Welcome to Heal Yourself. Change Your Life. I’m Brandy Gillmore and what I’m most known for is helping people to create radical transformations and even demonstrating the power of the mind and self-healing under medical equipment so you can see the results and my work has even been published in a medical journal because it’s truly incredible what we are all capable of when we understand our own minds at a deeper level.
So whether you’re new to this work or you’ve been studying the power of the mind for many years. I love that you are here. I love that we’re on this incredible journey together, and I look forward to sharing breakthrough information with you. That said, on this podcast, I’ll share two types of episodes.
First, self-healing episodes, where I share key insights from working with live volunteers. And the second type are where I answer questions from the audience. That said, if you’d like to volunteer or submit a question, come visit me at BrandyGillmore.com. On that note, let’s dive in.
Hello and happy, beautiful day to you. I want to add in a quick but important note to make this podcast very easy to navigate because today’s episode has a special format. Today I worked with a live volunteer. As you probably know, there are a lot of people who are now using AI to modify information online.
For that reason, we have taken an extra step to help protect our beautiful volunteer and the integrity of this work to help keep the information from being modified. And we actually love how this turned out because it provides you with even more information. This is how it works. On today’s episode, you’ll hear an overview of the person that I worked with, and I will provide you with simple but powerful breakthrough insights that helped our volunteer begin making a radical shift.
Then at the end of this short breakthrough episode, if you are ready for a deep dive, you can click in the show notes to gain access to the actual self-healing session where I worked directly with the live volunteer. This enables us to help protect the information online from being modified. While still continuing to provide you with powerful information to help bridge the gap between science and spirituality and personal empowerment, because it’s truly incredible what you are capable of when you learn to understand your mind at a deeper level.
That said, let’s dive into the simple but powerful insights that came from working with today’s volunteer. Here we go.
All right, so today I worked with a beautiful volunteer. Her name is Jess, and I just love so many things about her, but one of those things is how much she loves her family and loves her kids. It is just so sweet. You know that feeling when you see somebody who’s in a relationship or just in relationship with their partner or kids or friends or whomever, but you just see how loving they are. That is our beautiful volunteer. She just has a sweet sense of wanting her kids to do so well that it like exudes from her. And I just, I love that. And also as we step in deeper into today’s episode. There’s also some feelings of perfectionist and needing to try to control and fix and, make everybody’s world go round that is also impacting her own health. And so that’s where we’re going as we step into today’s episode.
Now, our beautiful volunteer has been experiencing pain in her fingers that has been ongoing and has even gone up her arms at times. But she’s been struggling with this pain on and off for approximately 12 years and so as we begin diving into her pain and her experience and what’s going on. Part of what came up is just this pure desire to want the best for her kids. So much so that at times it created a feeling of frustration in a variety of different ways. In some cases it was, her children aren’t listening, then there might be some frustration there that can come up or even if her husband is not eating a perfect diet, there’s also that feeling of frustration just because she’s been trying so hard to set the perfect example for her children.
To really set them up for success in life. And one of the many things that I really love about this is, so often it is common for people to get in that place of feeling like a perfectionist, especially if it’s something that they really, really, really care about and so that was the case in her situation. Now, what’s beautiful and what I really love about this episode is just taking a different approach. To set yourself up for success.
And one example that I can use just a, common example, if you will, is I think we’ve all heard, or many of us have heard that phrase before, when somebody feels like they’re not being heard, whether it’s with children or in life in general, they feel like maybe they feel like they’re not being heard or they’re not being listened to, and so they need to raise their voice, or get angrier, nobody hears them until they get angier or they get upset, however. What we’ll want to do is think about this in a different way. So for example, a mother might say, I tell my kids 10 times to do something, or five times to do something, and they just don’t listen. So I have to get upset. But if we look at this in the other way, what happens is if this happens repeatedly, over and over, technically it trains the children, that they don’t need to listen the first nine times, right? So if, somebody gets upset the 10th time, they have to say something. Then it’s training the children that ultimately they don’t need to listen until mom gets upset or dad gets upset or whatnot. And so that’s ultimately part of what we were talking about in this session is exactly that.
Now let’s unpack this a bit more because some of the insight that I want to share has to do with children and training them. And when we stop and think about it for a moment, it is very true that children like anybody else. Can get caught up in what they’re doing. So they might get caught up in playing or caught up in this or that and it could be true that sometimes if you speak to them, they are so engaged in something. They don’t really hear you or they’re not really listening, and let’s be honest, we’ve probably all been in that mindset before where somebody’s been glued to the TV or they’ve been glued to work or whatever it is that they feel sucked in mentally to something that they don’t listen and so, the alternative here is instead of getting angrier, getting upset, it’s of course getting their attention and training them to get their attention.
And so part of what we even talked about was if you’ve asked children or somebody to do something and they’re not doing it or they’re not listening, what you could do is simply start to turn it around and ask a question such as, did you hear what I just asked you? Or something like that, that then gets their brain to start engaging in a different way and getting, not sucked into what it was doing, but starting to actually come out of that. So you don’t have to go into a feeling of anger or upset or yelling or whatnot to get their attention and so that’s the insight that I want to share. Because so often, let’s be honest, we’ve heard that phrase over and over again. People saying, my children don’t listen unless I get angry. And unfortunately, what it then trains them to do is that they don’t have to listen until you’re angry. And the real key isn’t about getting angry.
It’s about getting their attention, especially if they’re sucked into something, it’s, getting their attention. It’s training them to listen and training yourself to have ways to get them to listen and really follow through, et cetera. So that having to go into states of anger and frustration, because of course, it can be bad for your health and your life. And so food for thought. This is one of the insights that I wanted to share from this episode is just a practical insight that if you are a mom who’s finding yourself in a place of frustration and it’s affecting your health or life or happiness or whatnot, to really think about things in a different way, get a different strategic approach that can help even more. So just food for thought.
And if you are somebody who would like to listen to the full session, of course you can do so by clicking in the show notes. You can find the link there or if you’d like, a deeper understanding of mind body healing and how I’ve been able to get radical results. You can check out the link also in the show notes, and of course there is a link to the medical journal as well, so if you’d like to understand and gain a deeper logical understanding that is all there because ultimately the biggest goal is of course, is that I’d love to see everybody know how to heal themselves and change their life.
And so that said, I want to ask you to take just one quick moment to hit the share button on this episode. Share it with somebody you love, somebody you care about, or somebody you don’t even know. Because the more that every single person in our world feels happy, and healthy, and loved, and loving and empowered the better this world is for all of us, and so please do take just a quick moment to hit the share button, and please do make a point to have an incredible rest of your day. I look forward to connecting with you on the next episode. We’ll see you there.
Thank you for listening to Heal Yourself. Change Your Life. If you’d like to become a volunteer or join our members area, you can do so by visiting BrandyGillmore.com. Also, please remember to be responsible with your health. This podcast is for inspirational purposes only. You won’t want to make any changes to your medication or to your medical care based on this podcast, nor would you ever want to avoid seeing your doctor.
Instead, it’s best to see your doctor regularly. Keep them informed on what you are doing, and you could. Make it your goal to blow their minds with what you are capable of with your mind. Thank you.
