IQ-108: Transcript: Are You Subconsciously *Fueling* The Wounds That Are Keeping You Stuck?

Heal Yourself Change Your Life

Click here to listen to episode IQ-108

Please note: These are computer generated transcripts of the Heal Yourself, Change Your Life Podcast Episodes. If you have any questions or need assistance, please reach out to us at

Welcome to Heal Yourself, Change Your Life. My name is Brandy Gillmore, and after recovering from my own life-changing injury, it's become my mission to share with others the same discoveries I made that changed my health and my entire. Our minds are truly incredible. The placebo is proof of this. Each week I will take this simple awareness to a whole new level.

I will even coach live callers to free themself of physical pain using only their mind, and then I'll provide you with a combination of practical and spiritual insights that you can use to master your mind, your emotions, and your. To help you heal your health yourself and your life. Let's begin.


Hello and welcome to this week's quick IQ episode where we talk about insights and questions. And today I wanna share with you a very simple but profound insight that can be pivotal and healing in your life. If this applies to you and if it's something that you may notice in your unconscious behavior.

And by the way, I have to say, you know, going through my own injury, there were insights that I had that just took things to the next level. It was, you know, something that I became aware of that I hadn't previously realized that I was doing, or feeling, or just insights, awareness that came up that were pivotal, you know, and even in my life, Just having insights and universal awareness to information that becomes pivotal.

And this information, though again, [00:02:00] simple, it's profound and it can be pivotal if this applies to you, and it's this, it's that all of the time I'll see people who are on the spiritual journey or the self-healing journey and they're working on really changing their lives. You know, personal empowerment.

Personal growth, all of these things they wanna change. And a lot of times there can be a feeling of fueling the wound rather than healing the wound. And in most cases, people won't even realize that they're doing it. Or in some cases people will realize they're doing it. But they don't really want to change because of their mind programming.

So let me give you an example. There was a woman who I worked with who felt extremely rejected by her family, a lot of hurt, a lot of feelings of not fitting in. And as a result, she started to build this shell. Of just feeling really, you know, she went into trying to go into a feeling of strength of saying, okay, [00:03:00] well I'm just gonna be better than them.

I'm just gonna be good enough, you know, fine. I don't need them anyway. And so basically she worked on really bringing in her confidence and fueling herself and, and trying to just be the best she could be, which was a good thing to some extent that she was working on, you know, being her best self. But at the same time, Part of what she was doing was fueling the hurt of covering that up.

And then of course, As you know, if you're here, chances are, you know, our patterns breed more of the same. And so as she was doing this on her journey of still, you know, trying to be her best self lift herself up, she continued to experience the pattern in other ways, you know, from men that she wanted to date, or friends, or business relationships.

I mean, there were a lot of different ways that this pattern kept going on in her life. And of course, Her go-to was, well, I'm just gonna make [00:04:00] myself even better and I'm gonna be even stronger and I'm gonna build my confidence. And so that was her pattern. Now the problem, of course, with this is not the drive for accomplishment or confidence or being her best self.

That is a great thing. But ultimately, She wants to program her mind to do that from love, to do that, from wanting to expand and wanting to be her best self from a positive energy. And as far as the negative pattern, the negative piece, you know, that wounded piece that felt rejection and hurt? Of course, what she'd wanna do is genuinely.

Reprogram her subconscious mind and clear that completely, so it's not part of her energy at all. So she's not feeling this deep feeling of hurt inside or rejection or upset inside at all, because that can and does affect your health, your life, your happiness. And not only that, but we can't outrun our patterns.

They end up showing up in a variety of different ways. And I see that with people all [00:05:00] of the time. And by the way, I see back to back when people really change this and rewire it in their subconscious mind. Like even this example of this beautiful woman starting to come from a place of love and healing the wound.

It's the most beautiful thing. People will actually take their success, their love, their happiness, their joy to the next level, which was exactly what she did, was heal the wound. And then it just, it feels like a glow on the inside and then you feel fueled from an entirely different place. And that was exactly the case with this woman.

She had been single and hurt and all of this. Pain with her family and friends. And I mean, it literally showed up when one friend and then another and another, and she was really successful. But then when she changed this pattern, everything changed. She felt differently inside, but also the relationships healed, the love healed that everything, and it made the success fun and wonderful and alive and just beautiful.

And so it was just life to the next level. Inside [00:06:00] out. It was just really, really beautiful. And so that's the insight that I wanna share with you today is all the time I'll see people doing that. Maybe it's from a place of hurt or rejection or anger or abandonment, or not liking people or frustration, whatever that is.

And a lot of times they're doing the very thing that's fueling the pattern. So if they have a lot of anger, they'll angrily go towards what they want. And it, it just, there's, there's a feeling on the inside. And so, so that's the insight that I wanna share with you today, is I wanna invite you to look at your motivations and see if they're coming from love and positivity and excitement and motivation, or if they are coming from wounding or hurt or rejection, or feeling not good enough or left out.

And if so, then instead of trying to bury the problem, you wanna definitely reprogram. The problem and get it out of your subconscious mind and out of your energy. Now, of course, the example that I gave you is just [00:07:00] one way that it shows up, but I see it show up in so many different ways. So just something to think about and reflect on if you see this in one way or another in your life, because this is very common.

And then, you know, I mentioned in the very beginning that sometimes people will see that they're doing it. And they may not wanna change because they may feel very addicted to the solution that's been linked up in their brain instead of genuinely healing the problem, the relationship, or the hurt or the wounding or whatever that might be.

All right. So that said, it has been such a pleasure connecting with you, and as I mentioned in the beginning, this can be a very pivotal insight. Not just because of this specific scenario, but because of patterns and how they work. And so for that reason, I wanna invite you to please do make a point to hit the share button on this episode.

You know, share it with somebody you love, somebody you care about and want the best for, or [00:08:00] somebody you don't even know. Because the more uplifted and happy and healthy that every single person is in our world. The better this world is for all of us. And so please do hit the share button and please do make a point to have a most wonderful, loving, healthy, happy rest of your day and I look forward to connecting with you on the next episode.

We'll see you there.

Thank you for listening to Heal Yourself, change Your Life. All of the time people reach out and say how much these episodes have given them, hope or touched their heart, or help them stay positive in hard times, or even woken them up to a completely new level of awareness. Of how amazing we all really are.

If today's episode touched your heart or expanded your mind in any way, please do me a favor and be sure to share it with those you care about or those you know who really need it. As more and more people become empowered, it really will change our world for the better. That is the point and the power of these demonstrations is to create a radical shift in our world consciousness by showing every.

What we are all capable of. And of course each volunteer will really need to follow through to reinforce their programming, to maintain their results. But the point is for you to see that you really can create rapid results in your health and your life if you really understand how to use your mind. You are incredible.

And I do wanna be clear though, that most people will not get results this fast on their. I make it look very easy because of the discoveries that I made. You'll wanna remember that there's so much more going on in our minds at a deeper level than people realize. That said, if you wanna send me any questions or comments, come visit me on my slash podcast.

And if you're currently experiencing physical pain and would like to be a volunteer on the show, you can sign up there as well. Last. Please remember, if you do have any health issues, you won't want to avoid your doctors. Instead, you'll wanna continue seeing them and make it your goal to blow their minds with what you are capable of with your mind.

Thank you.

Are you ready to learn how to do this?

Heal Yourself, Change Your Life

From Illness To Wellness: 4 Easy Steps To Transform Your Health & Life With The GIFT Healing Method™

In this course Brandy shares the exact things she did to heal (even when doctors told her there was nothing more she could do) so you too can be empowered with tools and techniques to heal yourself and change your life. Click here to learn more.

Share This Eposide

Note: If you are hearing or sight impaired or have any other medical issues that would inhibit you from fully accessing the podcast, please reach out to our team at and we will be happy to assist you.  

Also, please remember that genuine change and follow through are key for self-healing results. If you struggle with negative thoughts or have a chronic health issue or chronic pain, please do not avoid seeing your doctor.

Instead, your goal with self-healing should be to continue to see your doctor as recommended and blow their mind with what you are capable of with your mind and with the power of mind-body healing.  Please enjoy this self-healing podcast!

FREE 2-Hour Master Training Class

Heal Yourself, Change Your Life