Welcome to Heal Yourself. Change Your Life. I’m Brandy Gillmore and what I’m most known for is helping people to create radical transformations and even demonstrating the power of the mind and self-healing under medical equipment so you can see the results and my work has even been published in a medical journal because it’s truly incredible what we are all capable of when we understand our own minds at a deeper level.
So whether you’re new to this work or you’ve been studying the power of the mind for many years. I love that you are here. I love that we’re on this incredible journey together, and I look forward to sharing breakthrough information with you. That said, on this podcast, I’ll share two types of episodes.
First, self-healing episodes, where I share key insights from working with live volunteers. And the second type are where I answer questions from the audience. That said, if you’d like to volunteer or submit a question, come visit me at BrandyGillmore.com. On that note, let’s dive in.
Hello and happy, beautiful day to you. I want to add in a quick but important note to make this podcast very easy to navigate because today’s episode has a special format. Today I worked with a live volunteer. As you probably know, there are a lot of people who are now using AI to modify information online.
For that reason, we have taken an extra step to help protect our beautiful volunteer and the integrity of this work to help keep the information from being modified. And we actually love how this turned out because it provides you with even more information. This is how it works. On today’s episode, you’ll hear an overview of the person that I worked with, and I will provide you with simple but powerful breakthrough insights that helped our volunteer begin making a radical shift.
Then at the end of this short breakthrough episode, if you are ready for a deep dive, you can click in the show notes to gain access to the actual self-healing session where I worked directly with the live volunteer. This enables us to help protect the information online from being modified. While still continuing to provide you with powerful information to help bridge the gap between science and spirituality and personal empowerment, because it’s truly incredible what you are capable of when you learn to understand your mind at a deeper level.
That said, let’s dive into the simple but powerful insights that came from working with today’s volunteer. Here we go.
All right, so welcome to today’s special archive edition episode, and this is our archive episode from 2021. And the reason that I picked this episode is because of the messaging. So often people may have subconscious links to hardship. That they don’t realize, which could even be programmed into the subconscious mind, that feeling like ease and things being easy is not safe, or that people will make fun of them, or that there’s a pride in hardship where, if everything’s really hard, there’s a feeling of pride or feeling stoic or feeling, acknowledgement for all of the hardship. And unfortunately that can perpetuate and continue to perpetuate the same type of issues and so that’s the reason that I chose today’s episode is just because, in truth, all of our volunteers throughout the year of 2021 and, every year we just continue to get. The sweetest, most loving, kind, wonderful people, and all of the episodes have really great messaging in them. And. This one stuck out right now at this point in time, just because that’s the messaging that feels really on point for a lot of people is this subconscious connection to hardship, and that was part of what was going on with Brian now, Brian reached out because he actually had multiple issues going on with his health. He was having pain in a variety of different types of sensations in his face and in his chest and his arm and his abdomen. He was just experiencing it throughout the left side of his body, and he had been to his doctor’s and they couldn’t figure out what was going on. So he had been experiencing that for quite a while and started, of course, looking outside of the box for answers, trying to figure it out, and ultimately that’s what we address today. Now, the beautiful thing is, is not only was he able to create a radical shift, but he was also even able to take his pain that he was experiencing in his left side of his chest, and also take it down from a level seven of pain down to nearly a zero, and he’s the one that did that. So it was beautiful watching him create that shift. And of course, if you’d like to listen to that entire session with him, you can do so in the members area. But right now I want to provide you with just a few really powerful, quick insights from this that can help you in your own life and so the first insight is this. Is that Brian had it linked up in his mind that if something was easy, it wasn’t that impressive. However, if it was really hard, then it was impressive, and so unfortunately what happened is he really linked up this strong feeling of pride with hardships. So not only was it pride with hardship, that it was more impressive to have hardship, but simultaneously if something was easy, then it was almost inferior or not good enough. As you can probably imagine with this mindset, he found a lot of struggle and challenges in life, and relationships in love, just in multiple areas of life. And so that’s the first insight. And by the way, what you’ll want to notice regarding this feeling of pride in hardship is that you can actually see it in multiple ways in our culture, all around us.
For example, sometimes you’ll notice people will compete over whose life is harder or whose situation is harder. For example, maybe you’ve heard in life before where one person says that something like they had a really, really hard day. Somebody else says, oh, well you think that is bad, let me tell you about my day.
Now, what happens from that is that even though they’re just comparing notes, if you will, in that case, they’re quote unquote winning. At having the hardest day or the worst day, and so on a subconscious level, when the brain is geared to feel like that’s the win, then ultimately the mind can repeat patterns of recreating or wanting to quote unquote, win in a negative way, and I understand that sounds completely counterintuitive, but that’s the very thing you’ll want to remember as you listen to these episodes is you’ll want to remember that emotions aren’t logical. We’ve all heard that before and even kind of an extreme example you’ll hear me use, but a well-known example is that unfortunately a cutter, somebody who cuts themselves can link up feelings of relief or euphoria or control or safety from cutting themselves. And we can see that doesn’t make logical sense. And also we can see patterns breed more of the same. Again, referencing repetition, compulsion or reenactments or attachment theory that, patterns repeat themselves and so, what can happen is if somebody’s mind feels as though it’s winning in hardship, then it wants more and more and more of that. And also if it simultaneously feels that ease is not very impressive, it can just create that feeling that everything is hard or even continue to attract difficult circumstances.
Now, by the way, on a quick note, when it comes to attracting things in our lives, sometimes people might think that that’s a bit woo, if you will. And don’t get me wrong, I like the woowoo and I also like science. And so I want to break this down in ground. This for a moment and a way to think about it is like this, now people can recreate patterns, and yes, through our actions and behavior, we definitely can recreate. Situations and circumstances, but there’s also an attraction beyond that to take just a quick moment to address that because sometimes people will have a hard time really thinking about the awareness that our thoughts help create our lives or patterns breed more of the same.
Now again, this is rooted in psychology and repetition, compulsion, reenactments, attachment theory. It is very rooted in psychology. But another way that we can think about it, just using common logic is this, is that if we think about the earth for a moment, it is round and we are rotating around the sun, but it doesn’t feel like we’re on the side of a planet, it doesn’t feel like we’re rotating around the sun. We don’t say to one another, hey, I’m going to drive up the side of the planet to the grocery store. And not only that, but we walk around our houses and it feels like we’re upright. So when we stop and think about it for a moment, how much are our thoughts and mindset shaping our lives?
I mean, literally every part of every day from the moment we open our eyes. Our mind is literally shaping our entire experience. what we see, what we perceive, how we experience the world. And you’ll hear me use the unfortunate example of a woman who has an abusive father who leaves him. And finds the abusive boyfriend, boss, spouse, et cetera, et cetera.
So that pattern can unfortunately continue. Now, of course, it depends on a person’s mindset and patterns, et cetera, but it’s well established in psychology that. That can continue. And there’s statistics that even show that people who are abused in their childhood have a much higher rate of abuse, even as they grow up later in life and so it is well known, well documented now if we stop and think about it for a moment. If you think about that woman who then repeatedly finds the abusive man, she doesn’t say to herself, oh, I hope to find somebody who’s abusive. She doesn’t say that at all. Instead, she typically says, I just want to find a really wonderful, nice guy and then unfortunately she ends up. Repeating the same pattern over and over again. It’s not that she goes on the first date and meets a guy and says to him, I want to make sure that you’re going to start abusing me six months from now, or this isn’t going to work now, obviously. She doesn’t say that.
My point being is there is an unconscious attraction to these patterns that’s beyond just a conscious choice that occurs or beyond just negative behavior that occurs. Yes. Behavior can definitely repeat patterns, but there’s also an unconscious or energetic or invisible level of attraction as well that occurs in our world, in our lives that continues to then unfortunately attract certain circumstances and so my point, just going back to patterns, reading more of the same. When somebody’s caught in a pattern of feeling like there’s so much struggle and hardship and struggle, but they also have that pride in. Struggle and hardship. Life can feel extremely painful and like a struggle. And so as he started to shift those emotions, he was able to start releasing his pain.
Now, there were other emotions as well. For example, in his nervous system, he had it linked up in his subconscious mind, that relationships and love. Are not safe. And simultaneously, more than anything, what he wanted was a relationship. And so that feeling of wanting a relationship and also feeling like it’s not safe was creating a lot of fear and triggering fear in his subconscious mind and nervous system and as he started to shift that, that also helped to release. Stress from his body, but also started to release his pain as well, and by addressing multiple different patterns in his subconscious mind as we did that, he was able to get his pain nearly gone, and he was shocked. And it was really sweet and I love that and I just love his heart. I love how well he did with his energy.
It was just beautiful. And so on that note, there were other insights as well, and if you’d like to listen to his session, you can do so, the link is in the show notes. Also, there are free trainings there as well, because ultimately more than anything, I would love for every single person in our world to feel empowered and happy and healthy. That, of course, is the goal. And so that said, the insight or the takeaway that I want to invite you, the simple takeaway in your life from this is make sure that as you’re going throughout your day, that you’re not a. Trying to compete at having the worst life or the worst childhood, or the hardest day or whatnot, that you’re not in that one-upping competition, if you will, or linking up a feeling of pride in hardship but instead that as you’re doing things in life, that you can feel good at them. And imagine if that is going on towards your life and that’s what your life looks like.
That would be incredible, that feeling of flow, if you will. And of course, love and connection. So again, there are other insights from this episode as well, but just saying that if you could start implementing even this into your life. That could be a powerful shift depending upon your mind. Programming, of course, but it could help you to bring even more positivity into your life. Alright, so that said, it has been such a pleasure connecting with you, and I look forward to connecting with you on the next episode. We’ll see you there.
Thank you for listening to Heal Yourself. Change Your Life. If you’d like to become a volunteer or join our members area, you can do so by visiting BrandyGillmore.com. Also, please remember to be responsible with your health. This podcast is for inspirational purposes only. You won’t want to make any changes to your medication or to your medical care based on this podcast, nor would you ever want to avoid seeing your doctor.
Instead, it’s best to see your doctor regularly. Keep them informed on what you are doing, and you could make it your goal to blow their minds with what you are capable of with your mind. Thank you.
