IQ-153 Transcript: Shifting Money Stress to Promote Healing, Happiness and Love

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Welcome to Heal Yourself, Change Your Life. My name is Brandy Gillmore, and after recovering from my own life changing injury, it's become my mission to share with others the same discoveries I made that changed my health and my entire life. Minds are truly incredible. The placebo is proof of this. Each week I will take this simple awareness to a whole new level.

I will even coach live callers to free themselves of physical pain, using only their mind. And then I'll provide you with a combination of practical and spiritual insights that you can use to master your mind, your emotions, and your energy. to help you heal your health, yourself, and your life. Let's begin.

Hello, and welcome to this week's quick IQ episode, where we talk about insights and questions. And today I want to share with you a very powerful insight from a question that comes up all of the time. And recently a few people have emailed in regarding this particular question, and it has to do with money.

You know, all of the time in our culture, Many people will feel a sense of stress or fear when it comes to money. And of course, any type of stress and fear can make it harder to get the body to heal itself. And so I want to talk about shifting your mindset and some things that you could do to start creating a shift in this area of your life.

Now, the first thing I want to say before we delve in, Is that a lot of times people may wonder, you know, how is it even possible to shift your mindset and have it really make a change in your finances? And a simple way to think about it is like this. This is an analogy that I use all of the time. It's this, it's if you think about a writer.

Who has writer's block. You know, they're trying to write something and they feel blocked. They just can't think of it. Or maybe you've tried before to think of a person's name and you feel blocked. You just can't think of their name or whatever it is. There's, there's this mental block towards it. Or another example is if you think about childhood, sometimes people feel blocked from their childhood.

They can't remember things that happened in their childhood. They feel this huge block towards it. Similarly, our minds can block us from all sorts of things. Now, throughout the years in working with people, I've found our minds can work in one of two very specific ways. That, first and foremost, there can be a block, just like writer's block, that we can have a block towards money or relationships or whatever that is, to where we don't have ideas or we feel like something is impossible.

Now, I refer to this as a visionary mental block, because your mind is literally working Blocked from the vision. Like you can't see how it could even be possible. It really may feel genuinely impossible to create a shift in a situation. And that is very common when a person has, is stuck. And of course, when you begin to shift the mindset and shift the these underlying negative blocks, then what can happen is your ideas open up just like a writer who has writer's block and suddenly it opens up and they start having a flood of information come through.

So that's one thing. Or another thing that can happen is that you may have a stuck negative vision and ultimately what that is, is that You know, you're stuck to the current circumstances and they're stuck in a negative place. Like you have this negative expectation. Now, when this happens, typically that is either because of subconscious beliefs and, or even actions.

And a simple way to think about that is of course, if somebody has taken an action, like they're driving towards a cliff, they may have a really bad day. Bad negative vision and feeling inside of them because their actions are taking them, of course, in a really bad direction towards going off a cliff.

And so that feeling can come up. Or if there's negative programming in one way or another, that of course can leave the mind stuck. in a negative vision. And so either way, what then happens is the more that you shift your mindset, the more you open your mind to more and more opportunities. And by the way, this was actually something that I worked on after going through my whole injury, because I had been stressed and, you know, on disability and unable to pay my bills.

I mean, I went from having a great salary doing network engineering and operations to being on disability for many, many years. Literally liquidating everything and falling behind in everything. I was a financial mess. And so then after I healed myself and I got better, I started really working on my mindset towards money as well, because there was a lot of stress there and I needed to get rid of that.

And ultimately what happened is I started having these ideas of how I could make money. And some of these ways at first were just simple ways of things that were in my house that I could do to start bringing in cash. I love music, and at the time I was injured, I had thousands of CDs. I mean, thousands upon thousands of CDs.

I love music. And so at the time that I started working with my mind regarding money, I realized Good. I could take all of these CDs to the used CD store and make some money. And so at first it was just simple little things like that where I realized I could make money and then continued to grow in a variety of different ways.

And I won little contests and you know, it was just interesting little things started manifesting and showing up. But additionally, The more I understood the mind and how it worked, then the more everything just continued to grow and expand in so many ways, you know, even in being able to sell my old house that I had been in.

So I sold that. And so different ideas started coming up of things that I could do in my situation already that I didn't have before. You know, I had felt doom and gloom and like I was in a horrible place, but But I started really optimizing and making the best of my current situation. And things started changing even more and more for the better, just in so many ways.

And then as I got this gift, this ability to feel what other people were feeling, I also started, you know, having these random connections with people who were founders of multi million dollar companies that maybe were stuck or had blocks towards money or whatever. A variety of different things. And then I would help them and I help people, you know, change their mindset and shift to business.

And, and, you know, it just continued to grow. Now, of course, this was 13, 14 years ago. And so since that time, it is expanded a lot since then. That was just, you know, the tip of the iceberg, so to speak, because also I'm really good at troubleshooting things, at figuring things out. And so it would also help.

People start solutioning things in their business, stock spots or all kinds of things. And so what was fun is while it was helping people to then heal themselves, I've also throughout the years helped people in businesses and figure out solutions and make more money and make a bigger difference in the world and All kinds of ways that are really great for our planet and business and whatnot.

And so it's been an interesting combination of doing exactly that, of understanding how the mind works and then creating these changes that of course can change our lives. Because our minds are truly incredible. And even to this day, I help them. Several people who are founders of beautiful, incredible companies, not only in helping them with their mindset, of course, and understanding blocks or what needs to change to get their business to run smoother or to make more money and also solution.

All kinds of things in their business to, you know, radically take it to the next level. So it is fun. And what you'll notice from what I'm saying is it's a combination of both the internal changes, you know, what mindset changes need to be made, and also then what are the actionable steps to follow through with.

to then make those changes. And that's a lot of times how real change occurs with money is it's like you reprogram your mind to open up towards more money and align with it and clear the blocks and then you have more ideas and then you take action on them. Going back to the analogy of writer with writer's block, you know, if a writer Who has writer's block opens up the block and has all of these ideas, but then they never write them down.

Well, then they never actually do anything with it. So it's not really helpful. And so similarly, that's exactly what typically happens with money is that the more that you align your mind and open it up, then you have ideas and you take action on it and you feel better and you feel more alive. Even when you think that, you know, you have that visionary mental block where you feel like it is impossible because.

I've been there and I've worked with a lot of people who have been there in a place where they feel very stuck or even losing a lot of money and have had health issues or all kinds of things. And of course, turning that around. And so what I want to share with you today are just some common blocks that I've seen throughout the years that can keep people stuck and then looking at how you could do Change those in your life.

Now, what I'm going to talk about and share with you are both some internal blocks and also some external blocks, meaning that some of them are just with the mindset itself, and then some of them really have to do with a person's actions, and we'll talk more about that. But first, if we look at the internal, a lot of times what can happen, especially if somebody has been in a lot of stress towards money, they can, you know, feel feelings of hating money or of feeling like they don't like it, or they can hate wealthy people.

Or another thing that I've seen come up is people will have a deep feeling inside as though they don't deserve money. So that's another one. And also some other common blocks are things like feeling as though money is not safe. Like if somebody has money, then A person might take it or tax it or whatever it is.

And so there's a lot of fear regarding having money. And even if a person consciously wants to have more money, there's a deeper feeling inside, a feeling as though it is not safe. And so these are some of the things that I want to invite you to look at in your own life. And by the way, you know, when it comes to hating money, sometimes people have this feeling of feeling like the world would be a better place if If there was no money, now, of course, the problem with that is that their world can start to reflect that, and that's what starts showing up as if they feel like life is better.

with no money, then that starts showing up in their life, or they can have a lot of fear towards money because then part of them wants money because they know they need it. And the other part doesn't want money. It says to their subconscious mind, the world is better without it. And so it instead pushes it away or doesn't want it or has these blocks towards it.

And so you won't want to do that because. Of course, that can create more stress, which can affect your health, your life, or even your visionary mental block. So instead you'd want to look at it in a different way on purpose. You'd want to purposely look at the opposite and really start looking at. The fact that it is better with money and think about it in this way, where you think about it and you think, you know, the areas that do have the least amount of money can actually have the highest amounts typically of starvation and crime of violence and even violence against women and, you know, a lot of things like that.

Additionally, If we think about it for a moment, before there was money, what did we do in our culture? We traded, you know, you might trade a wagon wheel for some corn or some wheat or something like that. You know, we traded and bartered. And if we were limited to just trading and bartering, These days, I mean, we would starve because one person might say, Oh, well, here's a wagon wheel, so to speak.

You know, here's a, here's a car tire and I need to get some food. I mean, it just wouldn't work so well. It would be a problem, especially with people doing business all around the world. And so it would be impossible to really barter and say, okay, well, I'll give you this for that. And, you know, I'll skin a fox and takes its fur and trade you for this.

And I mean, it just. It's much better that we actually just barter with money. You know, the way I look at it is like thank you papers. It's like, thank you for that. You know, we all are bartering and trading either way with money. And so if we look at going back to the old way, it would be impossible. And a lot of people would unfortunately starve.

And you know, if you went to the store and you said, well, here's a tire. And they said, Oh, well, we already have a hundred from today. You know, we can't take in another one, then what happens? I mean, it just, obviously it wouldn't be great to go back in time, but a lot of times I'll hear people say, you know, things like, Oh, I just hate money and the world would be a better place without it.

And, and, uh, really, I mean, ultimately the world would be a better place if everybody had money. You know, then it would just make it easy. It's a currency. Everybody can connect with everybody. So that would be a beautiful vision because it is beautiful when you stop and think about it, that we all help each other, you know, we really do.

If somebody is, you know, building your house for you. Or farming or, you know, running water or electricity, you know, thank God we don't have to do all of these things for ourselves every day that other people are doing them for us. And we're all really helping each other. And so that's what I would say is, is around money, making sure you have a positive mindset, making sure there's a camaraderie, a connection, a love, a flow, uh, that feeling that it is positive and really shifting your mindset towards that.

Now, if you've been in a bad place with money, money and really stressed out, you might say, well, that's hard to do. And I get it. I've been there, like I have been there and frustrated and stressed and fearful and all of that. And, you know, really creating that genuine change is key. And so just emphasizing that you've got to really want to, and also.

That as you do, you want to get, get the information programmed in your subconscious mind. So that is key for creating a shift. Now, a lot of times what can also come up are actionable things. And I can't tell you how often I see things that are keeping people stuck financially, and sometimes it's just silly things.

For example, I can't tell you how often I've seen people doing something like sharing their Netflix account. And so I go to check into somebody's energy. You know, with money and look at their mindset and what blocks they have and whatnot. And it's like, they're, they're doing things like that, where they're taking from a company.

They don't realize that they're really taking from somebody, you know, but when you think about Netflix and you think about the workers and employees and whatnot, if everybody's sharing their passwords, you know, theoretically, it's. Reducing Netflix revenue, which then would make it so they hire less employees and, or whatnot, you know, it just, everything has a trickle effect to somebody else.

And so I've seen things like that or other things where people are just not in good integrity with money and they don't realize That it affects their own income and their own energy towards money or can even affect their health. In fact, there was a man that I worked with and one of his issues that was going on is that he would go to anything, like he would just leave all of these reviews online that were negative.

He would like blow up at restaurants or this, that, the other, and then he would just leave all these negative reviews. He didn't really realize the effect of his actions. He was upset because of the, like, you know, if he had an angry experience, it was a retaliation, a revenge. Now, when you think about it for a moment, for him to go leave online reviews that are negative to a business because he's upset because he had a negative experience, what are the effects of his actions?

Well, typically he's going to end up negatively impacting a restaurant or whatever it is. For a long period of time, you know, their revenue, their experience, how many employees, their business, like it's going to leave some type of impact. And it didn't really dawn on him. It was his way of getting them back.

But was it fair that, okay, well, maybe his dinner wasn't perfect at the time, but you know, let's be honest, nobody's perfect. Does a restaurant really deserve to be financially punished? for the entire life of the restaurant because a meal came out that wasn't perfect. And so not only was that impacting him financially, but that one was also impacting his health as well.

Or I've also seen people do silly things like they'll go buy something and then make a point to return it. Or I've even seen people where they'll buy things and then they you know, just return it on their credit card where they call their credit card company up and say, Oh, well, this was fraud. And, and, you know, do things, silly things like that, because they're stressed about money.

And they don't realize that this is negatively impacting them, that it can affect their health, their life, their finances, all of that. And they think that it's helping them, that maybe it's saving them a dime here or there when ultimately it becomes the reason. That they're in a negative place, or even then they end up also, you know, the washer breaks down and you know, they attract a bunch of things.

The car breaks down, the this, that, the other. And so a lot of times what happens is that when we're not in good integrity with money, it can show up in one way or another, even if we don't realize it. And it can also result in a block towards money. So I've seen people who were not in good integrity financially with money.

Maybe something happened, something came up, whatever it is, they took money from somebody, etc, etc. And then they got into a place in their lives where they just can't see how they could make money. Like they're in a negative place. And can't get out of that. Or there's even situations that I've seen before where people will make more and more money.

And as they do, they just start treating people poorly. You know, they might go to a restaurant and they treat people poorly, or they have a chip on their shoulder. And so they start treating their friends and family poorly. Poorly. And that's another thing that I've seen. And so ultimately what you really want to do is make sure that there is a feeling of love and connection and unity regarding money, not a feeling of, you know, disconnect or negativity or being out of integrity.

In any way, because that can definitely impact your health, your happiness, your life, your connection with money. You know, integrity is key, not just towards money, but also towards others, towards people. Now you might say to yourself, well, wait a second here. I've seen people who are out of integrity, you know, not in good integrity before with money.

How does that work? And what I would say is this is a lot of times in those cases, people may have Part of their income is not in good integrity and maybe the other part is in great integrity or, you know, vice versa, you know, it can be a mix. And so they end up attracting a mixed situation. So maybe part of their income is, you know, not fair and not being great to people.

And so maybe they have the lawsuits and the problems or the all kinds of things. issues. And then maybe the other part is, let's say it's in real estate and their properties do provide value to people. And so let's say they own an apartment building that provides housing to people and they're in good integrity on that.

Then they can make money and revenue on that and maybe have, you know, a mixed situation, which is true for a lot of people. You know, not just somebody who's making a ton of money, but true for all kinds of people where they get mixed bag, where part of what they do is in good integrity. And maybe they might have some areas that are not.

So then it's like they're making money, but they have the hardship. I mean, again, we can have mixed patterns, much like somebody can have mixed relationship patterns where, you know, they might feel included and connected in some of their relationships and disconnected in others or rejection in some, I mean, it's just, it can.

And usually is a mixed combination. So it really just depends on each person's situation, but ultimately you want to feel safe in life financially and good. And by the way, I can tell you that there are also people who've gotten large amounts of money who felt unsafe and that can create and be connected to health issues also.

So it's not just lack of money. But it's also really having a positive relationship with money. And ultimately what you'll want to do is take it to the next level. Not just a positive, safe relationship with money. Yes, you want that, but ultimately one that has love connected to it. So, you know, that as you have love, Money and you feel safe with money.

It means that you can love more. It means you can do things with the people that you love and connect with them, or, you know, do things for your children and yourself and your family, but connect with people, enjoy. That's ultimately the energy that you want around it is love and connection and safety and feeling good and a sense of comfort.

Comradery and appreciation and, and really being in that energy genuinely. And the more you can be in that energy and really get rid of fears and blocks or negativity or things that you don't like about money, and instead bring in the feeling of love and connection and a good feeling with money, the more that you can open up your own heart.

to create a radical change. Now that might sound impossible. I get it. But again, I can tell you that I have worked with people that were making millions and even hundreds of millions who have been able to make radical changes. Now, this may or may not sound impossible to you. I get it. There's a part of me, you know, 20 something years ago, before I started working with the mind that it would have sounded impossible.

And that's the reason I try to ground it. And we look at the block towards, you know, writer's block, because if you also think about a block, even, even if you think about a thing, Third grader who's doing math homework. You know, you could see two third graders sitting at the kitchen table, one doing math and struggling with it and feeling like it's really hard to do and sitting there for hours and hours and hours, just trying to figure it out and struggling and frustrated.

Meanwhile, you could have the other one sitting there at the same table saying, I love math. This is so easy and just doing it. And it feels easy to them. And so my point being is, it's the same regarding the subject of money in life, or any subject. in life. And so the more that you can get yourself to love the subject and feel good with it and get rid of negativity and blocks, even on a subconscious level, the more you can open up your mind to be successful with it.

And going back to where we started at the very beginning of this episode and taking in the awareness that this can definitely affect your health. and your healing. And so the more you can really transform feelings of stress towards money and instead bring in even more safety and opportunity and positivity, the better it is for your health as well.

In fact, people who are typically stressed with money and having more poverty tend to live shorter lives while people who have more money tend to live even longer. There's more longevity. And so of course, getting rid of that stress can be very helpful. And so that's today's quick IQ episode. And I want to ask you as always, please do hit the share button on this episode.

You know, share it with somebody you love, somebody you care about, or somebody you don't even know, because the more happy and healthy and empowered and loved that every single person is. in our world, the better this world is for all of us. And so please do make a point to hit the share button and please do have an incredible rest of your day.

I look forward to connecting with you on the next episode. We'll see you there. for listening to Heal Yourself, Change Your Life. All of the time people reach out and say how much these episodes have given them hope or touch their heart or help them stay positive in hard times or even woken them up to a completely new level of awareness.

Of how amazing we all really are. If today's episode touched your heart or expanded your mind in any way, please do me a favor and be sure to share it with those you care about, or those, you know, who really need it. As more and more people become empowered, it really will change our world for the better.

That is the point and the power of these demonstrations is to create a radical shift in our world consciousness by showing everyone. What we are all capable of. And of course, each volunteer will really need to follow through to reinforce their programming, to maintain their results. But the point is for you to see that you really can create rapid results in your health and your life.

If you really understand how to use your mind, you're incredible. And I do want to be clear though, that most people will not get results this fast on their own. I make it look very easy because of the discoveries that I made. You'll want to remember that there's so much more going on in our minds at a deeper level than people realize.

That said, if you want to send me any questions or comments, come visit me on my website at brandygillmore. com slash podcast. And if you're currently experiencing physical pain and would like to be a volunteer on the show, you can sign up there as well. Lastly, Please remember, if you do have any health issues, you won't want to avoid your doctors.

Instead, you'll want to continue seeing them and make it your goal to blow their minds with what you're capable of with your mind. Thank you.

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