Welcome to Heal Yourself. Change Your Life. I’m Brandy Gillmore and what I’m most known for is helping people to create radical transformations and even demonstrating the power of the mind and self-healing under medical equipment so you can see the results and my work has even been published in a medical journal because it’s truly incredible what we are all capable of when we understand our own minds at a deeper level.
So whether you’re new to this work or you’ve been studying the power of the mind for many years. I love that you are here. I love that we’re on this incredible journey together, and I look forward to sharing breakthrough information with you. That said, on this podcast, I’ll share two types of episodes.
First, self-healing episodes, where I share key insights from working with live volunteers. And the second type are where I answer questions from the audience. That said, if you’d like to volunteer or submit a question, come visit me at BrandyGillmore.com. On that note, let’s dive in.
Hello and happy, beautiful day to you. I want to add in a quick but important note to make this podcast very easy to navigate because today’s episode has a special format. Today I worked with a live volunteer. As you probably know, there are a lot of people who are now using AI to modify information online.
For that reason, we have taken an extra step to help protect our beautiful volunteer and the integrity of this work to help keep the information from being modified. And we actually love how this turned out because it provides you with even more information. This is how it works. On today’s episode, you’ll hear an overview of the person that I worked with, and I will provide you with simple but powerful breakthrough insights that helped our volunteer begin making a radical shift.
Then at the end of this short breakthrough episode, if you are ready for a deep dive, you can click in the show notes to gain access to the actual self-healing session where I worked directly with the live volunteer. This enables us to help protect the information online from being modified. While still continuing to provide you with powerful information to help bridge the gap between science and spirituality and personal empowerment, because it’s truly incredible what you are capable of when you learn to understand your mind at a deeper level.
That said, let’s dive into the simple but powerful insights that came from working with today’s volunteer. Here we go.
All right, so let’s go ahead and explore today’s self-healing session. First and foremost, I have to say I just love today’s episode for so many reasons. It really highlights the counterintuitive, illogical emotions and mindset. That so many people overlook and I did that very thing on my own healing journey as I was working on healing myself.
Some of the things that were there the emotions that I had, I completely overlooked because I didn’t think that they could be the issue. And that’s one of the very powerful things from today’s episode is just the awareness and also just looking at how illogical emotions really are because so often I’ll see people who get emotions linked up and they don’t realize that they can affect them, and some simple examples, but very common examples unfortunately are this, a person may get the feeling linked up of pride.
To hardship, and if pride in hardship are linked up, this pattern can perpetuate. It can also create more problems and stress and be linked to different physical illness. Or in some cases, a person can get their mind linked up to a feeling of self-sacrifice, that it is good to sacrifice themselves for others, and this can get linked up and it can affect them even if in their mind.
They quote, unquote, know better, or even you’ll hear me talk about it all of the time, where a person can get it linked up that some type of illness or problem or crisis is a gift, and they can get that linked up in their mind and it can create all kinds of stress and worry and fears at a subconscious level.
And people don’t even realize it’s affecting that. And so that’s part of where we’re going in today’s episode, is just looking at these emotions that can be overlooked, that can seem so illogical or irrational, and yet. They can still impact your health and your life. And by the way, the volunteer that I worked with today, her name is TJ, and she is just so lovely.
You’ll absolutely love her. She’s so sweet. She’s self-aware. She’s just really smart. And during her session as I worked with her, her pain actually went up. As we started talking about the problems and the topic that’s triggering her, and then it went down. So initially when her and I started working, her pain level was about a four.
And then as we started talking about the problem, her pain went up to about a seven, eight. And the good thing is, of course, by the time that we wrapped up the session, it was nearly gone. She couldn’t feel any of that same pain that she was experiencing. Now, before I share with you the specific insights from her session, I do want to share just a bit about her story to give you context.
First and foremost, she’s just this beautiful, very self-aware, very smart being and she’s had pain in her upper abdomen that has been going on for quite a while, and she also had breast cancer and doesn’t know clearly if it’s gone or if it’s still present because doctors aren’t really sure. And so she’s been in this place of limbo and also been experiencing this physical pain.
And so as we dove into what was going on at a deeper level. We started talking about her mother, TJ’s mom had passed and TJ found herself in a place where she was blaming herself and feeling guilty as though it was her fault and she didn’t do enough to help her mom, and that she should have done more and she should have listened, and she’s feeling all of these feelings of guilt and feeling bad, and had created this whole story on why it was her fault.
Now, there was another part of her mind. That knew that it wasn’t her fault on some levels where she logically kind of knew it, but also really felt at a deeper level. That it was, in fact, as she started talking about the story she mentioned, it just made her feel really icky. And part of the reason is because her mother had been somebody who was experiencing a lot of mental health issues.
So her mother isolated herself in her apartment where she got rid of her phone and her doorbell and wouldn’t really connect with the outside world and had depression and whatnot. And that was the state her mom was in. And now as I was working with TJ and really uncovering the story, part of what came to light is that her mom felt like there were people who were constantly breaking into her house and taking things, and everybody thought she was just kind of crazy that it wasn’t real, that it was just part of the paranoia.
However, ultimately, after her mom died. They uncovered the story that there was actually a neighbor who was breaking in. To her mom’s house. And so of course it was not her fault and there were so many other components. However, TJ ended up feeling this sense of feeling as though it was her fault and blaming herself and, feeling, and of course, part of her mind like, struggled with it, with feeling like, but it’s not her fault.
And another part of her just wanted to, fix it. And so all of these emotions were going on at a deeper level. In fact, TJ’s breast cancer diagnosis was actually right shortly after her mom had passed. So you could kind of see the timeline correlation as we were discussing this. But ultimately, some of the insights that came from this were just the awareness that, number one is that TJ’s pattern was her life and her story. While her mom’s pattern was her own, meaning that TJ always had this pattern of feeling responsible, feeling bad, feeling like she didn’t do enough, feeling like that was her pattern. Even since childhood, it was her pattern. And so as much as she wanted to change her mom. They were both in their own patterns, and so beating herself up or feeling bad or feeling guilty isn’t the answer.
The real answer is healing her own pattern. Now, another insight is this, is that TJ’s mind built up this whole reason that her mom died must have been because of this break-ins and people taking her stuff, but the truth of it is. That her mom died from a heart attack and she really doesn’t know what the cause was.
Nobody does. So she’s linked up all of these feelings of feeling bad in this whole story, and that’s her positioning on the story. But if we stop and think about it for a moment. Even though TJ has linked up that it was all her fault and, it had to do with these break-ins and whatnot. The reality of it is, is that her mom was isolating a lot and she was extremely lonely, and it is well established in medical research that loneliness can dramatically increase chance of heart attack, stroke type two diabetes. In fact, after COVID occurred, even the surgeon general released an entire report about the negative impact of loneliness, and so it is well established that loneliness can definitely increase the chances of death. And so the truth of it is, is that TJ doesn’t really know what happened.
And the reality is also that unfortunately her mom is the one who really chose to be by herself and created that isolation, with no doorbell and no cell phone and, really, I mean, isolated. And it’s not about. Blaming her mom either. I say that with so much compassion, even for her mom, but also realizing that it’s unfair for her to blame herself as well.
And so either way, when we stop and look at it, the truth is, is that TJ doesn’t really know what happened with her mom, but she’s been beating herself up feeling horrible and that’s part of it. Now the other thing is there’s other pieces. For example, there’s a another feeling of her wanting to go kind of speak to her mom. Now what happens, and I’ve seen this happen so often, and I started to talk about this in the beginning, was the counterintuitive emotions. If somebody links up in their mind that they want to speak to somebody who’s dead, or they want to go connect with somebody, there can be a part of them that subconsciously wants to die, and of course not at a conscious level, but a simple way to think about it is like this, is that, imagine if there’s somebody in Europe that you feel like you really, really, really want to talk to or you need to talk to, then there can be a subconscious poll to want to go to Europe. And so similarly in TJ’s case.
There’s like this feeling of feeling like she just needed to talk to her mom, and her mom has passed. And so what happens? It can create a subconscious feeling of feeling like she needs to die to talk to her mom. And I know that does not make logical sense, but you want to keep in mind. That emotions are not logical.
Again, the example that you hear me use all of the time is a cutter. Somebody can cut themselves and feel relief or euphoria or control or safety from cutting themselves, and this doesn’t make logical sense, and yet it can get linked up. And of course, we can have so much compassion because nobody links these things up on purpose.
But they get linked up all the time. And in fact, I mentioned even on last week’s IQ episode that I actually see more and more people inadvertently linking things up in their mind that they don’t realize. So for example, in the beginning I talked about the pride in hardship that gets linked up, or where people go through some type of illness or injury or crisis, and they link that up to being a gift where somebody might say.
That was a blessing in disguise. When something negative happens, it makes the mind drawn towards that. And so that’s what you really want to keep in mind is that if you link up something positive, like a pride in something or a gift in something, you want to make sure that it’s something that you want to move towards.
So for example, pride in hardship, you don’t want to move towards hardship. So instead. Pride of ease would be better or even, linking up a gift. You wouldn’t want to link up illness to a gift or a problem to a gift, but instead health to a gift. Happiness as the gift, or in this case, with her mom and that feeling of wanting to go and connect with her mom.
Instead, what I’d want her to do is feel like her mom can hear her. Right here on solid ground that she can speak to her mom or the spirit of her mom or the energy of her mom without needing to go anywhere. So it releases any subconscious pull of needing to go connect with her mom. So again, I know that this is completely counterintuitive and that really is the point.
And by the way, if you are somebody who would like to listen to this full episode, you can definitely do so simply sign into the members area and you can listen to the actual session where I worked with TJ and there’s additional insights. So it’s really powerful. Or if you’re somebody who’s really wanting to understand a training on how mind body healing works at a deeper level or an advanced training.
All of those are also in the show notes as well. So either way, I want to make sure you feel supported because the reality is the more that every single person in our world feels happy and healthy and loved and loving, the better this world is for all of us. And so on that note, please do take just a quick moment to hit the share button on this episode.
Share it with somebody you love, somebody you care about, or somebody you don’t even know because that way every person can wake up and feel empowered and happy and healthy, and really heal themselves and change their life. So that of course is my hope for everyone and my hope for you. And so on that note, I wish you an incredible rest of your day, and I look forward to connecting with you on the next episode.
We’ll see you there.
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