo, right? Peekaboo with little kids where you peekaboo and you kind of give them a little boo, you scare them. Right? Now, what happens a lot of times, you scare them and then they laugh and whatnot, but when you stop and think about how emotions work, it creates an emotional pattern in the subconscious mind.

And that's exactly what I found in this beautiful little girl is exactly that, is those, those feelings of feeling scared. And it didn't make logical sense because also I have to say. This couple with their child that is just so sweet and loving and thoughtful and incredible, like incredible parents. So attentive and I mean, just beautiful.

And here this little being was feeling scared. And by the way, I can tell you on this note, I have worked with other children, young age, who were experiencing pain or health issues from a neighbor's dog barking that then made them feel scared at night. I mean, it's amazing what I have found even in working with children who have health issues.

I mean, it's, it's mind blowing, but going back to this situation, you know, how many parents or how many people say boo to the kid and create and bring up the feeling of feeling scared. We see these things, they get linked up. Now, if you stop and think about it for a moment, right? I worked with a beautiful being, Shirley, on a past episode, on episode number 247, 248.

And if you recall from that episode, She's experiencing a lot of pain, has all kinds of health issues going on, and you just have so much compassion for her. And of course, cheering her on to, to heal herself. But in that situation, she had a feeling, as a child, of feeling unwanted. And it was counterintuitive because she had very close connection with both of her parents.

Her parents loved her, but what happened is she had been born as the bonus child, if you will. She was unplanned. So when they thought they were done with children, the universe had a different plan for them. And here's, surprise, is a new child. So she's the, the bonus kid, if you will. And so anyway, but she got it linked up that she was Unwanted.

And that got stuck in her mind. And even though she had very loving, wonderful connections with her parents, she still felt that. So my point is, is we can get these patterns linked up at a very young age that can impact our health and our life in a variety of different ways. Now, what is beautiful is this, is with this mom and, and you know, her daughter was experiencing pain and whatnot.

This is what I said. I mentioned the pattern. I said, Oh, she's scared. Why is she feeling all this scared? You know, it feels like she was scared, you know, by her dad. She got scared. And, and, and so, and so basically this is what unraveled. Now, what was beautiful is this, a few things. First and foremost, the mother's response was priceless.

Basically, I told her how to do it. She didn't beat herself up, criticize herself, any of that. She literally said, okay, let's change this. Now, what I had her do was this. And I, is I had her kind of redo the normal pattern, but in slow motion. So instead of saying boo and scaring her, I had her say like in slow motion where she's going, boo, boo, and just being like silly and ridiculous with it to kind of just take the fear out of it, boo, you know, and being playful with it.

So it's no longer a fear thing, but it's just, it's reframing it, if you will, to just let it go. And the beautiful thing is. Is also the back pain went away and everything is great. The daughter's laughing. It's, it's sweet. It's wonderful. And the other thing that was really beautiful is this, is that after that happened, the mom also said, you know what?

You should do a podcast episode on this. And that's what I also love is that her attitude, she wasn't saying, Oh, it's somehow her fault. It's obviously not, but the way she handled it, resolved it, fixed it, laughing, beautiful, connect, just brilliant. On so many levels and changed it. And it's just, it's just beautiful.

And her attitude and her, Hey, you know, if this story can help others, please let it, because let's be honest, it is a cultural norm to say, boo. And those patterns get linked up whether we want them to or not. They can get linked up, you know, just like, you know, a while back, I did a, uh, podcast episode when, you You know, if a, if a child has an owie and an owie, you know, we've heard before, if a young child has an owie, they fall down and scrape their knee or they get a cut and then, you know, a, a loving adult comes by and says, Oh, let me kiss your owie, let me kiss it and make it better.

That that can get linked up in the subconscious mind. And so then love can get linked up to sickness. And so there's just so many ways that we can get patterns and emotions linked up in the subconscious mind that I have seen impact people far beyond what they realize, especially when it's repeated and it's over and over and over and over again.

And as you're listening to this, if this is something that got linked up, you maybe with your children, I invite you. Just change it. Just change it. Just be silly, playful, work on changing it. And by the way, if you're an adult and this has been linked up and it's something that has been linked up in your subconscious mind, then the first step is of course starting to bring in feelings of safety.

over and over again, feelings of safety over and over and over again at a deeper level. So you start changing it. Now, something I do want to highlight is this, is that on these episodes, you know, it's an IQ episode. It's for insights, insights, questions, all of that. And that's what I try to provide. Now. I also want to.

Just be real with what's real and say if you're an adult who does have this, you're going to definitely want to go deeper in releasing childhood patterns. So even when I work with people on episodes, you know, we're still just scratching the surface. If you've read my book, then you know how in depth I am with the mind and how it works and emotions and subconscious links and it's Mind blowing.

It's incredible. I mean, there's a reason that I have been able to show results back to back to back under medical equipment, and it's because I look at the mind in a different way, and I've been able to figure out really powerful insights and keys to working with the mind that have been pivotal, and so that's the reason that I've been able to demonstrate even, you know, people using the mind to heal themselves.

Even under medical equipment. So we just, it's, it's incredible what we're all capable of. And so my point is, is just some of these things that seem insignificant are pivotal. And, you know, when we stop and think about a pattern for a moment, you know, people can have patterns of rejection or patterns of abandonment or the.

Pattern you'll hear me use, unfortunately, all the time is the woman with the abusive father may leave him and find the abusive boyfriend, boss, spouse, et cetera, et cetera. You know, when you think about it for a moment, that pattern continues. You know, or somebody may date somebody who is similar to their dad or critical like their dad or mom or whomever.

Like those patterns can continue. Now notice for a moment, when these patterns continue, it's not like Somebody marries a person who looks like their dad. So the, the, the, the actual experience doesn't look the same. You don't say, Oh, this person looks like my dad. I'll marry them. No, instead the emotional experience, whether it's rejection or hurt or whatnot, these patterns, they're emotional patterns that breathe more of the same.

And so these emotional patterns of boo and fear getting locked in the nervous system may seem unimportant. To a lot of people because it's counterintuitive. You think it's, it's just boo. Like, Oh, it's just saying boo, not a big deal. And yet what is the emotional experience that is going through the nervous system getting programmed in over and over and over again.

And so just food for thought that these feelings, they do get locked in the nervous system. They do matter. And again, if this has happened with you and your children or whatnot, just change it. Don't stress. Don't beat yourself up. Don't feel bad. Don't feel like it's your fault. I mean, it's all around us in our culture.

And that's part of the thing we really need to think about is there are a lot of things we do in our culture that reinforce stress or depression or illness or whatnot. I mean, we live in a world right now where, you know, we're more advanced than ever and we have more illness. than ever and more depression than ever.

And so I just really want to highlight that the mind works so much different than most people realize and creating these changes, even if we feel like it's insignificant, creating emotional changes in the subconscious mind and the nervous system, it's huge. It's transformational. And, you know, even if you think about this beautiful woman where she worked with her child and her child was able to release pain, incredible.

Cool. You know, and she did that and just beautiful. And so I love that. And that's the insight that I want to invite you to take from this is, you know, if you find some emotion that seems insignificant or doesn't make logical sense, you still want to change it. You know, again, if we think about the feeling of feeling alone in a crowded room.

We think, Oh, well, that doesn't make any sense. How are you going to feel lonely in a crowded room? So let's just ignore that. No, that should tell us that there's something really off. You know, if you're, if you're in a crowded room and you feel alone, that's an indication that, Hey, wait a second. There's something miswired in my nervous system, in my mind, in my subconscious mind, that's not, not working right.

And so instead of ignoring it, these are the things that we need to make sure to change, to transform. And so. That's today's insight is exactly that is, I mean, so many be nice to yourself, be kind to yourself, embrace change. If there is boo or fear going on somewhere, make sure to shift that and instead just bring in love.

And if you have illogical patterns, the emotional patterns that just don't make logical sense, instead of avoiding them, ignoring them, dismissing them. So that's today's quick IQ episode. And I want to ask you to please do make a point to hit the share button on this episode. You know, share it with somebody you love, somebody you care about, somebody you don't even know, because the more empowered that every single person is in our world, the better this world is for all of us.

So share it with somebody who has children to let them know that, Hey, you know, I'm a parent. making sure that we're not doing boo, but we're feeling safe. We're feeling love. We're promoting positive emotions. It's just a pivotal, you know, and, and what I love also is this beautiful mom said, yes, please share this information.

And so, so, um, so please do please share this information, share it with somebody you love and also. On that note, please do make a point to have an incredible, wonderful, happy, healthy rest of your day. And I look forward to connecting with you on the next episode. We'll see you then. Thank you for listening to Heal Yourself, Change Your Life.

All of the time people reach out and say how much these episodes have given them hope, or touched their heart, or helped them stay positive in hard times, or even woken them up to a completely new level of awareness. Of how amazing we all really are. If today's episode touched your heart or expanded your mind in any way, please do me a favor and be sure to share it with those you care about or those, you know, who really need it.

As more and more people become empowered, it really will change our world for the better. That is the point and the power of these demonstrations is to create a radical shift in our world consciousness by showing everyone. What we are all capable of. And of course, each volunteer will really need to follow through to reinforce their programming, to maintain their results.

But the point is for you to see that you really can create rapid results in your health and your life, if you really understand how to use your mind, you're incredible. And I do want to be clear though, that most people will not get results this fast on their own. I make it look very easy because of the discoveries that I made.

You'll want to remember that there's so much more going on in our minds at a deeper level than people realize. That said, if you want to send me any questions or comments, come visit me on my website at brandygillmore.com/podcast. And if you're currently experiencing physical pain and would like to be a volunteer on the show, you can sign up there as well.

Lastly, Please remember, if you do have any health issues, you won't want to avoid your doctors. Instead, you'll want to continue seeing them and make it your goal to blow their minds with what you're capable of with your mind. Thank you.