Welcome to Heal Yourself. Change Your Life. I’m Brandy Gillmore, and what I’m most known for is helping people to create radical transformations, and even demonstrating the power of the mind and self-healing under medical equipment so you can see the results. And my work has even been published in a medical journal because it’s truly incredible what we are all capable of when we understand our own minds at a deeper level.
So whether you’re new to this work or you’ve been studying the power of the mind for many years, I love that you’re here. I love that we’re on this incredible journey together, and I look forward to sharing breakthrough information with you. That said, on this podcast, I’ll share two types of episodes.
First, self-healing episodes where I share key insights from working with live volunteers. And the second type are where I answer questions from the audience. That said, if you’d like to volunteer or submit a question, come visit me at BrandyGillmore.com. On that note, let’s dive in.
On today’s episode, I’m going to answer an email that came in from a listener, and ultimately what he asked was, if there was just one thing he needed to know about how to heal himself, what would that be? And basically, he continued on in his email that he’d been trying literally everything, and he’s been on this journey for 20-something, 23 years, and he’s trying to figure it out, and nothing is working, and he just wants to heal.
And so the interesting thing is, is, you know, it’s the… If I were to say it in one word or one phrase, it would be understand how the mind works. That is the key, and this is the reason why, is because so often when people aren’t understanding how it works, ultimately I’ll see all of the time people are doing things that are actually keeping them stuck, and they don’t realize it.
And by the way, a simple analogy is this, is that imagine if, if somebody’s just putting in things on a, on a computer, and they’re just typing things in, but they don’t really understand what they’re doing. What are the chances they’re going to create mistakes? Well, if they don’t know what they’re doing, the chances are pretty high.
And when it comes to working with the mind, the reason that I have been able to get results and even show results under medical equipment is because I understand it in a different way. So I was able to develop and understand the mind, not only heal myself, but show back to back to back to back results.
In fact, if you’ve listened to past episodes, you hear me working with people with all kinds of different pain or ailments or energy or it, it just… I mean, so many different things. Low energy from eyesight coming back, to pain releasing, to body parts that were paralyzed moving again, to people healing tumors.
I mean, all kinds of things. Not because I’m so amazing. Yes, I’m amazing. You’re amazing. We are amazing. Why, though? Why have I been able to do this? Because I learned to understand it, and from that understanding, everything becomes easier. It’s like somebody turned the lights on and said, “Oh, 2+2=4.” Now, what is, though, counterintuitive is how the mind works that isn’t always logical.
And I’m gonna give you a s- simple example, and you hear me use this analogy all the time, is, you know, if you think about an, an infant. An infant who doesn’t get enough love can unfortunately die. Now, it is even… Studies have even shown that infants in orphanages, even when they’re getting proper nutrition, can have up to a 30% higher mortality rate, again, even when they’re getting amazing nutrition, because of lack of love and connection.
Now, if you think about this for a moment, and I’ll show you where I’m going, but there, there’s… You’ll, you’ll see how counterintuitive it is. So that logical, we get that. Now, also there are studies that, that where loneliness can actually increase illness. Type 2 diabetes, stroke, heart attack, all of that.
So that has been shown as well. So we can see loneliness, lack of love can connect to illness. Now, there are a, a few counterintuitive things you’ll want to know is this, is sometimes people would say, “Well, just get love then.” Okay, but love can also be linked to illness. You might have heard me use this example before where, maybe you’ve seen this before, where a young child, uh, let’s say a little two-year-old, has an owie.
And they have an owie, and a loving adult comes and says, “Let me kiss my owie and make it better.” What happens at that moment? Love gets linked up to owie. In that moment, right? So then especially, and maybe you’ve seen this before, even when a, a, somebody who’s been conditioned like a little two-year-old or three-year-old’s been conditioned for that, they might get an owie and they might reach up to adult and say, “Kiss it.
Kiss it. Make it better.” Love linked up to owie. Now, what can happen is this, is that can be their pattern of getting love and connection, or they can get love and connection from it if they’re ever feeling unloved, like if they’re about to feel rejected, then on the subconscious mind might say, “Oh, how do I secure love?
Owie.” So that can get linked up. Or what can happen is, you know, a person can turn 30, 40, 50 years old. Let’s say they get a divorce, or they move, or they’re disconnected, and they’re somehow like they’re suddenly feeling loneliness in life. And they’ve been healthy up to that point, but now they’re feeling alone, and the subconscious mind goes, “Okay.
Well, I need love.” And then it says, “Oh, that’s right.” And then it thinks back to the two-year-old, and it thinks, “Oh, l- l- owie, illness.” So then it can want to have an illness to then get love and connection on a subconscious level. Of course, somebody doesn’t consciously want that. It’s the last thing they want.
But it’s buried in the subconscious mind unbeknownst to that person. That’s linked up. My point is, is, and, and by the way, we can, we can continue this rabbit hole further. Let me give you another example. But before we do, notice sometimes people would say, “Well, if a person’s feeling lonely, we’ll just give them love.”
But love can link, be linked up to illness, too. So the reason that it is understanding it is so important is because it’s a mixed bag if not. But when you understand it, you look at it and you go, “Oh, well, that’s logical.” So it’s not just one or the other. It, it’s understanding. It’s understanding what’s really going on in your heart, in your intentions, in your being.
So that’s one thing. Now, if we continue down the rabbit hole, think about this for a moment. So often a person, if they’ve been feeling ill, and maybe they feel they’ve felt lonely and disconnected. Now, what I see happen all of the time is that people will then also, let’s say, they start meditating, and they’re going into meditation regularly.
Now, what can happen with meditation, depending upon what type of meditation a person is doing, is they can start to f- actually feel less connected to the world. And so they actually end up through meditation decreasing the feeling of, of connection And actually creating a bigger feeling of disconnect from the world.
Now, if their problem was initially loneliness, they, it can actually unfortunately end up increasing the feeling of loneliness, not intentionally, but because a person is going inside and they’re spending so much time inside, and then they can also create that feeling over and over again. Meaning this, meaning that let’s say, for example, let’s say somebody’s already feeling disconnected, and they’re already feeling unloved or alone, and then they go on the inside and they do a type of meditation that is just maybe a, a disconnecting meditation where they’re feeling more disconnected.
They’re just feeling on the inside. They’re feeling separation. Okay? What can happen is it can increase feelings of disconnect, which can unfortunately perpetuate the very problem and increase the feeling of, of disconnect. So, so my point is, is just simply that the mind is very counterintuitive, and if you think about past IQ episodes or even past episodes where I’m working with a volunteer, all of the time I’m pointing out counterintuitive information.
Why? Because so often I’ll see people on this journey and they say, “But why am I stuck?” And I get that feeling. I just know that feeling so well. And so that part of me wants to say, “Well, this is, this is what’s happening, and this is what’s happening, and this is what’s happening.” And that’s so often y- you hear me, like, if you listen to past episodes, it’s like, oh, it’s tricky because of this.
It’s tricky because of this. Now, ultimately, the more you understand how it works and why it works the way it does, the more you can navigate your own mind to really get the results that you want. And so with going back to this email that this gentleman sent in, y- it’s understanding because understanding is key.
When you understand how to drive a car, it’s better than just getting in the car and saying, “Oh, I’m supposed to do this,” and it… Like, you understand how to drive a car or how to use a computer. Not that you need to know the hard drive and, and all of that, the ROM and whatnot. You don’t need to know all of that, of course, and you don’t need to ov- obviously know all the inner network- inner workings of your brain and all of that.
But how to use it is key, and neural pathways and how things link up is very, very important. And so the quick to-do on this, uh, on this quick insight episode is a few things, is first and foremost, w- everything should be logical. So the more- you gain a logical understanding. The more you say, okay, well, like add logic to it.
Once you do, it is key. Now, by the way, I’ve literally had people, but when I was working on writing my book, I had people who, one woman who came up to me and she was like, Brandy, you make everything so logical and which was great, but she’s like, but it kind of takes all of the magic out of it. And she’s somebody who’s a healer.
She’s like, but it takes the magic out of it. And I said, but wait a second here. It actually puts the magic into it. And this is what I mean is if it’s not working, it’s not great magic. And, you know, it’s like, for example, with Wi-Fi, with internet, if we didn’t know why we were able to connect to internet, you know, sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t.
And sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn’t. That could be kind of annoying, right? And so it’s like, what happens though is Wi-Fi, internet is a formula. Like you can connect. There’s a, like the internet is, there’s all the specs on how to work it and all of that that are all behind the scenes. If you know my history, you know I used to work in network engineering operations a long time ago back when there was frame relay and T1s and different setup, frame relay, this, that, the other.
But my point is, is I used to work in tech. And again, understanding it was key. And so it’s not about taking the magic out of it. It’s also just about understanding that when we really understand how to tap into it, how to understand the energy of the mind or the energy of the body or the universe, but ultimately how the mind-body connection works and really understanding it at a deeper level.
So I just wanted to speak to that too, because sometimes people feel like we’re taking the magic out of universe or healing or the power of the mind or whatnot. But really the power of the mind is incredible and we can see it all around us. And the more that we see it and experience it and embrace it and understand it, the more we can use it.
And that’s the real magic. So just wanting to speak to that as well. And on that note, by the way, if you are somebody who’s really wanting to understand mind-body healing at a deeper level and more of the logic behind it, there is a free training link that is in the show notes. So you can click on that and Also, the other insight is that if you were doing a meditation or mindset, anything that may, is making you feel disconnected, by the way, then I invite you to instead look at a way to connect in a positive way that doesn’t require illness or hardship or problems, but just so you are connecting from a beautiful place and fueling that for your soul.
So I, I say that because sometimes people do get more and more into spirituality or self-awareness or self-help, and ultimately at a deeper level end up feeling a bit more disconnected. And so just food for thought, embracing a positive, beautiful connection. And I know that that might not even be what is impacting your health.
There’s, of course, it could be fear. It could be a whole different type and set of emotions as, as you’ve probably heard me say on past episodes, the specific emotion is key and there are so many different combinations. So I just used love as an example in, in today’s episode. But, uh, but just know that it, it can be a variety of different illnesses and…
Or a, a variety of different emotions, and typically is. And so love, of course, can be one of them. So food for thoughts. And, um, and again, as always, I want to ask you, please do take just a quick moment to hit the share button on this episode. You know, share it with somebody you love, somebody you care about, or somebody you don’t even know, because truly the more that every single person knows how to heal themselves and change their life, truly the better this world is for all of us.
And so please do take a quick moment to hit the share button, and please do have an incredible rest of your day. I look forward to connecting with you on the next episode. We’ll see you there. Thank you for listening to Heal Yourself. Change Your Life. If you’d like to become a volunteer or join our members area, you can do so by visiting BrandyGillmore.com.
Also, please remember to be responsible with your health. This podcast is for inspirational purposes only. You won’t want to make any changes to your medication or to your medical care based on this podcast, nor would you ever want to avoid seeing your doctor. Instead, it’s best to see your doctor regularly, keep them informed on what you are doing, and you could make it your goal to blow their minds with what you are capable of with your mind.
Thank you.
