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Welcome to Heal Yourself, Change Your Life. My name is Brandy Gillmore, and after recovering from my own life changing injury, it's become my mission to share with others the same discoveries I made. that changed my health and my entire life. Our minds are truly incredible. The placebo is proof of this.

Each week I will take this simple awareness to a whole new level. I will even coach live callers to free themselves of physical pain using only their mind. And then I'll provide you with a combination of practical and spiritual insights that you can use to master your mind and body. Your emotions and your energy to help you heal your health, yourself and your life.

Let's begin.

Hello and welcome to this week's quick IQ episode where we talk about insights and questions. And today we have a really great question from a listener and it was on Instagram. So here we go. She says, I have some aha moments listening to this podcast. So she had just listened to last week's podcast and she says, I learned a lot with this podcast.

I listened to it a few times. I would like to ask a question that comes to me. Can I use free will to ask the universe to take charge in the areas that I'm struggling the most or maybe about a specific issue? Can I use my free will to ask the universe to delete a program that doesn't serve me and substitute for a positive one?

All right. So great questions. And all the time I see people who have these very questions. So let's go ahead and unpack this, you know, first and foremost, of course, you can ask the universe for anything you're wanting, you know, so that's first and foremost. So I don't want to say, Nope, you can't ask the universe about this or that.

Um, of course. You know, you have your connection with the universe and you can always absolutely ask. Now I do want to say that it may not show up the way you're wanting it to show up. You know, it just may show up in a different form, meaning this. Meaning, when you say, can you ask the universe to just delete a program that doesn't serve you and to substitute it for a positive one, ultimately, there are a few details that are important for that one.

So if we just look at that part right there about asking the universe to delete a program that doesn't serve you and substituting it for one that is positive and one that does a few things to note. First and foremost, If you ask the universe to just get rid of some of your clothes that you don't want anymore.

You know, likely you're not going to wake up in your house and notice that they're suddenly missing from your closet. You know, chances are what would happen is maybe there's goodwill donation that comes by or something like that and you give them, you to this donation center and then you go get new ones and, and, you know, so ways come around for you to make that real change.

And so that's one thing that you'll want to note is that when working with our minds, We really do need to understand that there is also a physical aspect to that, like there is mind programming. So just like clothes that you wanted to get rid of, you wouldn't wake up and expect them to be gone from your closet.

Or if you decided to get rid of your sofa, you wouldn't wake up and expect it to be gone. And if you did, that'd be really weird. So, meaning that, I don't know that you'd want that, you know, but again, you could have the opportunity for somebody to show up. And then remove that stuff for you, which is how you get rid of it.

Now, similarly, when we have programming in the brain that isn't serving you, that's negative, then you'll need to make the steps to really transform that and change that. Now, what I do want to say though, is there is one little detail here because she says in her question, delete a program that doesn't serve her.

And so this is something that you'll want to note. is that any program that's running in your brain is subconsciously serving you in one way or another. And that is going to be key for making a real change. Meaning this, meaning that, you know, let's say we picture somebody who has a really, really, really hard life.

Like their life is full of all of these struggles. And they say to the universe, can you just take away all these struggles? But you may have heard before where a person can have pride and hardship and, or even a pattern of wanting sympathy. And what happens is let's say that a person does want sympathy, you know, that's their way of getting love.

Well, if all of these hardships are gone, then the person loses their way of love or, you know, going back to the pride and hardship. And you may have heard this before, by the way, if we take a moment and kind of look at pride and hardship, you may have heard somebody say before where one person say, Oh, well, I had these challenges in my day.

And then somebody else goes, You think that's bad? Let me tell you how bad my day was. Or let me tell you how bad my childhood was. And they had this feeling like they had the worst childhood. So it's kind of like they're winning. They're trying to win at having the worst life or the worst situation. And what it creates is it creates a subconscious programming wanting to have hardship.

Now of course if you ask their conscious mind do they want to have hardship they would say no way. But they don't. If there's a pride in hardship, or there's a feeling like I've got the hardest life ever, then, there's a way that those negative programs are serving you. Or again, going back to the awareness of sympathy, let's say that somebody at age 5 Learned to get love through sympathy and that's how they get love, you know, that was their main way So let's say that their family life wasn't so great So they got sympathy love and sympathy love is kind of how they linked up, right?

And that was their primary way of getting love or their patterned way of getting love Now imagine all of a sudden that person grows up They're 40 years old or 50 years old or 30 years of whatever age and then at that point You They say, okay, universe, delete all of the negative from my life. I want all positive.

But the problem is, is that their patterned way of getting love is through sympathy. So now they have no way of getting love, so to speak, because that's the way that they're used to doing it. Now, of course, we'll think consciously, well, yay, the person doesn't want sympathy anyway. Good to get rid of that, but that's the change that has to occur.

And so, that's what you want to think about, is that if a person has patterns of getting love with sympathy, and then their life becomes perfect, now they don't have a way to get love. And so, that's the change that needs to make. So, in other words, you can't just say, hey, universe, delete a program that's not serving me, because, you The actual program is serving you, even if you don't want it to, it's serving you in one way or another.

And that's the reason it is there. And so not only that, but then you'd be asking the universe, Hey universe, can you get rid of this program that is the way that I'm getting love and connection, that would be a problem because it would be like, you know, taking away you need. Because we all need love and connection.

You know, you've probably heard me say on plenty of past episodes, you know, if an infant doesn't get enough love, they can actually die. Or a senior loses a spouse, they can die. We need love and connection. There's a biochemical response. In our bodies to that. And so what happens in life is that so the things that are the hardest and the things that you want to delete, you know, all the time I'll see people who are doing release techniques and release techniques and try to get rid of stuff and rid of stuff and wish it away and send it away and all these things.

But, part of what I always have people do is look at why it's still connected. What part of their mind, what part of their energy is actually wanting the program and to genuinely shift that. Because when you do, that's when you're able to get rid of it. And so that is key. And that's what I want to invite you to do with this is if there is a negative pattern that you have.

Then you'll want to look at why your brain might want it or how you're using it in your life and then shift that because that will help you make that real transformation. So that is key. Now the other part of her question, can I use my free will to ask the universe to take on me? Charge in the areas that I am struggling the most or maybe about a specific item and it's the same answer here as well.

If there's an area that we're struggling in, there's always a reason why and you know, even financially, if somebody's struggling financially, a lot of times they'll have it linked up in their subconscious mind that it's better to to have no money and that if they have a lot of money or plenty of money then it's not safe or it's not fair or maybe this person criticizes people with wealth they criticize people and say oh that person has money and that person has money and then they criticize having more money Then of course, that person is going to struggle more financially because they're telling their brain that it's bad to have more money.

And further, there's a part of their brain that would create a presupposition that if they do have more money, they'll be criticized. And so it's not even safe in those situations to have more money. And, you know, and of course it's safe to have more money, but that's how a person will feel. And so from this, that's what I want to invite you to do is look at these programs, if you will, in a different way.

And see why they're showing up in your life, how they are serving you, and really genuinely transform that in your mind and in your energy. And that's what's key. And so kind of going back to the beginning where I say, you know, the answer, May not always show up exactly the way you're wanting, for example, you know, getting rid of clothes.

There might be something you need to do. And you know, if you've heard my whole injury story where I was injured and I was, I wanted God, universe, divine to help me to heal and What ultimately came up for me was more of the answers were given to me on how to do that, you know, because at the time there wasn't really a way to do it, you know, I was asking almost 20 years ago now, you know, when my injury was, and so when I started asking, how do I heal, begging and asking the universe over and over and over, it wasn't that I just suddenly healed, it was that I kept going and I needed to figure it out and I would say that the universe provided the information.

to where I was able to do it. It was like an unfoldment of finding this information with this information and, and figuring it out. And then I'd have ideas of like, okay, well, if I do this and I do this, then, then this could work. And, and so I would say that the way that the universe provided the answers for me was, Through a combination of information and then understanding neuroscience and then looking at it in a different way and then Understanding the mind and and then ideas would come in on how to work with it And so it was a process now, of course, I'm not saying that it has to take that long at all You know, it took me almost seven years to heal.

But again, you know, I was pretty much Figuring everything out at that time. So you don't want to start there. You don't want it to take seven years to heal or seven years to change your life. You want to be more specific. And so that's what I want to invite you to do from today's podcast episode is look at something that is off in your life that you're struggling and instead of just trying to get rid of it, ask yourself why on earth your subconscious mind would possibly want it.

And then start really changing that pattern. So if the subconscious mind wants it because you've got a pattern of sympathy, then you can write that down and say, Oh, okay, I have a pattern of sympathy and this provides me sympathy on a regular basis. Then you might say to yourself, All right, I am ready to get rid of this pattern of sympathy or hardship pattern or punishment pattern or whatever it is.

To create real change. So that is key for making a transformation. All right. So that said, it has been such a pleasure connecting with you. I'm going to ask you, as always, please do make a point to hit this share button on this episode. You know, share it with somebody you love, somebody you care about, or somebody you don't even know.

The more empowered that every single person is in our world, the more The better this world will be for all of us. And so on that note, please do make a point to enjoy your day, live fully, love fully, enjoy. And I look forward to connecting with you on the next episode. Have an incredible rest of your day.

Thank you for listening to Heal Yourself, Change Your Life. All of the time, people reach out and say how much these episodes have given them hope or touch their heart or help them stay positive in hard times, or even woken them up to a completely new level of awareness. Of how amazing we all really are.

If today's episode touched your heart or expanded your mind in any way, please do me a favor and be sure to share it with those you care about or those, you know, who really need it. As more and more people become empowered, it really will change our world for the better. That is the point, and the power of these demonstrations is to create a radical shift in our world consciousness by showing everyone what we are all capable of.

And of course, each volunteer will really need to follow through to reinforce their programming to maintain their results. But the point is for you to see that you really can create rapid results in your health and your life. If you really understand how to use your mind, you're incredible. And I do want to be clear though, that most people will not get results this fast on their own.

I make it look very easy because of the discoveries that I made. You'll want to remember that there's so much more going on in our minds at a deeper level than people realize. That said, if you want to send me any questions or comments, come visit me on my website at brandygillmore. com slash podcast.

And if you're currently experiencing physical pain and would like to be a volunteer on the show, you can sign up there as well. Lastly, Please remember, if you do have any health issues, you won't want to avoid your doctors. Instead, you'll want to continue seeing them and make it your goal to blow their minds with what you're capable of with your mind.

Thank you.