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Welcome to Heal Yourself, Change Your Life. My name is Brandy Gillmore, and after recovering from my own life changing injury, it's become my mission to share with others the same discoveries I made. that changed my health and my entire life. Our minds are truly incredible. The placebo is proof of this.

Each week I will take this simple awareness to a whole new level. I will even coach live callers to free themselves of physical pain using only their mind. And then I'll provide you with a combination of practical and spiritual insights that you can use to master your mind and body. Your emotions and your energy to help you heal your health, yourself and your life.

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Hello and welcome to this week's quick IQ episode where we talk about insights and questions. And today I have a really great question from a listener about how the universe works. And so that said, I'm going to go ahead and dive right in and read her question. And she says, Hi Brandy, I love, love the short IQ episodes.

I am wondering if I could submit a question. I think a picture is emerging for me about how the universe works, and I want to ask you if I am understanding correctly. My feeling is that the universe is neutral. It does not see good and bad. It just helps you get what you want. Even if it's bad for you.

And, that is why we get what we fear, because Universe reads that as a want. So, could it be said that the Universe loves carelessly and freely? You want it, you get it, right? Only rhyme and reason is that there is a creative being, a conscious being, that desires an experience, and it does not matter what that experience is, it loves freely and gives freely.

Thank you for all that you do. All right. So let's go ahead and unpack this. And there's a lot here, a lot of different pieces to the question. So kind of unpacking each step at a time, if we look at first and foremost, kind of breaking this down, you know, she says, my feeling is that the universe is neutral.

It does not see good and bad. It just helps you get what you want. Even if it's bad for you. So let's go ahead and unpack this part for a moment. So first and foremost, I would say that yes, the universe is actually good and vibrates as goodness. And, you know, as we unpack this picture for a moment, um, one way to think about the universe, if, if we just kind of build a picture in our minds, uh, maybe if you think about our world.

And you also think about there are solar systems and galaxies, and when you stop and think about how everything works, I mean, some planets are in orbit over here and, and some, you know, there's the atmosphere over here. So if we look at just kind of the bigger picture, we can see that everything works great.

In a different way in a different place, you know, there's some complexity so there's not like one rule throughout the universe and throughout the galaxy where everything works in the same flow. And so I would say that the same is true as far as manifesting and energy and how the universe works is there's there are some complexities and that it works a bit different in different ways depending upon.

everyone. what subject and what topic. So we could say, depending upon what planet and what, you know, what, um, what solar system that there's things that work in a different way. So. The point being is that there's a lot of different pieces here to unpack that she mentioned, and we're going to kind of bring those together.

So first and foremost, the statement of saying, my feeling is the universe is neutral. It doesn't care good or bad, or it doesn't see good or bad. That part right there, I would say that the universe is good and the universe vibrates as good. And so you could think about the universe as a good thing. A very, very positive euphoric vibration.

So just, if you think in terms of vibration, the universe is a very high positive vibration. So in one regard, we can say that, you know, if we are in positive vibration, high vibration energy. Then we align more with the essence of the universe in general, just because the universe is so good, and that the more that we align with the universe, which is positive energy, the more we attract wonderful positive things, because that's the energy that we're in.

So that's one piece of it. Now, when you say the universe, you know, doesn't see good or bad, I would say that it does. And that it's very complex, but a way to look at it would be to think about, you know, recently, a friend, you know, her daughter went and got a tattoo. Now, of course, everybody feels differently about tattoos.

Some people like them, some people don't necessarily. Now, my friend is not that big of a fan of tattoos. Well, she likes tattoos, but just not on her kids, let's put it that way. And, of course, her daughter is 19, so her daughter is an adult and is free to go get a tattoo. And so, my friend, Didn't stop her daughter from going to get the tattoo because she's at free will now.

She doesn't necessarily Care for it though. So I would say it's kind of that it's that we are in free will to create to an extent. So I want to unpack that more further as well. But I would say, yes, the, the universe does know good from bad in the very essence that the universe is at its core vibrating very, very high energy.

And so I would say that there's alignment to universe and also out of alignment. So you could think about it, you know, like being in, in great orbit or great connection with the universe or not as much. And I guess another way to illustrate. That, as well, as far as, you know, being aligned with the universe would be thinking about being dialed into a certain radio station, you know, on the radio.

If you're partially dialed in, if you're really, really connected, I would say part of, part of, um, the way to illustrate it would be to say that the, the universe is very high vibration and that the more we are high vibration energy, the more we are aligned with that, which is. The universe of which that is wonderful in the universe and I would say that that's why I would say death is when we become completely unaligned.

You know, when our thoughts, emotions, our energy, our beingness is no longer aligned with the universe. Universe and, and universal energy, and I would say that is a form of, of death if you will. Now again, it is complex and I would say that it's kind of like if I, again, the planets is a great way to describe it.

You could say, how does gravitational energy work on this planet compared to this planet? And we can see that there are a variety of different laws to energy, if you will. So unpacking the next part when she says, it just helps you get what you want. even if it's bad for you. Now, I want to unpack this. So first and foremost, I would say really, to an extent, that's not really the case, in though some ways it is.

Um, and so I would say that we are manifesting what we're vibrationally aligned to, yes, but it's not just about ourselves. Either, it also has to do with the people who are around us. You know, for example, I have worked with people before who have had this feeling of wanting to manifest more money. And then, as they manifested more money, what was in their energy is that they could start treating people poorly.

Like, somehow they have this, now, right, you then look down on people and start treating people poorly. And that's what was in their energy. And so, What happened is that they were very, very stuck because of this block towards money. So that was, you know, when I checked their energy, it's like, Oh, well, if you had a bunch of money, you have this belief that you should be able to treat people poorly.

And so what happened is that was their block. You know, they couldn't manifest money for that very reason because it was not aligned with the people around them. Now, If you stop and think about it for a moment, I mean, are there people who do manifest money who are mean to others? Absolutely yes, and because that was more aligned with the people that they were around.

And I'm going to unpack this a bit more, because again, this is complex, but kind of like this. You've heard me on past episodes, you know, say that unfortunately a woman who has an abusive father can grow up. And find an abusive boyfriend, boss, spouse, et cetera, et cetera. And that pattern in relationships continues.

Now this is well known in psychology. There are theories that have been written about it, attachment theory, whatnot. I mean, this is a well known, uh, well established pattern that can happen, right? Now when we take this pattern, for example, I've never had a, an abusive partner, right? Okay, never had somebody punching me or a physically abusive partner ever.

Because that's not my vibrational energy. And so I'm not aligned with attracting that. And so, so my point is, is that when I use these two examples with money, then one person could be being mean to people and they can still attract money into their lives because they have people around them. who are aligned to that.

Whereas another person could want to speak down to people and, and, you know, have more money and speak down or be mean to people. And it doesn't work because that's not what's aligned with the people around them. if that makes sense. So in other words, it really depends on what we're going to even do with what we're wanting to manifest as well.

A common analogy that I'll use for to illustrate this is, you know, if you think about giving somebody a hammer, you know, if somebody has a hammer and they build a dream home with it, great. If somebody has a hammer and they start Vandalizing things and and hurting people with it not so great. And so I would say that the universe doesn't just give you what you want.

It also really depends on what you're gonna do with that hammer, so to speak. And it also depends on how that affects other people as well around you, and also how it equates to love in your life. And so, I'm going to go ahead and unpack that part even more. Again, I mentioned it's going to be a little confusing, so there's, again, different pieces.

Different planets have different gravitational energy, that's kind of the way to look at it. So, you know, so far we've established that the universe is great and positive energy, and it depends on how it affects other people on what you're manifesting. Now, there's another thing that also is a key factor for what you're manifesting, and in her comment, she goes on to say, And that is why we get what we fear, because universe reads that as what we want.

Now this part of the question is complex but in a different way, okay? And so if we look at fear for a moment, fear is not typically what we think it is. Fear is an emotion, yes, that comes up. But, if I unpack this emotion, kind of like this, if we look specifically at fear, some people will have fear because they feel like they deserve punishment.

So basically what happens, imagine if somebody's walking around and they're experiencing life and they have a feeling of, a pattern of feeling guilty about the past. Now as they feel guilty about the past, what also can happen is that there's a feeling of feeling like they deserve punishment for it. So if a person is walking around and they feel guilty about the past and they feel like they deserve punishment for it, then what happens is they can start to have this feeling that something bad is going to happen.

So they're starting to fear things, they're starting to fear things and it's not necessarily because they're fearing it and wanting it, but more so that they feel like they deserve punishment and so fear comes up as a result because then they're afraid of these punishing circumstances. And if we're going to unpack this and give you a simple analogy, it would be like this.

Let's say that somebody is driving a car and there's a part of them that feels like they deserve to have to drive off the cliff. And then the other part of their brain is like, ah, I do not want to drive off a cliff. So part of their brain is in fear because they feel like, oh my gosh, I'm going to drive off a cliff.

And the other part of their brain is saying you deserve to have to drive off a cliff. Okay. And so that's what creates the fear. So fear. is a complexity in itself when we experience that. So that can be two guilt patterns or punishment patterns when people feel the need to have punishment and that's what happens is then they end up with a lot of fear or somebody can really have actions that are out of integrity.

You know, maybe they're being mean to people or they're, you know, taking from people or this, that, the other, and then. As a result, they are attracting punishing type energy, which then creates fear as well. Now on a completely different note, there can be a person who has had a lot of bonding over trauma or a lot of sympathy patterns where they want sympathy in their life.

Now if you think about a person who's walking around who's wanting sympathy, do they want good things to happen in their life? or bad things to happen in their life. Well, technically, if they're connecting through sympathy, then even if they consciously want great things to happen in their life, if there's a part of them who's wanting sympathy, then there's a part of their energy that then subconsciously wants to attract negative things because that person will need to have negative things and bad experience here and a bad experience here and a bad experience here because that's how they get sympathy.

And so again, a little complex, I'm going to take it to the next level here and it's this. It's that if we look at the energy of love, we all need love. We require love. You know, if an infant doesn't get enough love, they can die. If a senior, you know, loses a spouse, they can die. And on a positive note, you know, uh, human connection can help us flourish and live.

Or even, uh, pets. Seniors who have pets live longer. You know, love and connection is so important for us. And so, I would also say that love energy is a priority. And so, on a positive note, When we love something, we can attract more of that. But I would say that on this negative note, if we go back to this example with sympathy and a person gets love from sympathy, then what also happens is they attract more things for sympathy.

And, you know, tying that back to fear, you know, so, so let's say somebody's walking around and they're wanting sympathy and they're wanting sympathy, which means they're wanting to attract negative things. then that also creates more fear because again, it's like driving the car off the cliff. Like if they're wanting sympathy, it's like part of their brain, their subconscious mind is wanting something bad to happen to the car.

And then the other part of the brain is going, Ah, I don't want anything bad to happen and fearing that something bad is going to happen. And so that right there is kind of the lens of fear, is that it happens for a variety of different reasons. And typically, fear is never exactly fear. There's always some layers in the subconscious mind under that.

And so, from this, if we bring this all together, the first thing we can see is, you know, number one, there are complexities. Um, so that's first and foremost, above all. Number two, we can take in the awareness that the universe is good and the universe does care. And that's a great feeling. And And the more that you bring in high vibration positive energy, the more you will be in that alignment with the universe.

And that's an amazing, wonderful feeling. And another thing that you could take from it is you could think about what it is that you're wanting to manifest in life. And you could do two things, you could make sure that you are in vibrational alignment with it. So number one, making sure that you're wanting it, that you're feeling completely aligned with it.

So you're wanting it, you're loving it, you're feeling like you deserve it, you know, you're really, really aligned with it completely. And also you can look at how it would impact other people. You know, I have worked with people before who were terminal. And, you know, they were trying to align themselves to heal to get better and to heal and to get better, but the way that they treated people was really, really, really poorly.

And so they were just saying, okay, well let me take all these diet and all these supplements and they had been doing that for years and they were trying to think positive and manifest the healing and do all these things and the way they treated people and of course their energetic patterns. They weren't in good integrity and weren't in good alignment, so, you know, patterns of manipulation and patterns of being angry and being mean to people.

And that was their energy. And so when you look at that energy and you say they're wanting to manifest being healthy and happy and alive and being out in the world, and by the way, they're going to treat people poorly and mean and hurt people, well, that's not what was aligned for them, around them. And so there's that piece.

And then on that note as well, of course, we can look at and we can see that again going back to the pattern with the woman with the abusive father, we can see that, you know, we can be aligned to negative things. And so that other note is exactly that, is that if you are aligned with negative things or painful things, then of course you want to unalign to them completely and really transform that.

And so again, just multiple pieces. I know it's a lot of information and that's also the gift in it is looking at what specifically you can take and help apply to your life and your awareness to help be more successful and happy and healthy and empowered. And so on that note of empowerment, I'm going to ask you to please do.

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