Have you ever felt like you were always the one reaching out, trying harder, or chasing love and connection in a relationship?
It can be incredibly painful…especially when it becomes a repeating pattern.
And over time, it can be easy to start wondering whether there is something wrong with you.
But what if the issue is not about your worth, your looks, or whether you are “good enough”?
What if there is a deeper emotional pattern underneath that has been repeating for years without you fully realizing it?
In this episode, Brandy shares key insights from working with a beautiful volunteer who had been experiencing frustrating physical symptoms and, in looking deeper, uncovered a long-standing pattern of feeling like she was always chasing love and attention in her relationships.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
• Why recurring relationship patterns are important to notice
• What feeling like you are always “chasing” someone can reveal
• Why these patterns can be easy to personalize as something being wrong with you
• How emotional patterns can become deeply ingrained over time
• Why identifying and transforming the pattern can create more love, connection, and freedom moving forward
Sometimes the patterns that hurt the most can also become powerful opportunities for healing and transformation.
And when you begin to recognize what has been repeating beneath the surface, it can open the door to a completely different experience in your relationships—and in your life.
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Welcome to Heal Yourself. Change Your Life. I’m Brandy Gillmore, and what I’m most known for is helping people to create radical transformations, and even demonstrating the power of the mind and self-healing under medical equipment so you can see the results. And my work has even been published in a medical journal because it’s truly incredible what we are all capable of when we understand our own minds at a deeper level.
So whether you’re new to this work or you’ve been studying the power of the mind for many years, I love that you’re here. I love that we’re on this incredible journey together, and I look forward to sharing breakthrough information with you. That said, on this podcast, I’ll share two types of episodes.
First, self-healing episodes where I share key insights from working with live volunteers. And the second type are where I answer questions from the audience. That said, if you’d like to volunteer or submit a question, come visit me at BrandyGillmore.com. On that note, let’s dive in
Hello and happy beautiful day to you. I want to add in a quick but important note to make this podcast very easy to navigate because today’s episode has a special format. Today, I worked with a live volunteer, and as you probably know, there are a lot of people who are now using AI to modify information online.
For that reason, we have taken an extra step to help protect our beautiful volunteer and the integrity of this work to help keep the information from being modified. And we actually love how this turned out because it provides you with even more information. This is how it works. On today’s episode, you’ll hear an overview of the person that I worked with, and I will provide you with simple but powerful breakthrough insights that helped our volunteer begin making a radical shift.
Then, at the end of this short breakthrough episode, if you are ready for a deep dive, you can click in the show notes to gain access to the actual self-healing session where I worked directly with the live volunteer. This enables us to help protect the information online from being modified while still continuing to provide you with powerful information to help bridge the gap between science and spirituality and personal empowerment, because it’s truly incredible what you are capable of when you learn to understand your mind at a deeper level.
That said, let’s dive into the simple but powerful insights that came from working with today’s volunteer. Here we go
One of the things that is mind-expanding about mind body healing is the awareness that regular everyday emotions that you wouldn’t think can impact health and illness and healing actually can have a very significant impact. And of course, when we stop and think about it, it makes sense. I mean, if somebody’s embarrassed, their face turns red, so we can see the mind body connection in simple ways.
Today I was working with a beautiful volunteer and one of the emotions that came up that was impacting her was actually this feeling of feeling like she’s always chasing her partner in her relationship. Now, if you stop and think about it, so often a person can feel that very thing. In fact, I’ve worked with so many women who felt that exact feeling of feeling like they were not being paid attention to, feeling unloved or feeling, uh, disrespected because maybe they feel like they’re always chasing and after their partner and they’re always chasing and chasing and yet not getting the love, the connection, the attention that they’re wanting.
And that was the very issue with my beautiful volunteer today. And, and by the way, this woman, this… that I worked with, I mean, she literally looks like a supermodel, just beautiful, sweet, loving, incredible, and yet has had this pattern of feeling like she’s always chasing in a relationship even from a young age.
And so, you know, so often women, men, ma- anybody can feel like, “Oh, there must be just something wrong with me. Oh, I’m not good looking enough. Oh, I’m not this. I’m not tall enough. I’m too short.” Whatever it is. “I’m too this. I’m too thin. I’m too…” Whatever it is. And yet, if we really start to look at the patterns that show up and the pattern, what pattern is repeating?
What pattern is going on? H- and how can we change it? Because what’s beautiful is that, you know, with today’s volunteer, basically she connected with, with me for today’s session, and ultimately part of what she’s been experiencing is she’s been experiencing leg pain that comes very, very intense multiple times per week, and then it’s gone, and then it comes back, and that’s been happening for about the last year.
And so she’s been trying to figure it out and couldn’t figure out what was going on. And so that was part of it. And she also had pain in her lymph node. And so there was all of this just frustration, but trying to figure out what was going on with her health, with her life. And so ultimately, that’s what we started looking at, is noticing the patterns, and that is what’s tricky.
You know, so often when people get into mind body healing and people talk about mind body healing, they m- it, it sounds so, like, mysterious or, you know, mystical and we need to like, you know, meditate and wait for the universe to, to, to heal us and all of these things, and it just feels mysterious, if you will.
But when we really stop and ground it and look at what’s going on and look at the patterns that are hurting your heart or creating guilt or frustration or sad, whatever it is, but when we really just get real with what’s real and start understanding the patterns and the emotions and then change them, it’s incredible.
And that’s one of the many things that I love about today’s episode is, is of course, our beautiful volunteer. She’s ch- she’s lovely. But also, I love this for her future and for her life because imagine if she spent over 30 years of her life feeling like she always has to chase and chase and chase in a relationship from chasing her dad for love and attention to just chasing in a relationship and feeling not loved or not connected with and, but always chasing and feeling frustrated and hurt, and a lot of hurt, to instead transforming this pattern.
And transforming her relationship to feel more loved and connected, that is invaluable. And so that’s also what I really love about mind body healing, is there is always a message. And when we listen to what the body is really saying and we identify the patterns that are connected to that, it’s pivotal.
It’s pivotal. And so the insight that I want to share today, uh, two insights. First and foremost, notice what might be bothering you in your life. What’s real? Like being real with what’s real. So that’s one thing. Another thing is in your relationship patterns, how are you feeling? Are you feeling loved? Are you feeling hurt?
Maybe it has something to do with that. Is there a pattern or multiple patterns that you’d really want to change and transform to be able to heal? And so just food for thought because, again, it’s a gift. When we really take these patterns, again, you know, thinking about our volunteer as she really transforms and follows through with this, it’s pivotal for her life, for her future, her love, her connection.
So it’s, it’s absolutely beautiful. And so by the way, on that note, if you want to listen to the entire session where I worked with our beautiful volunteer, Pia, um, you’re welcome to click the link in the show notes and as you click the link in the show notes, you can actually listen to the session where I worked with her.
So that is available. And by the way, if you’re somebody who is wanting to understand mind body healing and how I’ve been able to get breakthrough results, even under medical equipment, so you can actually see the results, uh, there is a link in the show notes where you can check that out. There’s a free training in there.
And as always, I want to ask you, please do take just a quick moment to hit the share button on this episode. You know, share it with somebody you love, somebody you care about, or somebody you don’t even know, because the more that every single person in our world feels healthy and happy and loved and loving, truly the better this world is for all of us.
And so please do take just a quick moment to hit the share button, and please do make a point to have an incredible rest of your day. I look forward to connecting with you on the next episode. We’ll see you there.
Thank you for listening to Heal Yourself. Change Your Life. If you’d like to become a volunteer or join our members area, you can do so by visiting BrandyGillmore.com. Also, please remember to be responsible with your health. This podcast is for inspirational purposes only. You won’t want to make any changes to your medication or to your medical care based on this podcast, nor would you ever want to avoid seeing your doctor.
Instead, it’s best to see your doctor regularly, keep them informed on what you are doing, and you could make it your goal to blow their minds with what you are capable of with your mind. Thank you
IMPORTANT NOTE: We understand that some may believe mind-body healing is impossible. Therefore, if you would like to see images of individuals using their minds to relieve pain, you can check out this medical journal. It includes images from some of Brandy's case studies. If you want to learn how to use your mind to heal yourself, you can check out the training on Brandy's website. Each week, Brandy publishes a volunteer episode where she coaches a volunteer to heal themselves using their own mind. In addition, Brandy shares a quick IQ episode (Insights and Questions) where she answers listener questions or delves deeper into insights on working with the mind for healing. This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for psychiatric or medical care.
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