Welcome to Heal Yourself. Change Your Life. I’m Brandy Gillmore and what I’m most known for is helping people to create radical transformations and even demonstrating the power of the mind and self-healing under medical equipment so you can see the results and my work has even been published in a medical journal because it’s truly incredible what we are all capable of when we understand our own minds at a deeper level.
So whether you’re new to this work or you’ve been studying the power of the mind for many years. I love that you are here. I love that we’re on this incredible journey together, and I look forward to sharing breakthrough information with you. That said, on this podcast, I’ll share two types of episodes.
First, self-healing episodes, where I share key insights from working with live volunteers. And the second type are where I answer questions from the audience. That said, if you’d like to volunteer or submit a question, come visit me at BrandyGillmore.com. On that note, let’s dive in.
Hello and happy, beautiful day to you. I want to add in a quick but important note to make this podcast very easy to navigate because today’s episode has a special format. Today I worked with a live volunteer. As you probably know, there are a lot of people who are now using AI to modify information online.
For that reason, we have taken an extra step to help protect our beautiful volunteer and the integrity of this work to help keep the information from being modified. And we actually love how this turned out because it provides you with even more information. This is how it works. On today’s episode, you’ll hear an overview of the person that I worked with, and I will provide you with simple but powerful breakthrough insights that helped our volunteer begin making a radical shift.
Then at the end of this short breakthrough episode, if you are ready for a deep dive, you can click in the show notes to gain access to the actual self-healing session where I worked directly with the live volunteer. This enables us to help protect the information online from being modified. While still continuing to provide you with powerful information to help bridge the gap between science and spirituality and personal empowerment, because it’s truly incredible what you are capable of when you learn to understand your mind at a deeper level.
That said, let’s dive into the simple but powerful insights that came from working with today’s volunteer. Here we go.
I just love today’s episode for so many reasons. The insights from it are really divine timing. On recent episodes, we’ve been talking about how counterintuitive the mind can be, and we’ve talked about how positive things can get linked up to negative things. And the example that we used is sometimes people will link up a feeling that a past illness was a quote unquote blessing in disguise or a quote unquote gift. And what can happen is that if they see something as being a gift, what does it tell the mind? At a deeper level it says, I want more of that, or attract more of that. So it creates a repeating pattern. Now, what’s divine timing is that our beautiful volunteer has patterns that are keeping her stuck, that are completely counterintuitive where something positive was linked up with something negative and it’s perpetuating the problem. And so I love the insights that come from today’s episode. And by the way, I absolutely love our volunteers. She is just, she’s so sweet. Her name is Mary. She’s just real and authentic and absolute sweetheart, you just get this feeling from her that she’s just real, genuine, heartfelt, good person, and I love that. And. She also has a really great sense of humor, which was actually part of what the problem was, is not of course, her sense of humor, but. The awareness that her sense of humor was also linked up to self-deprecating mind programming.
To give you a bit more of the backstory, I connected with Mary because she has been experiencing chronic migraines. So she reached out and as we started diving in, we found, of course, a variety of different emotions. There’s always a combination of key ingredients, if you will, but the one that was really keeping her the most stuck or creating the biggest problem, if you will, is the feeling of laughing at her own expense. So being self-deprecating and also being mean or critical to herself, but the gateway to that. Is that feeling of being self-deprecating, of being critical of self, and it’s repeating the problem.
Now so often this can get linked up in a variety of different ways. Now, a common example you hear me use all of the time is if you think about somebody who says something like, oh, I look horrible in this shirt. And what are you supposed to say? No you don’t. You look great. So what happens in that case?
Is that a positive compliment and reassurance gets linked up to. Self-criticism. So in other words, if somebody just criticizes themselves and says, I look horrible in this, then somebody else says, no, you don’t. You look amazing. So now it provides no, you don’t, reassurance and that positive reinforcement, the compliment and so what happens is a positive gets linked up with a negative and it perpetuates the problem. So basically it’s incentivizing the mind. To criticize itself. It gets a reward, it gets compliment, it gets reassurance through self-criticism, and so I’ll see the same thing happen. If somebody links up, let’s say positive emotions, reward to sympathy, what happens in that case, their subconscious mind can want to attract things like problems or drama or hardship because then sympathy comes in or like we were talking about on recent episodes, if somebody links up that a health issue or a crisis or a problem and they link that up with gift, it then makes their mind subconsciously want to go in that direction. Or it can just perpetuate a lot of subconscious fears and stress and mental chatter and chaos at a subconscious level and I’ve seen it. All of the time. Now, of course, somebody who’s very logical would say, well, the conscious mind knows better. And yes, the conscious mind can absolutely know better, but. When information is linked up like that in the subconscious mind, it controls the subconscious and that becomes the problem.
So to really land this and kind of expand the awareness, think about it in this way, unfortunately, a person who is a cutter, somebody who is cutting themselves, of course. That’s a case where a positive gets linked up to a negative, and so a person may experience relief or euphoria or controller safety from cutting themselves and so that gets linked up. Now in this case, I’ve worked with people who unfortunately had this situation and there is a part of them that knew. Something was wrong, like they knew it wasn’t right. So in some cases, people will hide it because they’re engaging in that behavior, and yet they don’t want others to know because consciously they know there’s something wrong with it, and yet subconsciously they feel pulled towards it.
Now, in the case of a cutter, they can see their own behavior or actions are part of the problem, however. When a positive gets linked up to a negative at a subconscious level and it’s invisible, most people don’t even realize it’s creating a problem. So in other words, let’s say somebody does link up that a health issue or a crisis, and they link that up with gift.
In this case, they don’t even realize it’s creating the issue. Because it’s happening at an invisible level. So it might show up as fear or expectation of dying, or expectation of something bad happening or manifesting health issues, problems, illness, because it’s been linked up at a deeper level as being some type of gift or blessing in disguise or whatnot.
So my point is. In the case of somebody who is unfortunately cutting themselves, they can see that it’s their own behavior also that is contributing to the problem. However, with mindset and the invisible emotions, many times people don’t even realize subconscious links are even connected to a bigger problem and so part of where we’re going in this case is that. The self-deprecating energy that can feel good and feel humorous with Mary, that’s been linked up to positivity and connection, and laughter. By being self-deprecating is also affecting her health, affecting her life, her relationships, the way she feels about herself.
So it’s affecting all of these things, and yet. Because a positive has been linked to a negative. It doesn’t feel like that. It’s that invisible factor that’s occurring, and that’s part of the insight that I really wanted to share with you on this episode is just how much counterintuitive subconscious mind programming can affect a person, even when we don’t realize it. And that of course, is what we’ve been talking about again on the past episode. So it is just divine timing. I could not have planned it better myself to really exemplify what it is that we’re talking about here at a subconscious level and the change that you’ll really want to make in your mindset if you have found yourself being in a place where you’re being critical of self or self-deprecating, that you really want to look at changing this or even linking up. Something positive with something negative. So the question to always ask yourself is if you link something up to a blessing or a gift, ask yourself, would I really want more of this?
And so in the case of even self-deprecating, she could ask herself, would I really want more deprecation? Well, not really. And so that’s what you’ll want to think about when you link things up in your mind is even asking yourself, would I really want this thing, if you will, would I really want more of it if you’re linking it up to a positive.
Now, another thing that was even highlighted in today’s episode was just the awareness also, that we can have completely conflicting emotions. Where a person can know that they’re loved and yet also feel unloved, or somebody can know that they don’t want hardship. And by the way, simultaneously have a feeling of linked up pride with hardship or they can know that a crisis or health issue is not a gift. Like they don’t want that anymore, and yet it can get linked up. In the subconscious mind, and of course, that’s the reason that you hear me differentiate that all of the time is because my courses have to do with the gift method, which is basically the method, the healing, the transformation helps you find the gift, not the crisis, the problem, the hardship. The negativity. So you would not want to link up gift to illness or crisis or hardship or whatnot. Because that could create a problem at a deeper level. And I see it all of the time, and I see more and more people who are wanting to think in a positive way. And they say, oh, well that was such a blessing in disguise and they’re, oh, it turned out to be a gift where they had a, let’s say they had a major issue like cancer, and then they healed from that and they go, oh, you know what? It turned out to be a big gift. And it’s like, well, wait a second. The cancer, the health issue. That was not the gift. The gift was that you changed, or the gift is that you started to appreciate life more, or the gift is that you transformed or cleaned up relationships or whatever it is.
The gift is the positive transformation that happened. The gift is not the negative, hurt, illness, hardship, crisis, et cetera, and you wouldn’t want to associate that in any way. Even if your conscious mind knows better, those subconscious links are more impactful than the conscious mind and what the conscious mind decides.
So even in this case, in working with Mary, what’s happened is that there’s a part of her who knows that she’s loved, and there’s also a part of her who feels unloved. And if you ask her logical mind, yeah, she, knows she’s loved, but the feelings can build up. And so we can know something and yet experience underlying feelings of hurt, of fear, of unloved, of self-criticism, whatever that is and that can affect your health, your healing, your life, your transformation, all of it. And so that’s the insight that I want to share with you is exactly that, is really thinking about your mind programming beyond quote unquote logic or traditional conscious logic into really understanding. Emotions and that you won’t want to link up something positive with something negative because it can definitely create a problem and I see it all of the time. And the thing of it is, is because it’s in the subconscious mind, people don’t even realize. That it’s happening. And so just food for thought. Be careful what you link up to positive things. Be careful what you link up to a gift. Ask yourself, is this really a gift? If I receive this, is it a gift or is it something unwanted or getting a compliment from criticizing yourself or something like that, think of, well wait a second. Isn’t there a better way to get compliments and connection and be kind to yourself at the same time? And so food for thought, and that’s the insight that I want to share with you today. Now, of course, as I was working with Mary, there were multiple other insights that came up.
So if you’d like to listen to the full session, you can do so by just clicking in the show notes to access. That entire recording. And also if you’re somebody who would like to gain a deeper understanding of mind body healing, there’s also free training available in the show notes as well. So that’s available because ultimately my biggest hope is that every single person in our world learns how to heal themselves and change their life. And so that is my hope for you and for everybody. And on that note, I want to ask you to please do take just a quick moment to hit the share button on this episode. Share it with somebody you love, somebody you care about, or somebody you don’t even know. Because the more that every single person in our world feels happy and healthy and loved and loving, the better this world is for all of us.
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