Welcome to Heal Yourself. Change Your Life. I’m Brandy Gillmore and what I’m most known for is helping people to create radical transformations and even demonstrating the power of the mind and self-healing under medical equipment so you can see the results and my work has even been published in a medical journal because it’s truly incredible what we are all capable of when we understand our own minds at a deeper level.
So whether you’re new to this work or you’ve been studying the power of the mind for many years. I love that you are here. I love that we’re on this incredible journey together, and I look forward to sharing breakthrough information with you. That said, on this podcast, I’ll share two types of episodes.
First, self-healing episodes, where I share key insights from working with live volunteers. And the second type are where I answer questions from the audience. That said, if you’d like to volunteer or submit a question, come visit me at BrandyGillmore.com. On that note, let’s dive in.
Hello and happy, beautiful day to you. I want to add in a quick but important note to make this podcast very easy to navigate because today’s episode has a special format. Today I worked with a live volunteer. As you probably know, there are a lot of people who are now using AI to modify information online.
For that reason, we have taken an extra step to help protect our beautiful volunteer and the integrity of this work to help keep the information from being modified. And we actually love how this turned out because it provides you with even more information. This is how it works. On today’s episode, you’ll hear an overview of the person that I worked with, and I will provide you with simple but powerful breakthrough insights that helped our volunteer begin making a radical shift.
Then at the end of this short breakthrough episode, if you are ready for a deep dive, you can click in the show notes to gain access to the actual self-healing session where I worked directly with the live volunteer. This enables us to help protect the information online from being modified. While still continuing to provide you with powerful information to help bridge the gap between science and spirituality and personal empowerment, because it’s truly incredible what you are capable of when you learn to understand your mind at a deeper level.
That said, let’s dive into the simple but powerful insights that came from working with today’s volunteer. Here we go.
All right, so diving into today’s episode, so often when people are able to use their own mind to create a radical shift in their health or in their life, it just creates this feeling of empowerment, just a feeling of. Aha, if you will. And that is so true with today’s episode. As I worked with our beautiful volunteer today, she was able to take the numbness out of her hands and get it nearly gone, so she was able to get the feeling back in her hands. And the reason that was so surprising to her is because she’s been struggling with MS for over six years. And so to suddenly get the feeling back in her hands was quite surprising to her. And by the way, I see this all of the time, and of course, for her to maintain it. It will take follow through and there’s always a combination of different emotions. So it’s not just specifically one thing, but there were multiple key things that I worked with her on. Now, part of what can be really tricky in working with the mind is so often people have been feeling emotions for so long, they don’t even realize they’re there anymore and that’s part of where I went with Daria. Now, to give you a bit of explanation before we dive in, a way to think about it is like, this is like. If a person is putting on a neck tie for the first time, or even putting on a watch when they’re not used to wearing a watch, it can feel bulky or odd or, or even a turtleneck if, for somebody who’s not used to wearing turtlenecks, it can feel like they’re choking its choking them but then if they’ve been wearing these for a long period of time, they just get so used to it. In fact. It can feel weird without it. And so the same can be true with emotions. In fact, I hear that all of the time, and people describe it in different ways. For example, one woman that I worked with, she described it as though she didn’t realize she was wearing a weight vest, but as she started releasing negative emotions to heal herself and really shifting and transforming her mindset. It felt like suddenly she took a weight vest off and she felt a lot lighter. So there are a lot of different ways to describe that feeling, but ultimately it’s this lightness and you feel like you start losing stress or negativity or heaviness that you really didn’t realize was there.
It’s an, it’s a beautiful feeling and so, point being though, is just the awareness that so often these emotions and these patterns that are running, they can be so subconscious that it’s hard to initially even identify them or a person’s just so used to it. It’s like you, they don’t know any other way and so, when I started working with Daria, I kind of started asking some silly questions because one of the patterns that she was feeling was a feeling of criticism and feeling criticized, but also needing to hide, and the feeling was a bit tricky, and so I started asking a bunch of random questions, if you will, that were silly, but helped her to be able to see the pattern. For example, I had asked her 0 to 10 how much she could find the feeling that she’s needing to hide blueberries every day and 0 to 10. She mentioned this feeling at about a level 10.
And she knew that it didn’t make logical sense, but she felt this feeling that they were somehow naughty and my point is exactly that, is that she had this pattern of feeling as though what she was doing was bad or guilty or naughty, and that she was afraid to be criticized. If she’s seen, like if she’s seen doing this or that, that there’s this feeling of fear. So it’s like this feeling of getting caught with your hand in the cookie jar, so to speak, but this feeling that she was doing something wrong or she would be criticized by her parents, and that was a big thing for her.
So much so that she had this feeling of not wanting to be seen and just a huge fear of criticism. And that’s where I want to go today is because so often people can feel that very thing where they’re terrified of feeling criticized by their parents or by a boss or whomever or their partner or whom, whomever it is that so much so that it drives their life and can also, of course, impact their health. And so I want to invite you to look at this in your life because so often people will feel this very thing. Now, part of the insight is that fear of criticism, but the other part is also that so often I’ll see people overlook important information that they might be missing. So a lot of times both can happen where they can feel criticized, but there can also be valuable information that they’re missing because they’re feeling criticized so easily. And to give you an example, I have worked with people before who were hypersensitive to feeling criticized, where maybe, let’s say for example, I work with a man who constantly felt criticized by his wife. He constantly felt criticized and eventually their marriage falls apart and she decides she’s leaving and he is shocked by it that shocked that she wants a divorce. And she might say something like this, she might say, look it. I’ve been trying to tell you over and over and over I needed things to change.
But you took it as criticism every time. So that’s my point is that so often if people have patterns of criticism or defensiveness, they can’t hear that there’s valuable information that’s also coming their way. And then what happens is they end up then. Also ending up with feelings of abandonment or feelings of hurt and whatnot because of these very things and so that’s what I want to invite you to look at is that if you have a pattern of feeling criticized, is it that you might be taking things extremely personal? Could you look at it from both an emotional perspective as well as a practical perspective and notice. If there’s something that you are needing to change in your life, maybe there is a part of you who’s had this pattern repeating over and over and over, that feels like you’re constantly attracting people who are extremely critical.
So that might be it. Or maybe. There’s a pattern of feeling and taking and interpreting everything as being really, personal and taking things personally instead of productively. So that could be true. Or there’s also a pattern where people may feel like valuable information is coming their way and they just can’t see it and hear it because they’re so defensive to it and so all of these things can be true. Now, part of the reason that I bring this up is because I see this. So often I’ve seen people who’ve gotten fired from jobs before and they get fired and they’re frustrated and yet at the same time, their boss told them over and over and over what the issue is and instead of resolving it, they defended it. They’d say, but there was this or, but there was that. So they had a pattern of excuses or defense instead of really hearing the person. Part of the reason that I bring in both the emotional and the practical is this is because I’ve seen people on the spiritual or self-help or self-healing journey who are trying to address the feeling of criticism, and what they end up doing is I’ve seen so often where they just end up blaming everybody around them.
Where they just say, oh, well this is a pattern. Oh, I’ve attracted a critical mom, or a critical dad, or a critical spouse, or a critical friend or boss, or whatnot. And so they continue to attribute the problem is always the pattern or it’s somebody else and they’re just attracting, quote unquote, the wrong people and they’re not also realizing that it can be a combination of things that, yes, they may attract in a certain way or. It just might be the way that they’re showing up, because I’ve also seen something that is very true, and it is this, I’ve seen people who are so sensitive to criticism that it makes it hard for anybody in their lives to communicate with them.
So if their boss wanted something different to where their spouse or somebody around them said, hey, can I give you some? Like, can, we talk about something? Whatever it is. That they’re so defensive and so easily criticized that they have a hard time functioning in relationships or being successful in long-term relationships for this very reason.
Now, what’s beautiful is this, is that as I was working with our beautiful volunteer, part of what I helped her do is I helped her see that in her case is that her mother really did have good intentions for her that she’s not really trying to attack her, but that her intentions are good. Maybe her delivery is not that great, but her intentions are really good and that was pivotal because the more that we worked to start creating an emotional shift and mental shift in this area, the more our beautiful volunteer Daria was able to start really shifting her numbness and starting to feel even better and better and better. So that’s the insight that I want to share with you today and of course there were multiple breakthrough insights.
And if you’d like to listen to the full session, you can do so by clicking the link in the show notes or if you’re wanting to really gain a deeper understanding of mind body healing itself. There’s also a link to free training. It is available in the show notes as well.
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The better this world is for all of us, and so please do make a point to hit the share button and please do have an incredible rest of your day, and I look forward to connecting with you on the next episode. We’ll see you there.
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Instead, it’s best to see your doctor regularly. Keep them informed on what you are doing, and you could. Make it your goal to blow their minds with what you are capable of with your mind. Thank you.
