Welcome to Heal Yourself. Change Your Life. I’m Brandy Gillmore, and what I’m most known for is helping people to create radical transformations, and even demonstrating the power of the mind and self-healing under medical equipment so you can see the results. And my work has even been published in a medical journal because it’s truly incredible what we are all capable of when we understand our own minds at a deeper level.
So whether you’re new to this work or you’ve been studying the power of the mind for many years, I love that you’re here. I love that we’re on this incredible journey together, and I look forward to sharing breakthrough information with you. That said, on this podcast, I’ll share two types of episodes.
First, self-healing episodes where I share key insights from working with live volunteers. And the second type are where I answer questions from the audience. That said, if you’d like to volunteer or submit a question, come visit me at BrandyGillmore.com. On that note, let’s dive in.
Hello and happy beautiful day to you. I want to add in a quick but important note to make this podcast very easy to navigate because today’s episode has a special format. Today I worked with a live volunteer, and as you probably know, there are a lot of people who are now using AI to modify information online.
For that reason, we have taken an extra step to help protect our beautiful volunteer and the integrity of this work to help keep the information from being modified. And we actually love how this turned out because it provides you with even more information. This is how it works. On today’s episode, you’ll hear an overview of the person that I worked with, and I will provide you with simple but powerful breakthrough insights that helped our volunteer begin making a radical shift.
Then at the end of this short breakthrough episode, if you are ready for a deep dive, you can click in the show notes to gain access to the actual self-healing session where I worked directly with the live volunteer. This enables us to help protect the information online from being modified while still continuing to provide you with powerful information to help bridge the gap between science and spirituality and personal empowerment because it’s truly incredible what you are capable of when you learn to understand your mind.
At a deeper level. That said, let’s dive into the simple but powerful insights that came from working with today’s volunteer. Here we go.
One of the things that I love about today’s episode is that it’s a bit mind-bending, but of course, in a good way. And what I mean by that is you really have to kind of think in a different way, which of course is key for really getting the results that you want. You know, you hear me say all of the time, the reason I was able to heal myself and then even show results under medical equipment of other people creating radical changes with their own mind is because I started really making discoveries and looking at the mind in a completely different way that was pivotal.
And so ultimately, today’s episode is a bit mind-bending, but also eye-opening, if you will, in a great way. You know, today I worked with a beautiful volunteer. His name is Jason, and he’s just this beautiful man. He’s got a sweet heart, just an incredible sweet being. And as I began working with him, there were several things that came up for him.
Notably, he had a lot of nervousness. So he mentioned that his whole life pretty much he’s felt like this feeling of intense nervousness that his hands even shake a lot. And he’s also been struggling with this nervous eating. And so he can’t figure out what it is that is causing all of these emotions.
And so what happened is as I started to work with him, ultimately there’s a feeling of feeling like his parents were really strict. And so one feeling that came up was a feeling of feeling terrified of making a mistake. So it’s like he was so afraid of making a mistake that he didn’t want to be seen.
He didn’t want to play sports. He didn’t want, he didn’t want to do anything because it was ultimately felt like it was going to… If he made a mistake that could, like everybody was going to see him and it was going to be horrible. So that was one piece. Now, what was also interesting was this, was that out of his parents, like he felt like his parents are very strict, but his dad has the, the stronger voice, if you will, the one that was very intimidating.
But his mom also became his feeling of security. And so what ultimately happened is he developed this feeling of afraid of losing his mother. So there’s this nervousness feeling of feeling like his mom was there as a protector, you know, to come in and reassure and protect type of feeling. You know, she was the one that tucked him in at night.
She was the soft, loving voice. as he grew up. And so the reason this is a bit tricky is this, is so often if people feel like if they have a trauma or some type of thing going on in the nervous system or deeper emotion in the subconscious mind, but they feel like they had this, they feel like it’s always related towards the quote-unquote negative thing.
But so often it is a combination of things that keeps it stuck. Now, to give you a simple example, think about it in this way. So if I said something like, “Oh, I look horrible in this shirt,” what is our typical response in this culture? Typical response is, “No, you don’t. You look great.” Now, what happens in that case is somebody criticizes themselves, “I look horrible,” and somebody else says, “No, you don’t.
You look great.” So then it gets linked up, that positive, that feeling of reassurance, that feeling of a compliment. And so what happens is that creates a link. So the positive gets linked to the negative and it stays stuck. And so, and that’s what gets linked up. Or if I take another example, you know, a person typically, if you think about a stereotype for a moment, if you think about maybe drugs, one reason that a person can get linked up to drugs is why?
Because they feel like drugs feels good or drugs are cool or whatever it is. But my point is there’s a positive connection to it. And so what happens is even with a trauma, a person may hold on to a feeling of trauma because they feel like it keeps them safe. So for example, somebody feels like they were in a car accident and then they feel like they need to hold on to the trauma to stay on alert in order to keep them safe.
And so what happens is that the nervous system gets mixed up. It gets mixed emotions, if you will, because this is what can also happen is that if somebody gets in that car accident, if you will, and they feel like they have to hold on to the feeling of fear to keep them safe, what can happen is then, of course, if they start to let it go, they can feel afraid to let it go, which means it can trigger feelings of fear to try to let it go because it feels safe to hold on to it, which of course is then holding on to the fear.
So it’s a little bit mind-bending and a bit tricky, but that’s the point is that a lot of times what happens is there’s multiple, there are multiple things that are keeping information in place. And so creating that change is key to really look at what is holding it in place. And a simple or silly way to think about it is if you think about something that is, you know, nailed to a wall or something or screwed to a wall that you have to like remove multiple screws or whatever to remove it.
The same is true with mind programming is that so often there are multiple pieces that are connected to something and they can be in complete conflict with each other. And Because they’re emotions, they don’t have to be logical. So somebody can feel a sense of, uh, you know, feeling love towards somebody and also resentment towards them at the same exact time.
So it’s not logical. And so even in this case, with our beautiful volunteer, Jason, it- it’s like he, he has this, he, just beautiful heart, but he’s had this, this nervousness and as soon as we started, really started to create this shift, his nervousness went away. And so he brought it way, way, way, way down by starting to create this shift.
Now, the point being is a few things, is that ultimately with the mind, it’s not always focused on what is the, the trauma, the thing, the problem. It’s really understanding how it connects in the nervous system and the subconscious mind, and then shifting that. Because again, if I go back to the example of the car accident, you’ve probably heard me, uh, you know, mention that before, that was a very, uh, pivotal discovery because I’ve worked with people who had literally been everywhere, and they couldn’t get better and, and all of these things.
And what I realized in working with them, I said, you know, as I was working with them, I could see that as they started to let go of the fear, that basically it triggered more feelings of fear because they were afraid to let go of the fear, and so it was this major stuckness at a deeper level, and they didn’t realize it, but it just kept everything very programmed in a loop, if you will.
So it made it impossible for them to really create the change that they’re wanting. And, and I’ve seen that with so many different types of emotions from depression, from anxiety, from, you know, hurt or, uh, so many things. It’s like when we understand at a deeper level that programming, that is key. And so in this case, with working with Jason, you know, there was this feeling of feeling nervousness and feeling like his parents were going to reject him, but also this feel like if he made a mistake, but also feeling like they weren’t safe.
And yet there’s another part of him he, like honestly, the, the level of love and respect that this man has for his parents is so sweet. He just, he’s like, “I just love my parents.” I, like, he’s gushing about how much he loves his parents, and he wants their attention and approval and connectedness, and he has it, and they’re so sweet.
I mean, just a, a real, real, a, a really, really loving connection. And so- My point is, is ultimately the underlying emotions that were there are very counterintuitive. At first so much that even as we started talking about this, there was a part of Jason that was, you know, like, “Well, it’s got to…” Like this feeling afraid of death or whatnot.
But what he realized is every time we started even talking about the idea of making a mistake, he was in tears. He was moved to tears. He just couldn’t… It was just a lot, the idea of making a mistake. And he was just like, uh, you know, for him to just ha- It’s eye-opening. He’s like, “Oh my gosh,” like the, the realizing that this is what has been driving him in his subconscious mind for so many years and keeping him stuck.
It, it was just really sweet to, to, to hear him, to feel him, and, and just, you know, watch him start shifting this, and just the excitement where he said, “You know what? Life is just going to be so much better when I can just live it freely without feeling afraid of making a mistake.” And so just, there are just so many things that I love about this session, and that’s the insight that I want to share with you, or those are the insights is this, is first and foremost ultimately keeping in mind that whatever is in the subconscious mind, it’s typically always held there by multiple things.
And so in this case, it wasn’t just the fear of his dad being upset or his dad’s voice as a child, but it was also the feeling of fear of making a mistake, and if he made a mistake, what was going to happen. And because his mom was such a protector for him, even though, again, beautiful, amazing parents. He was just very intimidated by his dad’s voice, but his mom was the feeling of, of, of feeling afraid, of feeling nervous because she was the protector.
You know, that feeling of feeling like she’s going to keep him safe. And so while it might seem to a lot of people that the intimidating person is where the nervousness is, and yes, it, it was in both, but the bigger trigger had to do with something, you know, his mom, his mom being there to support his feeling of safety.
And so I know that may sound a bit tricky, but going back to this, if I give you the simple example again, if somebody criticizes, feels like, “Oh, I look horrible in this,” and somebody da- somebody else says, “No, you don’t. You look great.” That can provide that feeling of reassurance. “No, you don’t. You look great.”
And somebody says, “Ah.” So it creates the safety and that can get just linked up. So then the brain keeps firing the neural pathways in the same way. And so ultimately in his case, there was that feeling of safety with his mom that became a feeling that he needed that sense of safety to protect him from the world or things or, or whatnot.
And if he lost that, then that was the key, you know? And so again, a bit tricky, but the idea of making a mistake for him was pivotal and holding him back from so much more. So a bit hard to explain, but you get my point, which is just simply if the, that always, always with everything i- that’s, ain’t going on in the subconscious mind, there, I’ve, there are always multiple links.
And when you really identify them and address the counterintuitive ones, that’s when the shift really happens. So those are the insights that I want to share today. And by the way, if you want to really listen to this actual episode with our beautiful volunteer, Jason, you can click the link in the show notes and listen to that actual session where I worked with him.
And, uh, or if you’re somebody who does want a deeper understanding of mind body healing and how it works, there is also a link in the show notes there as well. And on that note, as always, I want to ask you to take just a quick moment to hit the share button on this episode. You know, share it with somebody you love, somebody you care about, or somebody you don’t even know, because the more that every single person in our world feels happy and healthy and loved and loving, truly the better this world is for all of us.
And so please do take just a quick moment to hit the share button and please do make a point to have an incredible rest of your day. I look forward to connecting with you on the next episode. We’ll see you there. Thank you for listening to Heal Yourself. Change Your Life. If you’d like to become a volunteer or join our members area, you can do so by visiting BrandyGillmore.com.
Also, please remember to be responsible with your health. This podcast is for inspirational purposes only. You won’t want to make any changes to your medication or to your medical care based on this podcast, nor would you ever want to avoid seeing your doctor. Instead, it’s best to see your doctor regularly, keep them informed on what you are doing, and you could make it your goal to blow their minds with what you are capable of with your mind.
Thank you.
