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Welcome to Heal Yourself, Change Your Life. My name is Brandy Gillmore, and after recovering from my own life changing injury, it's become my mission to share with others the same discoveries I made. that changed my health and my entire life. Our minds are truly incredible. The placebo is proof of this.

Each week I will take this simple awareness to a whole new level. I will even coach live callers to free themselves of physical pain using only their mind. And then I'll provide you with a combination of practical and spiritual insights that you can use to master your mind and body. Your emotions and your energy to help you heal your health, yourself and your life.

Let's begin.

Hello and welcome to this week's quick IQ episode where we talk about insights and questions. And today I have a really powerful insight that I want to share with you that really builds off of last week's IQ episode, where we had been talking about manifesting negative things. You know, we had talked about if there is something that manifests, Is it always connected to a pattern?

And of course, the answer was no, if you recall. And we also talked about the other reasons why negative things can manifest. Now, if you know me by now, you know, I always want to make sure that we have a positive spin on everything, which of course there was a positive spin in that episode as well, if you recall, always.

Today I want to talk about that and take it to the next level as far as even having a feeling of safety of Not manifesting negative things and what that looks like and how that shows up or can show up To also make sure that you have some peace of mind in life, you know, because there's so many reasons to fear things or to worry about this or that, you know, negative things manifesting.

And, and that's what I want to break down in today's episode and, and look at a feeling of feeling safe from the negative, if you will. And the best way to illustrate this would be to use a story of somebody that I've worked with, and I could give you hundreds or thousands of different stories. But the one that comes to mind is a woman who I worked with many, many years ago who had some challenges and As I explain her challenges, I'm going to invite you to please make sure to not go into a place of judgment or criticism and feeling critical of her, but instead just, just being understanding, you know, she had some mind programming that was deeply rooted and deeply installed in her.

that was creating some problems with her integrity. So she was very out of integrity in life, but of course it was her mind programming that led her there. So we'll have absolute compassion as I share with you this story. And it's this, it's that, you know, this woman, she had been married to her husband for about 10 years.

And they had two kids together and she had always wanted to have three kids. Like, I mean, that was her number of kids growing up. She was, it was her thing. She always wanted to have three kids, but she got to a place where she was ready to leave her husband. She just wanted to leave him. And she had wanted to leave him for a few years.

And basically when she came to me, the reason that she came to me was She had an autoimmune disease for the last like four years. And so just like on the volunteer episodes where I'll work with a person and you know who's experiencing some type of health issue and I help them to identify what is going on and then we work to shift it.

Now, I did the same thing with her. You know, as she came in and she had this autoimmune disease, I was checking into her energy. You know, what is that energetic connection? Now, what came up for her was this. It's that she had the two kids and she wanted to have a third kid. and then leave her husband. So in other words, she had been wanting to leave her husband for quite some time, but more than anything, she also wanted to have three kids.

And there was so much stigma for her at the idea of having three kids. Kids with different dads that there was no way she wanted to have kids with different dads I mean to her it was like there's it was terrible. You know, that was that was what she had built up in her head Now, of course, it's not terrible But she was concerned about being judged and I think there are so many different Mixed families and I know that I come from a very blended family, you know, like the Brady Bunch if you will You know just you know It's several siblings and step family in the mix, both on my mother's side and my father's side, which is all interesting now that, you know, of course, everybody's grown up and have kids and, and all of that.

It just creates for a very large extended family of nephews and nieces and a beautiful big family. And so point being is that to me, you know, having mixed family, mixed race, mixed, uh, Everything is just normal in this day and age and, you know, it has been for the past 40, 50 years, you know, it just get more and more normal, especially now in today's world.

But anyways, my point being is that with this woman, there was so much stigma around the idea of having kids by different fathers, that her plan had been to get pregnant with her husband. and then leave. So then she could have all of the kids all by the same dad and, you know, and he could help support them and, and all of that.

And that, that was her plan. Now, what happened is that she ended up getting sick and was not able to get pregnant and she had this autoimmune thing. And so that's what came up for her in her energy. You know, when she came to me, Her goal was to heal from this autoimmune condition. That's what she had been trying to do for several years, and then was to get pregnant so then she could leave her husband.

And so obviously you can look at this and see this entire situation is clearly out of integrity. And by the way, she's not the only person I've seen like this. I've actually worked with other women who have had like almost the exact same scenario. So I have seen this before. And in these situations, when I looked at their husband's energy.

They just were not aligned with having another kid. Like it just was not their alignment, their desire. They were completely out of alignment from that and also not aligned with being taken advantage of financially either, because part of that in some cases was also a financial strategy as well. And so there were just multiple things.

Now, Let's be honest. Of course, there are some situations where this has come to fruition. And by the way, as we're going through this, I'm going to ask you again, please, I want to emphasize, remember not to judge or criticize or label anybody as bad or this, that, the other. You know, when you think about it for a moment, everybody has their beliefs that ends up Shaping their actions and their thoughts and their behavior.

And, you know, sometimes people get stuck in a place of being out of integrity and they don't mean to, they just kind of end up there. And this woman that I had been working with, that was her situation. I mean, she just wanted a kid so, so, so badly. And the idea of having two different dads, was something that was just horrific to her.

I mean, it was just, I mean, she could be ostracized for it and blah, blah. Like it was just so horrendous for her, you know, of course it's not really, but in her mind it was. And so for her, it was the only way for her to have another kid. And that was the way she was looking at it. And she just had that tunnel vision.

She couldn't really see. The other side of it where that wasn't fair to her husband. And so of course, by the way, if she had just talked to her husband and said, hey, I want to ultimately get a divorce and I would love to have a third kid before we do so. Can we do that? And, and had that conversation and then so they're both on board with it.

Well, then clearly that would have been in integrity, but that wasn't the route that she went. Now, the point that I want you to take from this. Is the awareness that he just was not aligned with her actions and so that Ended up reflecting negatively and manifesting negatively in her life. And I have seen so many other situations that are, you know, the same type of thing, not necessarily the same scenario.

And of course, again, I've seen others of that same type of scenario, but I have seen different examples completely, you know, and I guess another way to really illustrate it would be, you know, imagine if one person went to go punch somebody. who's not in alignment with being punched, then it's like that person who's about to punch the person ends up like falling on their face first.

Or when they go to punch the other person, it's like the other person's not even in the area. It's like they're gone. They're in a different space completely. Or maybe another example that might be a more well known example would be to think about the terrorist attacks of September 11th on the trade towers.

Now, if you think about it, there were a lot of people who were quote unquote supposed to have been in that office who weren't in there, or even there were also people who were supposed to be on one flight or another who weren't on it for whatever reason. Um, and of course it's because they weren't aligned with that for one reason or another.

Now I'm not saying that the people who were in those trade center attacks were, you know, it was because they deserved to die or punishment or something like that, but sometimes what happens is people will have in their energy, uh, maybe a feeling or a pattern of dying for others, you know, that they're meant to die for others.

And so. That could be one or, you know, all different types of things. So I'm not trying to say that by any means that, you know, anything negative about people who went through the September 11th attacks. And by the way, if you know my story, um, I was not in the trade towers or anything like that, but my whole injury story had to do with the.

What happened in my head because of those. Um, so, you know, if you've heard my story before, then you know that September 11th was something that I had to work through, which I didn't realize at the time. But, anyways, point being, is just very simply, you know, it's well known that there were a lot of people who were supposed to be in the office who quote unquote weren't there.

And, for anybody who did lose their job, a person in all of that. I have so much compassion for them and for you and for everything that everybody went through and my point being from this is, you know, if we circle back to the first story of the woman with the autoimmune issues or any of these stories, is just You know, the goal is to really focus on having a great life and really work on aligning with having a great, healthy, happy, wonderful life and that energy is more powerful than so many people realize and the more that you are truly, genuinely in positive alignment, the more that you are in a safe place in life.

And so that is the positive, powerful, quick insight that I want to bring to you today on today's quick IQ episode is to not live in fear or worry about always manifesting the negative or the problems that could happen, but instead to really clear your energy to really focus on manifesting great things in your life and the living life to its fullest.

Now, of course, when it comes to manifesting, you always want to have positive mindset and positive subconscious alignment, and also positive action with that. You know, so often people forget that action part, but even if you think about manifesting a wonderful relationship, You know, if you manifest a wonderful relationship, but you take no action and you, maybe you meet somebody who's wonderful, but if you never go on the date and call the person and connect with the person and keep going on dates or keep connecting with them, then you're never going to manifest that amazing relationship because you didn't take any action.

And so, Even if it's manifesting a relationship or anything in life, it of course also does take some type of follow through action. So I'm not saying, you know, just only make sure your energy is good and that's it. You know, yeah, that is key, but Positive alignment with positive action in life is so powerful.

And for me on my own journey, you know, as I started watching energy and how it was working and understanding it and seeing it, you know, watching it unfold and watching these different scenarios happen, that to me gave me an additional level of feeling safe from people. If you will, it was just like this feeling of going, Oh, okay, well now I see.

More and more how this works, I feel safer now. I feel safer people because I just don't have to align with the negative. And so that is also the gift that I want to share with you is just. To reinforce, making sure to program your mind, get the positive in, align with positive things, delete the old negative things, the negative patterns, really get rid of them wholeheartedly.

So, that and, of course, the positive. That additional feeling of feeling safe in life, you know, and safer in life. It's just a great feeling. And all too often, there's so many reasons to feel fear or more fear, you know, worry or this, that, the other. So we want to go the opposite way and just bring in that feeling of really feeling safe and of course, That empowerment feeling where we're not all victims and negative things just happening to us and we can't do anything about it and this, that, the other.

But there's that empowerment piece to step more and more into feelings of empowerment. And so on that note, I'm going to ask you to please do hit the share button on this episode. You know, share it with somebody you love, somebody you care about, or somebody you don't even know. You know, the more. happy and healthy and safe and empowered that every person feels in our world, the better this world will be for all of us.

And so on that note, please do make a point to have a happy, wonderful, spiritful rest of your day. And I look forward to connecting with you on the next episode. I'll see you there.

Thank you for listening to Heal Yourself, Change Your Life. All of the time, people reach out and say how much these episodes have given them hope or touch their heart or help them stay positive in hard times, or even woken them up to a completely new level of awareness. Of how amazing we all really are.

If today's episode touched your heart or expanded your mind in any way, please do me a favor and be sure to share it with those you care about or those, you know, who really need it. As more and more people become empowered, it really will change our world for the better. That is the point, and the power of these demonstrations is to create a radical shift in our world consciousness by showing everyone what we are all capable of.

And of course, each volunteer will really need to follow through to reinforce their programming to maintain their results. But the point is for you to see that you really can create rapid results in your health and your life. If you really understand how to use your mind, you're incredible. And I do want to be clear though, that most people will not get results this fast on their own.

I make it look very easy because of the discoveries that I made. You'll want to remember that there's so much more going on in our minds at a deeper level than people realize. That said, if you want to send me any questions or comments, come visit me on my website at brandygillmore.com/podcast.

And if you're currently experiencing physical pain and would like to be a volunteer on the show, you can sign up there as well. Lastly, Please remember, if you do have any health issues, you won't want to avoid your doctors. Instead, you'll want to continue seeing them and make it your goal to blow their minds with what you're capable of with your mind.

Thank you.