Have you ever felt like no matter how much you try to explain yourself, people just don’t really understand you?
That feeling can seem like a relationship issue on the surface.
But what if there is more happening underneath?
In this short breakthrough episode, Brandy shares an important insight from working with a beautiful volunteer who had been dealing with recurring health challenges and had spent years working on healing, nutrition, positive thinking, and personal growth. Yet when Brandy began looking deeper, something unexpected surfaced: a strong emotional pattern connected with feeling unheard and misunderstood.
What made it especially interesting was that the volunteer did not initially realize how much anger and frustration were connected to this pattern. As Brandy began addressing the feeling of being heard and understood, the volunteer immediately noticed a physical shift in her shoulders.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
• Why feeling misunderstood can become a deeper emotional pattern
• How frustration and anger can remain active even when you see yourself as positive and loving
• Why the need to be heard can create ongoing inner tension
• What to notice if feeling misunderstood has become a recurring theme in your life
• How changing the emotional pattern may begin creating more connection, harmony, and freedom
Sometimes the emotions affecting us most are not the ones we consciously recognize.
And becoming aware of what is really happening underneath can be the beginning of a powerful shift.
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Welcome to Heal Yourself. Change Your Life. I’m Brandy Gillmore, and what I’m most known for is helping people to create radical transformations and even demonstrating the power of the mind and self-healing under medical equipment so you can see the results. And my work has even been published in a medical journal because it’s truly incredible what we are all capable of when we understand our own minds at a deeper level.
So whether you’re new to this work or you’ve been studying the power of the mind for many years, I love that you are here. I love that we’re on this incredible journey together, and I look forward to sharing breakthrough information with you. That said, on this podcast, I’ll share two types of episodes.
First, self-healing episodes where I share key insights from working with live volunteers. And the second type are where I answer questions from the audience. That said, if you’d like to volunteer or submit a question, come visit me at BrandyGillmore.com. On that note, let’s dive in
Hello and happy beautiful day to you. I want to add in a quick but important note to make this podcast very easy to navigate because today’s episode has a special format. Today, I worked with a live volunteer, and as you probably know, there are a lot of people who are now using AI to modify information online.
For that reason, we have taken an extra step to help protect our beautiful volunteer and the integrity of this work to help keep the information from being modified. And we actually love how this turned out because it provides you with even more information. This is how it works. On today’s episode, you’ll hear an overview of the person that I worked with, and I will provide you with simple but powerful breakthrough insights that helped our volunteer begin making a radical shift.
Then at the end of this short breakthrough episode, if you are ready for a deep dive, you can click in the show notes to gain access to the actual self-healing session where I worked directly with the live volunteer. This enables us to help protect the information online from being modified while still continuing to provide you with powerful information to help bridge the gap between science and spirituality and personal empowerment, because it’s truly incredible what you are capable of when you learn to understand your mind at a deeper level.
That said, let’s dive into the simple but powerful insights that came from working with today’s volunteer. Here we go
So often when it comes to mind body healing, it can feel mystical or mysterious where, you know, you’re waiting for some type of magic or energetic thing to happen. And of course, it is incredible and it is invisible, but when we stop and think about it, like oxygen could feel mystical and mysterious also because it’s invisible, and yet we all need it.
And so during my injury, one of the things that really helped me to heal was making it very logical, taking this energetic awareness and really simplifying everything to be able to get results. Now, of course, we could talk about biophotons, and we could talk about the technical biochemistry and all of the things.
But what I wanted more than anything was results. And so I want to take that moment and kind of simplify things because when we stop and look at it, of course, you hear me say that if we look at it very simply, we can see the mind body connection. You know? If somebody’s embarrassed, their face can turn red, or somebody can feel nervous and they can have a nervous stomach or sweaty palms, and no trauma necessarily needed.
I mean, somebody could go on a date or to a job interview, and they could feel nervous or nervous stomach, and so we can see the mind body connection. Now, of course, with things that are more serious and, and impactful or life, life altering, there’s typically a lot more going on at a deeper level. And so, but part of the way we can see the mind body connection and see that it’s not so mysterious is really about looking at the, the evidence that’s all around us, and that was one of the things, by the way, that helped me during my injury to get results was to simplify because I had been…
You know, if you’ve heard my story, I’d been meditating for years and years and years, and the vagus nerve and affirmations and positive thinking and frequencies and so many different things. And while all that stuff can be nice, I wasn’t healing for years and years and years and years. And so I started just simplifying everything and saying, “How can I see this shows up?”
Now part of the reason that I’m sharing that is because I worked with a beautiful volunteer today, and as I was working with her… So basically, she’s this beautiful being, and as I was working with her, ultimately what happened is she has been on and off sick since COVID, just having cold after cold that’s affecting her and, and basically, like, affecting her life and limiting her life because she keeps having one cold after another after another.
She’s going, “What’s going on? What happened?” And ultimately, as I started really checking in, there’s this feeling of feeling not understood and feeling so much anger and upset about the events of COVID, just the feeling of feeling like people aren’t in integrity and, and, and just anger and, and, you know.
And by the way, sh- she, on top, very lovely, positive, sweet, loving. And so even as I started working with her, because she, she said, you know, she’s, she’s been on the healing path for years. She’s done nutrition. She’s done positive thinking. She’s done all of the things, and it wasn’t working. And s- and so that’s why ultimately, as I started checking in, she was quite shocked to find that she had anger going on on the inside.
She didn’t even realize it was there. And ultimately, when she started checking in and said, “Wow,” you know, she was quite surprised, so about a level eight of anger. And part of that was because of the experience of COVID, and yet a bigger part of it was also about feeling not understood And that right there can be key in, in healing and transformation.
And so in fact, as I was speaking to her and I said, “Feeling heard, feeling understood, feeling heard, feeling understood,” she goes, “Oh my gosh, my shoulders are releasing.” So she could feel the mind body connection right there as I even continued to mention the feeling of feeling heard. Because ultimately she’s just, she’s this beautiful, caring person who’s felt not heard and not understood, and frustrated, and concern for others.
So it’s coming from a very caring place, and yet the feeling of anger, the feeling of feeling not understood has impacted her at a deeper level. And of course, as I started working with her, it was a bigger pattern that had been going on in other areas. And so I want to invite you to look at that in your life.
Are you feeling misunderstood? Are you? And if so, what could you do to really start changing this? You know, ultimately what happens is so often people might be attached to a certain thing they want to say or be, and they want to say it and, and be heard, but m- maybe others don’t want to hear it. Maybe others feel triggered by it.
And I see that all the time too. And so sometimes what you could do is you could ask yourself, you know, if you’ve been feeling misunderstood, is it a pattern for you? If you’ve been feeling like you’re not being heard, is that a pattern? And not only is it a pattern, but could it be impacting your health?
Because I’ve seen that a lot, and that’s part of the reason that I talked about simplifying for a moment and, and simplifying emotions. Because for some people, if they heard not feeling understood could affect your health or your life or your cold or your, all kinds of things, they would say, “Ugh, that seems impossible.”
I would’ve said that, you know, 20-plus years ago during my injury when I, when I was first injured. I would’ve said, “Okay, that, that seems impossible.” And yet That feeling at a deeper level, it can impact us. You know, different emotions can affect the body in a variety of different ways. And so ultimately, as I started working with her and just identifying those specific emotions, she said, “Oh my gosh.”
Like it was this awareness. So she had fantastic awareness, but that’s ultimately what I wanted to ask you because I know so often people can feel misunderstood or like they’re not being heard, and it can be a frustration or a hurt or a disconnect or this inner argument going on that can impact your health, your life, your happiness, your relationships.
And so what I’m excited about is this, is that as I was working with our beautiful volunteer, she started really looking at this in her life. And ultimately, she’s had this pattern of feeling not heard all her life. I mean, back to… Not, maybe not since she was zero and one, but for the majority of her lifetime.
Now imagine what her trajectory looks like in her life as she changes this. To go from a place of feeling not heard or not understood, but not heard, to feeling heard, to feeling connected. That feeling of harmony in relationships in life is so good. And by the way, you know, if you have that pattern, it, it’s like…
I, I mean, imagine that feeling where you feel like, “Okay, well, I’m just trying to be heard. I just want to speak. I just…” What a feeling of feeling disconnected or frustration over and over and over if it’s a pattern And so I want to invite you to think about that in your own life because I know that I’ve seen this so often, and people can feel frustrated or angry or, you know, stressed in a variety of different ways.
Lonely even, even when they’re surrounded by a whole bunch of people. You know, it can feel that feeling of just feeling, uh, disconnected. And so I wanted to invite you to look at that in your own life because of course it can be healing and transformative on so many levels. So just food for thought on that because as a, as you can shift this, it’s pivotal.
It can be life-changing, relationship changing, healing for your body, your life, a- all of the above. So food for thought, and of course, by the way, if you want to listen to the actual session that I worked with our beautiful volunteer, there were other emotions that came up as well. So if y- you know by now, it’s always…
There’s always a hidden combination, if you will. And so there were other things as well, but that was a big, key insight that I wanted to share with you. And so there’s that. And by the way, if you are somebody who is working on healing yourself and you’re really wanting to understand how I’ve been able to get results under medical equipment and show the power of the mind, uh, there is also a link to, um, to a medical journal and also a link to a free training where you can actually go through and, and I’ll share with you the key insights.
And so there’s that free training that, there as well in the show notes. And so come join me with those. And as always, I want to ask you, please do take just a quick moment to hit the share button on this episode. You know, share it with somebody you love, somebody you care about, or somebody you don’t even know because the more that every single person in our world feels healthy and happy and loved and loving, truly the better this world is for all of us.
And so please do take a moment to hit the share button, and please do make a point to have an incredible rest of your day. I look forward to connecting with you on the next episode. We’ll see you there.
Thank you for listening to Heal Yourself. Change Your Life. If you’d like to become a volunteer or join our members area, you can do so by visiting BrandyGillmore.com. Also, please remember to be responsible with your health. This podcast is for inspirational purposes only. You won’t want to make any changes to your medication or to your medical care based on this podcast, nor would you ever want to avoid seeing your doctor.
Instead, it’s best to see your doctor regularly, keep them informed on what you are doing, and you could make it your goal to blow their minds with what you are capable of with your mind. Thank you
IMPORTANT NOTE: We understand that some may believe mind-body healing is impossible. Therefore, if you would like to see images of individuals using their minds to relieve pain, you can check out this medical journal. It includes images from some of Brandy's case studies. If you want to learn how to use your mind to heal yourself, you can check out the training on Brandy's website. Each week, Brandy publishes a volunteer episode where she coaches a volunteer to heal themselves using their own mind. In addition, Brandy shares a quick IQ episode (Insights and Questions) where she answers listener questions or delves deeper into insights on working with the mind for healing. This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for psychiatric or medical care.
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