IQ-106: Transcript: Why Does It Seem Like Bad Things Happen to Good People?

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Welcome to Heal Yourself, Change Your Life. My name is Brandy Gillmore, and after recovering from my own life-changing injury, it's become my mission to share with others the same discoveries I made that changed my health and my entire. Our minds are truly incredible. The placebo is proof of this. Each week I will take this simple awareness to a whole new level.

I will even coach live callers to free themself of physical pain using only their mind, and then I'll provide you with a combination of practical and spiritual insights that you can use to master your mind, your emotions, and your. To help you heal your health yourself and your life. Let's begin.


Hello and welcome to this week's quick IQ episode where we talk about insights and questions. And today I wanna cover a topic that I get questions on all of the time, and it's this, people will say, you know, Brandy, why do bad things happen to good people? And. I wanna unpack the subconscious links and energy that can be connected to this issue.

But before I do, I do wanna say first and foremost that bad things can happen to good people and also to not great people. So I don't wanna say that bad things necessarily happen more frequently to good people, because that isn't true. It really just depends on what it is that we're manifesting, what patterns that we have in our subconscious mind, you know, that [00:02:00] is, Such a huge key is, you know, what is going on in the unconscious subconscious mind that we don't know is there.

And that's something that I really wanna talk about today because all of the time with people, I'll see patterns that they have that are linked up that maybe they feel like a good person. For feeling like a victim or good person for self-sacrifice or even a good person for going through a lot of hardship.

And what happens is they continue to feel like a good person and it's connected to those very things, those patterns of hardship and problems, in which case those patterns can manifest over and over in their lives. Now there are some other patterns that I see as well, which can create a lot of hardship, and they are patterns like self-criticism.

Strong feelings of self punishment where a person may feel guilty about the past and they feel a strong [00:03:00] feeling that they deserve punishment or they don't deserve a great life, or they don't deserve to be loved, or any of those. Emotional links that they get stored up can definitely impact a person's life and what they're manifesting.

Now, another common thing that I see is this is I'll see people who, from subconscious, you know, childhood patterns is this is where maybe. Somebody doesn't feel loved, or they don't feel like they're getting attention or they feel like they're being ignored, and as a result they'll have a feeling that says, you know, nobody pays attention to me unless something bad happens, or things like that.

Or they'll even find themselves with a memory of. Wanting bad things to happen to them just so somebody will pay attention and give them love and nurture. And so point being is that even those patterns that happened many years ago inside the childhood mind can [00:04:00] still impact you today. And so that's another category.

That I'll see that will impact people with repeatedly hard problems and patterns. Now, the other main category that I'll typically see a lot of patterns of hardship, and that has to do with actually being out of integrity or having an intention. To be out of integrity, to do something that's not fair to others or to take something from others or to not fully be in integrity.

That is definitely another area that can create negativity and hardship and attract that. In somebody's life. And so if we look at this in the big picture, you know, we started out with a certain category of emotions, which was like a, a pride in hardship or feeling like a good person for hardship patterns.

You know, like self-sacrifice, you know, those hardship type patterns. And so that's one type of category and I wanna [00:05:00] invite you to look and notice, If you have something in that area, and if so, of course you'll wanna clear it now. Then we moved on to the second category, which had to do with self punishment, self-criticism, guilt with the past, those type of feelings.

And if you have something. In that area that's going on in your subconscious mind, then you'll definitely wanna shift that. Now, the third category we talked about was childhood patterns of actually wanting something negative to happen, to be able to get some type of love or attention or connection due to a lot of hurt or wounding as a child.

So that was the third category. And then the fourth category we talked about was. If you are currently doing something out of integrity, or even if you have an intention of doing something out of integrity, then that too can attract negative things in your life. And so that's what I'd invite you to do is I'd invite you to really [00:06:00] take an honest look at these four categories and.

Make sure that if you do have anything in these areas, you know, don't stress out. But just make sure to identify wish category or categories that you have any type of subconscious links in, and make a point to genuinely transform them and also, Make a point to bring in the feeling that you do deserve a great life.

You know, we all deserve a great life, and so often because of past guilt or self-punishment or you know, that category of self-critical thinking. So often that can show up in people's lives in a variety of different ways. And so that's today's quick IQ episode is I wanna invite you to be honest with yourself and to really transform these patterns because as you do life, Feels better.

And not only that, but you don't have to wait for something negative to happen. And further, if [00:07:00] you are already in a place where something negative has happened, by the way, then identifying and transforming these patterns can help to shift that negative circumstance or situation in your life. And lastly, if you do have it linked up in your mind that bad things happen to good people, then you'll definitely wanna transform that as well.

That goes along with category number one, where you feel good for negative things happening. And so if you do have that, you'll definitely wanna change it because it'll make you expect that negative things will happen. It'll just, it can mess with your energy and attract negative unwanted circumstances that you don't.

If that is stuck in your subconscious mind. So that is today's quick IQ episode, just because this is a question that I get all of the time from people and you won't wanna think in this way. And if you have been, if you've been feeling like this, you'll definitely want to really. Go within to genuinely [00:08:00] transform these patterns at a deeper level in your mind.

And also remember to bring in the feeling that you do deserve to live a happy, healthy, wonderful life, because we all do. And so on that note, by the way, I wanna ask you to please do make a point to hit this share button on this episode. You know, share it with somebody you love, somebody you care about, somebody you don't even know.

Anybody who could use it to clear their mindset and their energy, because the more that every single person is happy and healthy and loving in our world, the better this world is for all of us. So please do hit the share button and please do make a point to have a most wonderful, incredible rest of your day.

And I look forward to connecting with you on the next episode. We'll see you there.[00:09:00]

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And I do wanna be clear though, that most people will not get results this fast on their. I make it look very easy because of the discoveries that I made. You'll wanna remember that there's so much more going on in our minds at a deeper level than people realize. That said, if you wanna send me any questions or comments, come visit me on my [email protected] slash podcast.

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