Welcome to Heal Yourself. Change Your Life. I’m Brandy Gillmore and what I’m most known for is helping people to create radical transformations and even demonstrating the power of the mind and self-healing under medical equipment so you can see the results and my work has even been published in a medical journal because it’s truly incredible what we are all capable of when we understand our own minds at a deeper level.
So whether you’re new to this work or you’ve been studying the power of the mind for many years. I love that you are here. I love that we’re on this incredible journey together, and I look forward to sharing breakthrough information with you. That said, on this podcast, I’ll share two types of episodes.
First, self-healing episodes, where I share key insights from working with live volunteers. And the second type are where I answer questions from the audience. That said, if you’d like to volunteer or submit a question, come visit me at BrandyGillmore.com. On that note, let’s dive in.
Hello and welcome to this week’s quick IQ episode where we talk about insights and questions. And today I want to share with you an insight / question that I get all of the time, and it’s regarding the topic of manifestation. And because the time of year as everybody is setting their New Year’s resolutions or goals or things that they’re wanting to manifest this year.
Whether it has to do with relationship or a change in career or children or whatever that is. And I have to say, one of the things that I love is just people loving life, being passionate about manifesting the relationship or the children or the move or the transformation or taking themselves to the next level, or their business to the next level, whatever it is, it’s so beautiful watching people being passionate about life and about love and about friendships, and about doing and being and all of it.
I just absolutely love it. And so there are a few keys that I want to talk about of things that I see that will block people from really manifesting the things that they’re wanting in life. Just in general, because I’ll see people all of the time who are very well aware of the power of the mind, and yet simultaneously have these blocks that keep them stuck from manifesting what it is that they want.
And so that’s where I want to go today just because it’s such a big topic right now, and I just see so many people who are passionate about what it is that they’re wanting. And they’re also simultaneously feeling stuck. And so there’s a few things. So first and foremost, an example you’ll hear me use all of the time on the topic of manifestation has to do with the example of writer’s block.
if you think about a writer who’s wanting to write something and they feel blocked, they can’t think of what to write, and that can be true. When we’re working on manifesting, we’ll feel blocked, and so it’s like we don’t have the answers or we don’t see something as possible, but then, much like a writer who removes those blocks, suddenly we start having ideas and answers come in, and I can tell you all of the time when I work with people and I’ll help them to get aligned with what it is that they’re wanting. They suddenly have ideas, they say, oh my gosh, I could do this or I could do that.
It’s like the floodgates have opened for what it is that they’re wanting to do or be or create. And not only do the floodgates of ideas open, but all of the time they’ll also have this boost of energy where they feel like, okay, I gotta go do this. Like they feel energized or pulled to do it. And so I want to unpack that a bit because some of the spiritual beliefs then can also block this where people may have spiritual beliefs that say, it’s better not to do anything I don’t want to do. I just want to be. So then the problem becomes that they’re not manifesting or not really taking those answers or doing anything with them. And that would be much like a writer who opens up writer’s block, who clears the block and has all these ideas come through, but never writes it down. And furthermore, if that writer has a belief that says it’s not spiritual to do anything, then the problem is they continue to block the answer. Meaning that when a person’s brain would normally open up and start giving them a bunch of information, their brain remains blocked because simultaneously if they feel like it’s not good to do, they’re just supposed to be, and that is what is most spiritual. Or another block that is very common that I see as this, is that when people feel like they’re not supposed to do anything, that it’s much more spiritual to be. What can happen is, again, using the same analogy as writer’s block…
Say this person was able to clear their blocks. They have this information come in. What I’ve also seen happen is that while the answers are coming in and they’re downloading, a person gets very overwhelmed at the idea of taking action because, again, they have this spiritual belief that says it’s more spiritual to just be. And I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen this happen.
And so it’s like the very thing they’re opening their mind or they’re working on it to open their mind to manifest, and then they’re getting the answers or they’re working on aligning. But the problem is, again, that block that they have conflicting information in their subconscious mind. And so it keeps them from manifesting the very thing that they’re wanting.
And even if I use an example and I say, somebody’s working on manifesting a relationship and they have this feeling where they should get out and maybe go do this or that to meet a person. And then on the inside they feel like that’s not spiritual. I shouldn’t, I should just wait for the person to come to me, et cetera, et cetera.
So point being is the very things that they’re being inspired to do or be the answers that are coming through are then also then simultaneously blocked by spiritual beliefs that say, I should just be. And so it’s negating the very answers that are coming through. And so that’s one insight that I want to invite you to take, or a few insights in that whole thing or a few things, is that as you align with what it is you’re wanting, the answers can come in and as they do, you want to receive them in a beautiful way. And by the way, if you are somebody who has held the belief that says to be spiritual, that you should just be, I want to invite you to change that. I want to invite you to analyze that for a moment. If you think about a young child who’s very spiritual, they don’t sit there and just do nothing.
They want to do everything! Or another example you hear me use all the time is if you think about a bird, a bird comes here and they don’t want to just sit there, they fly, they soar. Or even a cheetah comes and runs like the wind. If you think about humans, we’re creators.
We didn’t come here to just sit and just do nothing. We came here to be, to create, to expand, to evolve, to grow. But having that growth, connecting with universe, having answers and information, and feeling excited about life and to live life to its fullest, so we’re here to do, to be, to create, to love, to enjoy, to laugh, to have an incredible experience, and also to grow ourselves.
Yeah, and the things that we grow in the areas that we grow in are the things that we also love doing. For example, somebody who feels like they’re really good at people, they’re good at being around people, they’re confident with people, they feel good, they laugh, they can connect with people. What do they do?
They like being around people. They love that connection or somebody, even if we think about a child in school, if they feel like they’re good at math, they like to do that. If they feel like they’re good at English or spelling or whatever it is, they’ll feel drawn towards that. And so part of what we want to do when we’re working on manifesting is make sure that we start feeling good at what it is that we’re doing because the more we feel good about doing something, the more we want to do it, and the more it feels good doing it, and the more we want to do it. And so we feel even more pulled towards it. And that too is a state that can help you to manifest. And even if we think about it for a moment, if we apply this again to manifesting a relationship, somebody who feels like they’re good at relationships, they feel excited about relationships, they feel excited about dating, and they feel like they can really manifest the relationship that they want. That type of energy can help them manifest a beautiful relationship compared to somebody who feels like they’re not good at relationships, that they’re fearful, that they’re afraid of it, that they might get hurt, that they aren’t good at it, that maybe nobody will love them. Then when somebody’s in that state, it’s harder to move towards what it is that they’re wanting to manifest, because there’s all of the hurts, the negativity. And so I want to invite you to look at what it is that you are wanting to manifest in life. And I want to invite you to bring the pieces together, if you will. You know the awareness that as you align your mind, that ideas will come through.
And that as ideas come through that you want to be excited to take action on them and to fulfill them. And if you are not, then you want to be willing to evolve the self to get good at them, because then that will then pull you even more towards what you’re wanting. For example, if I use again, the example of dating, let’s say that somebody is picturing the relationship that they want, they’re picturing it, they really, really want it.
They’re working on aligning with it, and they start having ideas or signs, different things coming in, right? So they start seeing signs or ideas and then they go to take action. They’re like, oh, but I’m afraid, oh, but I don’t really want to go connect with people or have the courage to step out to connect with somebody to really date.
And so what happens is it’s like part of the manifestation process started to occur, which is where they started to align with it and start to get ideas. But then the actionable part that helps it to come to fruition, i got stuck there. Or I’ve seen people before who want to manifest a certain type of business, and so they’re working on manifesting it and getting in alignment with money and what it is that they’re wanting and, aligning with it.
And of course. as they’re working on manifesting it, they have the ideas that come in, then it’s time to take action on it. Now, again, if you grow or if you develop yourself, you develop the skills, it can feel fun, and that’s ultimately what you’ll want to do to bring something to fruition. Just like again, a kid who’s in school and loves doing math, or somebody else who loves writing all day, we have things that we’re pulled towards and many times it’s because we feel like we’re good at them.
Most people, if you ask them, if they’d rather play a game that they’re really, really good at or a game that they’re not good at, most people would want to play the game that they’re really good at. So we naturally feel drawn towards the things that we’re good at. Again, the problem is, that a lot of times what’ll happen is that I’ll see people who will wake up to the awareness of spirituality, or even again, be on the spiritual path for years and years and years, and they want to manifest all of these things.
So they work on aligning it, whether it’s the relationship or the business or the partner or the move or whatever it is. But then it comes to the actionables and they don’t feel good at the actionables. They feel like they’re not yet good. In which case, what they’d want to do is get good at the details, is develop that part of themselves too.
So then they’re good at the actionables and the more that they’re good at the follow through part. Then the more they feel good at it, the more they enjoy it, the more they feel pulled towards it, the more that they love doing it. But again, this is where that block comes in. And so what happens is their manifestation gets stuck there.
And I’ve seen a lot of people bounce from one dream to another, to another, to another, to another. And not manifest what they’re really wanting, because anytime it gets to that point of needing to develop their skills on the actionable level, it falls short of where it needs to be. Now, by the way, when it comes to manifesting and life coaching and all of that, I work with people who are celebrities or who make millions and millions of dollars or even hundreds of millions of dollars in their company and I have worked with people to help them achieve radical results and even in these businesses or in these careers, when somebody goes to pivot their career or their business or to make a change, it does involve, of course, manifesting in their mindset and what inner changes need to take place. And then looking at what are those practical things? What are the skills that they need to develop and expand and get good at, to then take themselves and their lives to the next level.
And so if we take a moment to really look at the big picture of this inside of what I’m wanting to share with you, it’s this, it’s that, all of the time when people haven’t woken up to the awareness that our thoughts really do help create our lives, and that they’re so important, our mindset is so important for manifesting and creating what it is that we want.
And for many people who haven’t woken up to that awareness, they go through life and they’re trying to just learn the skills to do this or that and, push through. But then maybe this comes up or that problem comes up because their mind isn’t aligned, so then blocks happen or setbacks and they’re not able to achieve the success that they’re wanting because they’re blocked or everything seems to be working against them, which is their own mind.
Or many people don’t even try because they don’t think they can. Because they don’t really realize, that change starts inside their mind. So they’re blocked and they don’t even know that they can, and so they’re stuck. Because they don’t have that awareness of the mindset of what’s really needed to help manifest and create those changes.
But conversely, somebody who has woken up to the awareness of the power of the mind all the time, then what I see is I’ll see people who have woken up to that awareness and they want to manifest and they have the vision, but then they’re telling themselves that they don’t have to take any action. But that physical action, that taking of action and not just taking action, but also then going beyond just taking action, but getting into blissful action of developing the skills and abilities to enjoy it.
Because that’s also when you feel pulled towards it. So again, using the relationship where somebody aligns with it, they have ideas, but then they also feel good and excited about dating and feeling good and safe and blissful and good with people. Now there’s that flow of manifesting or if somebody wants to manifest the business and so they’re working on visualizing and they have the ideas and then simultaneously then they start feeling like they’re good at business, things that they’re doing, and they feel pulled towards it and they want to do it. Now they feel in flow with that business, and so it’s manifesting and ultimately, that’s the insight that I want to share with you today, is looking at the big picture of manifesting.
Now of course, there’s alignment in different things. So there’s details about how to align, et cetera, et cetera. But the block that I really want to highlight in today’s IQ episode has to do with the actionables and getting good at them and enjoying them. And by the way, I cannot tell you how many times I have heard people say I want to be in a relationship. I really, really want to connect with somebody. I want to manifest that. And then simultaneously they say something like, gosh, I really hate dating. It’s not very fun. I wish I could just be in a relationship. I hate dating. I don’t care for people. And I’m like, but wait a second, what happens if you enjoy the process of dating? That’s when you find your person. You enjoy it. You say, I love being with people. Let me connect. Let me be, let me fall in love with the process or fall in love with the process of the business and getting good at it and evolving and growing and have fun expanding and developing yourself. And I know as I’m saying this, some people are still thinking eek, I have to expand or develop myself or grow or do something. But yes, it’s fun. It’s just again, somebody might love math or they love English, or they love playing video games, or they love playing a certain game because they’re good at it.
So I know when a lot of times when people set out to develop a new skill, if they’re not good at it in 10 seconds, they feel over it. They feel like they don’t want to do it or whatever it is, but get good at it. When you get good at it and you enjoy it, that’s what also really does help your vision and what you’re wanting to manifest come into fruition, whether that’s love or relationship or business or moving or life or whatever that is.
And so that’s today’s quick IQ episode is basically in short, develop, enjoy, grow, be. Don’t block yourself. Don’t block yourself from the answers. Be open to them. Be open to changing. And most of all, as you align, make sure to look for that place of blissful determination. And so that’s what I call it, is the feeling where you’re in that blissful place of wanting and expanding and growing and enjoying, to me it’s like a place of runner’s high, where somebody is running and you just hit this flow that feels incredible.
Or I know some people really don’t like running, so another example might be, driving on the freeway where you’re driving and you have the music up and you’re in flow and you feel just everything is flowing and it’s great and the windows are down, the music’s up and you’re just enjoying it.
That flow of going and doing and being, and of course the same is true with business, I’ll help people all the time identify, okay, what skill, what is it that you are needing to fully manifest this, to come into fruition to grow yourself? And how can you really set yourself up for success? And again, that is the insight that I want to bring to you today, is I want to invite you to sit with this, to look at your life and your year ahead and what you are wanting to manifest and see what you can work towards enjoying more, what you can develop in you, what you’re willing to or wanting to develop in you, and make sure you’re not telling yourself not to take action, but instead to take blissful action and get in that zone that feels incredible. All right, so that said, it has been wonderful connecting with you, and as always, I want to ask you to please do make a point to hit the share button on this episode. share it with somebody you love, somebody you care about, or somebody you don’t even know because the more empowered and happy and healthy and loved that every single person is in our world, the better this world is for all of us. And so please do make a point to hit the share button, and please do make a point to hit the share button on this episode. And please do make a point to have a most wonderful, fantastic, loving, happy, healthy rest of your day, and I look forward to connecting with you on the next episode.
We’ll see you there.
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