What if you consciously want more love and connection…
but another part of your mind feels like love is unsafe?
This can happen more easily than people realize.
Past hurt, rejection, criticism, or painful relationship experiences can create deeper subconscious feelings around love and connection…even when consciously, you deeply want more of both.
And when one part of the mind is moving toward love while another part is pulling away, it can create a powerful feeling of stuckness.
Almost like driving with one foot on the gas and one foot on the brake.
In this episode, Brandy shares insights from working with a beautiful volunteer who deeply wanted more love and connection, yet discovered that part of her mind did not actually feel safe with love.
And as they began working with that deeper pattern, something surprising happened with the physical pain she had been experiencing.
In this episode, you’ll discover:
• How hurt and rejection can create subconscious feelings that love is unsafe
• Why consciously wanting love doesn’t necessarily mean every part of the mind feels safe receiving it
• How this inner conflict can affect relationships, happiness, and healing
• Why repeatedly releasing old wounds may not be enough if the deeper pattern remains unchanged
• Why creating new emotional programming around love, connection, and safety can be so important
The goal is not simply to suppress hurt or layer positive thinking over it.
It is to create a genuine change at a deeper level…so the mind is no longer simultaneously reaching for love while pulling away from it.
Because when love begins to genuinely feel safe, it can open the door to a completely different experience of connection, healing, and life.
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Welcome to Heal Yourself. Change Your Life. I’m Brandy Gillmore, and what I’m most known for is helping people to create radical transformations, and even demonstrating the power of the mind and self-healing under medical equipment so you can see the results. And my work has even been published in a medical journal because it’s truly incredible what we are all capable of when we understand our own minds at a deeper level.
So whether you’re new to this work or you’ve been studying the power of the mind for many years, I love that you’re here. I love that we’re on this incredible journey together, and I look forward to sharing breakthrough information with you. That said, on this podcast, I’ll share two types of episodes.
First, self-healing episodes where I share key insights from working with live volunteers. And the second type are where I answer questions from the audience. That said, if you’d like to volunteer or submit a question, come visit me at BrandyGillmore.com. On that note, let’s dive in
Hello and happy beautiful day to you. I want to add in a quick but important note to make this podcast very easy to navigate because today’s episode has a special format. Today, I worked with a live volunteer, and as you probably know, there are a lot of people who are now using AI to modify information online.
For that reason, we have taken an extra step to help protect our beautiful volunteer and the integrity of this work to help keep the information from being modified. And we actually love how this turned out because it provides you with even more information. This is how it works. On today’s episode, you’ll hear an overview of the person that I worked with, and I will provide you with simple but powerful breakthrough insights that helped our volunteer begin making a radical shift.
Then at the end of this short breakthrough episode, if you are ready for a deep dive, you can click in the show notes to gain access to the actual self-healing session where I worked directly with the live volunteer. This enables us to help protect the information online from being modified while still continuing to provide you with powerful information to help bridge the gap between science and spirituality and personal empowerment, because it’s truly incredible what you are capable of when you learn to understand your mind at a deeper level.
That said, let’s dive into the simple but powerful insights that came from working with today’s volunteer. Here we go
What if part of your mind feels like love is not safe? You know, so often people have hurts or wounding or feelings of rejection or criticism that makes them feel like love isn’t safe, and yet they suppress that emotion, and they don’t realize it’s affecting their relationships, their healing, their happiness at a deeper level in their subconscious mind.
So they don’t realize that that deeper suppressed emotion is even impacting so many areas of life, and I see it all of the time. And even if you think about it, when it comes to health, I mean, we know with research that loneliness can be connected to increased illness, or even if an infant doesn’t get enough love, they can actually die.
So we as human beings, we need love, and yet so often there can be this inner feeling of loneliness or even this feeling of feeling like love is not safe. Meanwhile, of course, the other part of the mind wants love, wants connection, and so it’s like driving a car with one foot on the gas and one foot on the brake, whether that…
where there’s that feeling of stuckness, if you will. And I see it so often. And what most people don’t realize is that it can be connected to the very health issue or pain or problem that’s keeping them stuck. In fact, that’s exactly what was happening with my beautiful volunteer today. I worked with this beautiful being.
Her name is Anna, and as I was working with her, she’s having pain in her back, pain in her shoulder, and immediately I started working with her on feeling the feeling of bringing in even more love. Now, it was a bit tricky because what started happening was this, is her pain, which had been like a level five- started decreasing.
And so her pain was decreasing, and she was like perplexed for a moment, like, “What’s happening?” ‘Cause her pain was going down, and yet then there was this stuck spot because part of her mind also felt as though love wasn’t safe. And so there was this place of kind of just stuckness, and it was something that has been showing up in her life in so many different ways, in her relationships, in her pain, in her physical pain, and it’s just created a lot of hardship in her life.
Now, by the way, if you asked her consciously how much she wants love, just the idea of feeling more love and more connection, it brought tears to her eyes. It’s… That’s the thing she’s wanting in her relationship, is a deeper level of love and connection and feeling that safety. And so it’s tricky because the conscious mind can want something, and then the subconscious mind can feel b- like it’s unsafe, and that can keep, again, th- that feeling of feeling stuck with, with one foot on the gas, one foot on the brake, and all of the time, that’s where I see people at.
And so food for thought that if you are somebody who has been suppressing feelings of hurt or feelings of disconnect or feeling criticized or rejected, and you think that it’s not impacting you, you might be surprised because so often I see this wounding going on at a deeper level. And so on that note, just one simple insight is this, is that even if you can start picturing yourself feeling more love and bringing it in and really feeling that and feeling like it’s safe, that could be a very simple place to start.
Now, what you’ll notice if you listen to the episode where I actually worked with our beautiful volunteer, Anna, there is a deeper level of change that is needed. So I’m giving you a simple insight, but there is that genuine change that is needed. Now, part of the reason I also wanted to share this particular insight is this, is so often I see people who have been experiencing hurt from childhood, just as our beautiful volunteer did, and they spend 5 years, 10 years, 20 years, 30 years trying to release wounding and releasing childhood wounding, trying to release childhood wounding, and yet not getting the results, feeling stuck, still feeling the health issues because there’s a deeper part that doesn’t even feel like love is safe.
And so it’s constantly trying to release, release, release instead of actually feeling like love is safe, feeling that connectedness. And so it is so tricky in working with the mind that really ultimately what we want to do is we want to really start programming new mind programming in, and that can create the shift.
And so even with our beautiful volunteer today that I worked with, just watching her surprise as her pain went down. And she got it down from like a five to almost gone, so a one, below a one. And she did that in a very short period of time. Even as it started dropping, it was less than five minutes Till it started actually dropping down as I was working with her, and which sounds impossible, but if you’ve seen my work, you’ve seen under medical equipment where I can show this very thing, where somebody’s working with their mind and you literally see the images change from red to green as the pain goes away.
So just food for thought that, you know, so often people are doing that, where they’re suppressing the hurt, the wounding, the upset, and they think that it’s not impacting them. They don’t know it’s impacting their health, their life, their happiness, and so many areas of life. And so just food for thought that maybe if this is something that might be true for you, it may be something you want to look more closely at.
And of course, either way, even bringing in the feeling that love is safe, love is wonderful, love is great, starting to bring that in and feel it. And of course, if this been is, has been an issue, I strongly recommend going deeper because what you’ll find is that it does take a genuine change. It’s not just visualization and positive thinking, though those can be nice, but it does take that genuine real change.
And so this is a quick insight, and if you’d like to listen to the actual session where I work with our beautiful volunteer, Anna, you can click the link in the show notes and you can listen to that deeper level because there’s other emotions going on. There’s some reactiveness going on and some hurt and, and whatnot that it does take transforming to really get the changes that you really want in your life.
And so the link is il- available in the show notes. And of course, if you’re somebody who is working on healing yourself, if you’d like to understand more about mind body healing or how I’ve been able to get these incredible results, there is a link in the show notes for a free training as well. And as always, I want to ask you, please do take just a quick moment to hit the share button on this episode.
You know, share it with somebody you love, somebody you care about, or somebody you don’t even know, because the more that every single person in our world feels healthy and happy and loved and loving, truly the better this world is for all of us. And so please do take just a moment to hit the share button, and please do make a point to have an incredible rest of your day.
I look forward to connecting with you on the next episode. We’ll see you there.
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Instead, it’s best to see your doctor regularly, keep them informed on what you are doing, and you could make it your goal to blow their minds with what you are capable of with your mind. Thank you
IMPORTANT NOTE: We understand that some may believe mind-body healing is impossible. Therefore, if you would like to see images of individuals using their minds to relieve pain, you can check out this medical journal. It includes images from some of Brandy's case studies. If you want to learn how to use your mind to heal yourself, you can check out the training on Brandy's website. Each week, Brandy publishes a volunteer episode where she coaches a volunteer to heal themselves using their own mind. In addition, Brandy shares a quick IQ episode (Insights and Questions) where she answers listener questions or delves deeper into insights on working with the mind for healing. This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for psychiatric or medical care.
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