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Welcome to Heal Yourself, Change Your Life. My name is Brandy Gillmore, and after recovering from my own life changing injury, it's become my mission to share with others the same discoveries I made. that changed my health and my entire life. Our minds are truly incredible. The placebo is proof of this.

Each week I will take this simple awareness to a whole new level. I will even coach live callers to free themselves of physical pain using only their mind. And then I'll provide you with a combination of practical and spiritual insights that you can use to master your mind and body. Your emotions and your energy to help you heal your health, yourself and your life.

Let's begin.

Hello and welcome to this week's quick IQ episode where we talk about insights and questions. And today I have a really great question from a listener that was sent in just divine timing. You know, um, I was about to do this current podcast and I sat down to do it. And as soon as I did, Her message came in and it was exactly on the topic that was needed.

It was just really, really perfect. And she sent it through Instagram, which is great. I mean, there's been a trend of, of messages through Instagram on the IQ session, so it's just been perfect. And again, just divine timing, especially with the last episode that we just did with a volunteer and really powerful insights from that, and, Her question just, again, just divine timing.

And so that said, I'm going to go ahead and read it. She says, hello, Brandy. I have a question that is maybe great for your IQ session. I often hear people say, when you change your life and reach the next level, old things show up and you have to show the universe that you are really ready for a better life.

Like if I want to change my finances and I really do make a change on the inside. Unexpected bills, broken cars, and so on, will happen a lot, and I have to prove I am ready for the next step by staying calm, reacting positively, and so on. People say, that's great, that's a sign that you're just about to change your life.

I wonder if that's true. I am curious what you say about that. Best wishes. I mean, first and foremost, again, just divine timing. And there's so much in that. And so just divine timing. And thank you so much for your question. This is a really great question. And there are layers to this question. So the first part of the question to, to be able to answer this is first and foremost, that this is definitely not the case.

And you'll want to make sure not to tell yourself this because it can keep you from manifesting what it is that you are wanting. Because you know, if you take this question and you say, okay, well, if you do start manifesting in, you know, with the finances and then you're going to end up with unexpected bills and broken cars and all those things, a couple of things can happen.

One that you're afraid to actually do that. I mean, who wants. a bunch of unexpected bills and broken cars, you know? And so what happens is it'll actually stop you from manifesting and creating that change. It's like if, if you say, Hey, something's going to be great and it's going to be terrible. Your nervous system is like, eek, you know?

And so it'll keep your energy from actually aligning with real change because then it becomes excited and also afraid. to manifest a better situation. So that's one thing. Now, another reason that you won't want to tell yourself this is because then on the other side of it, you actually link up in part of your mind that it's good to have problems.

Because if we look at her comment, she said, you know, people say, that's great. That's a sign that you're just about to change your life. So then what happens is on a subconscious level, Um, if you're somebody who's really wanting to change your life, then your mind goes, Oh my God, yay, broken down cars and, and unexpected bills.

Oh my God. This is exciting. I'm about to change my life. So then another part of your mind will actually want these very things. because then it means you're more spiritual and you're about to change your life. And so notice all of the mixed programming in your mind. And that is part of the reason that so many people stay stuck is because there's so much mixed programming or they're manifesting the wrong things.

Because of mixed programming. And if I put this in different context on a different subject, you know, even regarding relationships, you know, imagine for a moment, somebody really, really wants to be in love. They really want a relationship, but. They're terrified of people. They're afraid to go date. They're afraid of this or afraid of that.

Then in many cases they'll stay stuck. And so the analogy that I typically use is like driving a car with one foot on the gas pedal. and the other foot on the brakes. And, you know, if you say, okay, I want this and you're pushing on the gas pedal, but then the other one, the other foot is saying, okay, I'm afraid of this brake pedal, brake pedal.

It keeps you very stuck. Just like driving a car in that way, you don't get very far, you know? And of course, in this case, with that full question that she asked, You know, when people say, Oh, that's great. It's a sign you're about to change your life. If you're having unexpected bills and, and broken down cars and all of that, then there's actually a part of your mind that wants to see that sign.

And so in some cases, this can keep people very stuck and it can also create a combination of also wanting to change. negative things to happen because that means it's a sign of change to your brain, which is not the case. So I want to tell you what that you will want to do. And also there are cases where things do come up like this.

And so I want to go ahead and share that with you as well. But before we dive into that, I just want to say on a spiritual note, you know, the universe, God, divine, whatever you want to call it, energy, mother nature, whatever you want to call it, The universe is not trying to make things hard for us at all.

It's not like we have to prove ourselves. It's not like the universe is forceful or punishing or any of those things. Now, if you are working on this very topic and something negative does come up, there are typically six specific reasons that it could happen. And the first one is that you're not making real change.

And this is very common for a lot of people. A lot of people are trying to visualize what it is that they're wanting, or they bring up the topic of money, and instead of feeling good, and instead of really changing their programming on the inside, they're just trying to ask the universe for money, ask the universe for money, visualize it, and ask the universe for money.

And what happens is they have deeper programming that conflicts with that. And so instead of getting more money, they end up with less money because they're triggering those old subconscious patterns. And I would say that is one of the top reasons that people don't manifest what it is they're wanting is because they're not creating that real change on the inside.

Or even if they do, and they start to get ideas. They're not ever taking action on it. And so then what happens is then they just end up feeling more fearful towards the topic. So in other words, they're trying to just manifest more money and manifest more money and they're seeing lack and lack and lack and they're not taking any action.

They're not doing anything. Even when they have ideas, they're not doing anything. And so then what's happening is that. It's triggering more fear. And so they're going in the wrong direction and that's when they end up with things like the unexpected bills and the car and et cetera, et cetera, is number one, because they're not creating that real change.

So that's number one. And number two is, let's say somebody does start creating change, like they've been working on it. They're starting to create change and there are some things that start to come up and what can happen. is that, let's say somebody has a conflicting belief, like they've wanted more money and wanted more money and wanted more money, so they were working on their finances, working on more abundance, and they were focusing specifically on that, right?

But, simultaneously, they have a pattern that says they shouldn't have. extra money. Meaning that, let's say they say, okay, I want a thousand dollars extra each month or two thousand dollars extra each month. And so they want that and they focus on manifesting that, but they feel like it's wrong to have extra money.

So then what happens is maybe they do manifest the extra one or two thousand dollars a month or whatever it is, but then they also manifest an extra one or two thousand dollars in bills. Each month as well, because they feel like it's bad to have extra money or that, you know, it's selfish if they have extra or you know, whatnot.

Or they feel like they have to spend all the money so they have other conflicting patterns as well. So if that is something in your life. You'll want to notice that and you'll want to make sure to reinforce to your brain. Okay, great brain. There's more coming in Thank you universe. Thank you brain. Thank you change.

There's more coming in and Let me just focus on then this other part of making sure there's not bills and it's okay to have abundance It's okay to save up money. It's okay to have extra It's not stindy or selfish or bad or blah blah blah whatever that might be linked up So that is something that could happen and if so Then you'll, again, just want to make sure to create change around that and acknowledge the progress that you are making.

So that's another thing. Now number three, something else that can come up that does end up manifesting bad things is, let's say using that same example, somebody starts manifesting more money and as they do, they get a little arrogant and superior and start treating people poorly. Well, that will manifest bad things.

problems coming in. So you want to make sure also that as you are starting to manifest and create more things in your life, that you stay humble and grounded and kind and loving and that you, you know, stay in integrity. And by the way, just kind of expanding on this word integrity, integrity in life, like universal integrity is of course not stealing and not taking from others and all of that.

And universal integrity is how you treat people, treating people kindly. You can't just treat people poorly and, you know, be mean to people because it will show up in your life. And by the way, even with A list celebrities or professional athletes or CEOs of major companies or anything like that, I can tell you that if they've got to a point where they start, you know, being arrogant and, and treating people poorly, that it does create a very bumpy road for their life where they may be manifesting great things in one area.

There's a lot of bumpy road to it. There's a lot of, you know, unexpected bills, if you will, or broken cars or problems that continue to manifest. And so integrity is key. And so if you are starting to manifest great things. Then you want to make sure to just stay humble, stay in integrity, make sure that everything that you're doing is in integrity.

That is going to be key for creating a smooth road. So that is another thing that can come up or even number four on the deserving level in general. You know, sometimes what'll happen is is people will start to manifest change and then there's a part of them going, Oh my God, do I deserve this? Or maybe they have some fears coming up.

So for example, you know, I've seen people before where they go to buy a house and they do and everything's going along and then they go, Oh my God, this is a little scary or something like that. And then the deal falls apart. Or even with a relationship where people were wanting to manifest a relationship and then it starts to come to fruition and then they get cold feet, you know, and they get scared.

And so, What you want to remember is that even when things start to manifest in your life, when you do start seeing positive change, you'll want to make sure to reinforce your positive change and notice if any emotions come up for you. And if so, you know, if any resistance emotions come up, if they do come up, you'll want to make sure.

To work with them as well and to be honest with what you're feeling and by the way I can tell you that I have worked with people before who went from you know Two million dollars in their business to three million dollars or four million dollars and then they had this feeling of feeling like oh my god I'm making too much money.

I'm scared and they started feeling that way. And so what happens is of course the brakes come on, you know, and it does it, they start manifesting or attracting ways to take that number down. So they're having to quote unquote, get rid of money. And I've seen people do exactly that. And in that case, they can start manifesting, you know, the, the problems, the lawsuit, this, that, that, the other, you know, just different things can come up in their lives.

And so you want to make sure that, you know, as you are continuing to grow and change that you make sure to. So reinforce it all in your mind and pay attention to what you're really feeling. Not wanting to feel, but what you're really genuinely feeling. Because all of the time people will have this underlying feeling in their nervous system.

And what happens is they've learned, okay, we'll just paint a happy picture on top. You know, put a vision, everything goes great. People do that all the time where they go, okay, well I'm just going to picture a positive vision. What's real for them, in their gut, in their being, is they feel a lot of fear towards finances, or they feel undeserving, or they feel not good enough, like they feel something that's really honestly there, that they're trying very hard not to pay attention to, but because that is the very thing that is in your nervous system, in your being, in your energy, that's where the energy will manifest, not in the positive vision that you're trying to put on top of that.

And so what you'll want to notice from this is that, of course, genuine change is key. You'll really start feeling differently about money genuinely, or whatever topic it is that you're wanting, you just really genuinely start feeling differently about it. And from that place, from that genuine shift in feelings, and energy, that's when you manifest something different.

All right. So number six is one additional reason that this can happen. Now, kind of looking at her actual question said, if I really do make a change on the inside and negative things show up, then, you know, is that true? And so one through five is really, you know, if that, if that was the case, the negative things could show up.

Because of these very reasons. Now, number six is that a lot of people will think that they've made a change, but they haven't made the change all of the way. And this too is a common scenario and, you know, one way to illustrate it would be to even in a physical action form would be to think about maybe an alcoholic who has decided they're going to really change their life and they're going to quit drinking and then the next day a friend calls them up and says, Hey, do you want to go grab a drink?

You know, for a lot of people, they go right back into that negative pattern and they get sucked back in. And that is what I want to highlight in number six is that a lot of people, they start to make the change. But they haven't fully made the change. And then they do get sucked back into the old. So that is common too.

And it's one of the most common things is exactly that, is people will start to make the change and decide they're going to make the change, but they don't really know how to make the change fully in their brain or in their subconscious mind. And so what ends up happening is that Instead of making that change, they attract more of the old, you know, even if you think about this scenario with the alcoholic, a lot of times on a manifesting level, what will happen is they'll decide not to drink and they make that change consciously, but on a subconscious level.

They're really wanting to have a drink, you know, their subconscious level, they're thinking, Oh my gosh, I really want to have some alcohol. And that's what they're feeling or they're used to it, you know, and that's what's programmed in on the inside. And so what they've manifested on a manifesting level is a situation or scenario.

Where they feel like, gosh, I really have to go meet my friend. Even in this example, somebody will feel like, okay, well I quit drinking and then what comes up the next day is that their friend who does reach out says, okay, I really gotta talk. Can we go have a drink? So it feels like they have to then fall back into the old, you know, or the friend says, Hey, I'm only going to be in town one last day.

Can you, can you come please? And, and let's go have a drink. And then this person feels like, okay, well, I really have to go now. Point being in this scenario is the person made the conscious decision to make a change, but this person didn't fully create that change in their subconscious mind in their being in their energy.

in a very strong way. And so that's another thing they can happen to, but that's a different scenario. It's not like in that example that I gave you, it's not like the person, because they decided to stop drinking, suddenly they have a broken car and an unexpected bill and blah, blah, and all of those things.

You know, it's not saying that they get somehow tracked a bunch of negative things either. What I'm saying is, it's just the old pattern. continues as it was. And so that's what can happen financially as well, is that you can decide to make a change consciously, but if the change isn't real, then the old pattern can continue to manifest.

And so if we look at this all as a whole, the first thing, again, that I want to reinforce to you is that when you make a real, real, real change, You get to see beautiful, wonderful, fabulous change in your life. And so, if you have heard this very thing come up in your life, where people are saying, Hey, as soon as you make a change, bad things are going to happen, so you can prove to the universe that you're really ready for change.

You want to delete that from your mind, and instead get it programmed into your nervous system, that as you make real change, Great things happen, and they do. As you make real change, great things happen, and they do. And so I want to invite you from this to make sure to get that programmed in because, again, if you do have it programmed in, that if you create real change, then bad things are going to start happening.

You're going to literally make it extremely hard in your life. to make a real change. And so none of this will apply because you'll, you'll be trying to create real change, create real change and you won't even be able to get yourself to make a change. Instead, what'll happen is you'll have a distraction come up or you'll find yourself trying to follow through, but you don't follow through because after all, if you do follow through and you make a change, quote unquote bad things are going to happen, which they won't.

But point being is that just from this misconception in itself, um, It will keep you stuck. And so I want to invite you from this to even just take in the awareness, two powerful awarenesses. And it's this, yes, it is safe to change. Yes, it is wonderful to change. The universe is wonderful and the universe wants you to succeed or the universe, God, divine energy, whatever you want to call it, wants you to succeed.

And so that is. Number one, just that it's safe to change, and make sure to get that into your nervous system and into your being. And, of course, number two, that you'll want to notice that the real complexities are not necessarily in the universal laws, but more so, In the mind and creating real change.

You know, a lot of people would rather study the universe and talk to the universe or energy or divine and God. And all of that is really, really great, but a lot of people would rather do that than really. master their mind and understand how that change happens on the inside and create real change, real change in their mindset and their neural pathways and their programming, which then changes their energy.

And that's the biggest thing that people are overlooking to create that real change. And so on that note, again, the change that I would invite you to take in from this specific episode. is that it really is safe to change. And by the way, on that note, if you recall the last volunteer episode, that was a perfect example of how people can have resistance to change.

I mean, just such a beautiful man, beautiful heart. And if you listen to the last episode, you can see how there was such a resistance to change and how his mind was stuck. in the old patterns. And, and just, I have so much respect for him, such a beautiful being. And that is what a lot of people are doing and, and staying in that place of staying stuck.

And so embracing real change and understanding that The universe really does want to support you. And so on that note, I'm going to ask you to please do make a point to hit the share button on this episode, you know, share it with somebody you love, somebody you care about, or somebody you don't even know, you know, the more empowered that every single person is in this world and the more they have information that is going to help serve them to create real changes, the more it's going to help everybody and the more beautiful world it creates for all of us.

And so on that note, please do make it an incredible day. Enjoy, celebrate, just make it an incredible, incredible day. And I look forward to connecting with you on the next episode. We'll see you there.

Thank you for listening to Heal Yourself, Change Your Life. All of the time, people reach out and say how much these episodes have given them hope or touch their heart or help them stay positive in hard times, or even woken them up to a completely new level of awareness. Of how amazing we all really are.

If today's episode touched your heart or expanded your mind in any way, please do me a favor and be sure to share it with those you care about or those, you know, who really need it. As more and more people become empowered, it really will change our world for the better. That is the point, and the power of these demonstrations is to create a radical shift in our world consciousness by showing everyone what we are all capable of.

And of course, each volunteer will really need to follow through to reinforce their programming to maintain their results. But the point is for you to see that you really can create rapid results in your health and your life. If you really understand how to use your mind, you're incredible. And I do want to be clear though, that most people will not get results this fast on their own.

I make it look very easy because of the discoveries that I made. You'll want to remember that there's so much more going on in our minds at a deeper level than people realize. That said, if you want to send me any questions or comments, come visit me on my website at brandygillmore.com/podcast.

And if you're currently experiencing physical pain and would like to be a volunteer on the show, you can sign up there as well. Lastly, Please remember, if you do have any health issues, you won't want to avoid your doctors. Instead, you'll want to continue seeing them and make it your goal to blow their minds with what you're capable of with your mind.

Thank you.